Famous Songs About Dads and Children

Although we all know it will happen one day, losing a father can be shocking and devastating. This experience can leave us feeling emotions that we have never felt before, feelings which may be hard to express and share with loved ones because each of us experiences loss differently. Each of us travels along a unique journey of grieving. Those around us might not completely understand or be able to console us. Our unique path of grieving helps us to accept the empty space where our father used to be. The healing process is a deeply emotional one and music can assist us and be a great comfort. Music offers us a kinship, a kind of bond with the song and its writer, while music has universal and shared healing properties, it's especially therapeutic when songs are written from a father’s point of view.

An empty space appears in your life when you lose a father, someone you may have counted on, someone you knew so well, someone that was always part of your life, now gone forever. You are left to stand without him, on your own two feet; this is scary, no matter what age you are at the time. Who knows you better than your father? Even if the relationship was rocky at times, he will always be your father, he is irreplaceable. You are now left feeling like there is an empty space; as if not only your father, but a part of yourself is now missing.

Now you are left to grieve, yet hopefully you have support along the way. While each of us grieve in the same order, typically we will go through five stages of grief. The five stages of grieving include denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and ultimately, acceptance. Moving through these processes relies heavily on acknowledging your feelings in order to reach the next stage. Losing a close family member such as your father registers high on the stress scale, so this type of grieving can be more impactful than other losses.

Music can be a great solace through the process. Music can allow feelings to arise that may be blocked or repressed. Songs written from a father to a child may help you remember your dad; remember the love he had for you, and how it felt to be loved by him. Though these are examples of the songs that have helped me along my own journey towards healing, and each song offers a different perspective on a dad's love. If you have lost a father as well, it is my hope that this collection of songs might help you heal. Maybe it'll even help you to conjure some fond memories, bringing a smile to your face when you need it most.

Please take the time to explore these song choices as they may be helpful, not only for those grieving, but for those looking to explore the loving relationship between a father and his child.

Songs From a Father to His Children

• "You are Not Alone"—Michael Jackson
• "I’m Already There"—Lonestar
• "Fields of Gold"—Sting
• "Your Song"—Elton John
• "Yellow"—Cold Play
• "Always on Your Mind"—Willie Nelson
• "Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel)"—Billy Joel
• "Somewhere Out There"—Linda Ronstadt and Aaron Neville

Album: HIStory: Past, Present and Future, Book I

Release Date: August 15, 1995

Genre: Pop

If you are missing your Dad or a loved one, this melody is sure to hit a nerve and maybe trigger some tears. When we lose a loved one, at first there is a shock and feeling of loss, but this is often followed by the feeling that they still exist, that they are still with us. Written by R. Kelly and sung by Michael Jackson, this slow tempo song along with its lyrics is touching, soothing and consoling.

Album: I'm Already There

Release Date: March 26, 2001

Genre: Country

Written by Lonestar lead singer, McDonald, I’m Already There was inspired by a phone call with his four year old son during a long separation. The lyrics of this song can also relate to missing a father who has passed. Although they are physically gone, their spirit lives on and they are always “there.”

Album: Ten Summoner's Tales

Release Date: May, 1993

Genre: Pop

“Fields of Gold” is about those beautiful times that loved ones share together, the occasions that turn even sweeter and more golden in our memories. Although written and made famous by Sting, “Fields of Gold” has been covered by many famous artists, most notably by Eva Cassidy. This is a haunting song. Its lyrical imagery brings you to a reflective and emotional place.

Album: Elton John

Release Date: October 26, 1970

Genre: Pop

"Your Song" is a very well known and beloved ballad. Written in 1967, this is one of the first times that Elton John put music to Bernie Taupin's lyrics. This musical duo went on to write a seemingly infinite number of hit songs and albums. The music of “Your Song” has a melancholy undertone ,but a message of undying love and a request to be accepted for who we are. This song could have easily been written by a father to his beloved child.

Album: Parachutes

Release Date: June 26, 2000

Genre: Pop

“Yellow” is a song about loving someone and the willingness to do anything for them. Your father could have composed this for you because it is through their love that they want so much for their children. Chris Martin sings, “Look at the stars, Look how they shine for you, and everything you do.” It's easy to see these lyrics having been written by a loving father.

Album: Always on My Mind

Release Year: 1982

Genre: Country

If your Dad was not around often, this song could very well apply to you. Some fathers find it hard to be close to their children, but this does not mean they didn’t feel love towards them. This song talks to this sentiment of love from a distance.

Album: River of Dreams

Release Year: 1994

Genre: Adult contemporary

When singer songwriter Billy Joel’s daughter asked him about death he answered her question with a song, a spiritually moving musical masterpiece called “Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel).” When discussing the song, Joel explained his view that although we die, we live on in the hearts of those we’ve loved.

Album: An American Tail: Music from the Motion Picture Soundtrack

Release Year: November 21, 1986

Genre:

This captivating song from the Disney movie An American Tale, takes its inspiration from Beethoven’s well-known Pathetique no. 8 2^nd movement. This version of the duet, sung by Linda Ronstadt and Aaron Neville, is a moving interpretation. Although the song is more about love surviving time and distance, this enchanting song imparts the message that we can feel loved no matter where we are, because love transcends both time and space.