100 Songs About Domestic Violence and Child Abuse

Updated on November 12, 2018
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Spread awareness about domestic violence and child abuse with a playlist of pop, rock, and country songs. Be part of the solution. | Source

The Dangerous, Ugly Cycle of Domestic Violence

Chances are that you know someone who abuses his or her partner or children. They could be a relative, coworker, neighbor, someone you go to church with, even your child's teacher or coach.

Perhaps you want to dismiss that as an unlikely possibility or as someone else's problem. However, domestic abuse crosses all socioeconomic, demographic, and religious boundaries. Here's the ugly truth:

  • Every nine seconds in the United States, a woman is beaten.
  • Ten million American children are exposed to domestic violence each year.
  • Long-term impacts of child abuse include higher risks of smoking, drinking, and sexual activity at an early age; illicit substance abuse; criminal activity; teen pregnancy; adult psychopathology and suicide; and even heart and liver disease decades later.
  • Children who grew up in abusive homes are at a three-fold risk of perpetuating the cycle.

Outside of the secrecy of home, the vast majority of abusers are law-abiding citizens without criminal records. However, the trauma that they inflict can last a lifetime.

One way you can help spread awareness about the epidemic of domestic violence and child abuse is through music. Make a playlist of pop, rock, and country songs about this painful, moving topic that impacts so many lives.

You can also be attentive. Lives may depend on you noticing and reporting what you see. (Click here to learn about traits and warning signs of abusers or here

regarding what to do if you think someone is abusing a child.)

1. "Concrete Angel" by Martina McBride

This heart wrenching 2002 country song features an abused little girl who packs her own lunch and walks to school in the same dress she wore yesterday. She hides bruises and the awful secret of how they got there.

Although a teacher wonders about the child's home life, no one dares to ask or intervene. Without a lifeline, the sad little girl becomes a cemetery concrete angel, eyes cast skyward. Her spirit flies away to a place where she is finally loved.

2. "Cherry Wine" by Hozier

Conveyed from the perspective of the battered partner, this 2016 pop song highlights the confusion, justification, and self-blame felt in abusive love relationships. The narrator is involved with a woman with an icy stare and a bad temper, and he unfortunately mistakes her outbursts as love:

The way she shows me I'm hers and she is mine
Open hand or closed fist would be fine
The blood is rare and sweet as cherry wine.

3. "Luka" by Suzanne Vega

Abuse victims often provide similar rationales to others for their wounds: "I'm clumsy" or "I walked into the door again." Those are some of the reasons the protagonist gives for her injuries. She is a young girl named Luka, and she addresses a downstairs neighbor in her apartment building who must've heard the abuse late at night. Dutifully trying to protect her abuser(s), Luka tries to convince the neighbor that it's all under control.

The 1987 pop tune became an international hit. This was the same year that lawyer Joel Steinberg and companion Hedda Nussbaum were charged with the beating and subsequent death of an illegally adopted six-year-old child in their care. The case received national attention.

Steinberg ultimately was convicted of manslaughter but is out on parole today. Meanwhile, Nussbaum, a battered person herself, escaped punishment and now lives under an assumed name.

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4. "Never Again" by Nickelback

Children who are trapped in their parents' abusive marriages experience more trauma than their parents understand. In this 2002 rock song, a child describes his drunken father using his mother as a punching bag. He subsequently instructs her to tell the emergency room nurse that she slipped and fell.

When the violence repeats itself, the battered woman pulls a gun on her husband in self-defense. All of their lives are about to change permanently.

5. "Alyssa Lies" by Jason Michael Carroll

Based on a true story of a little girl who was abused, this 2007 country song was so emotionally grueling to write that it took the singer-songwriter two years to complete. It also gave him migraines.

The tune portrays a girl whose school playmate lies to classmates and others about her bruises to protect her abuser. The daughter realizes something is wrong and asks her father why Alyssa lies. Before the father could report the suspicions to authorities, the classmate had been beaten to death by her abuser.

6. "Because of You" by Kelly Clarkson

This 2005 ballad reached the top of the charts and became an international hit. It describes the lasting impact of growing up with psychological abuse. The narrator attributes her overcautious, untrusting tendencies and fear of taking chances to her father. The harsh criticism she endured has left her with a deep sense of shame.

October Is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month

One-quarter of all adults report having been physically abused as children.
One-quarter of all adults report having been physically abused as children. | Source

7. "Behind the Wall" by Tracy Chapman

Every night the neighbor in this 1987 pop song hears the screaming and loud voices in the adjoining apartment. From experience, she has learned that it's pointless to call the police because nothing will be done.

Not being able to help makes her feel victimized as well:

And when they arrive
They say they can't interfere
With domestic affairs
Between a man and his wife
And as they walk out the door
The tears well up in her eyes.

8. "Kiss with a Fist" by Florence + The Machine

These two so-called lovers need to be separated for their own safety. Neither love nor affection is supposed to physically hurt, but the narrator in this 2008 pop song doesn't understand that.

She and her lover trade escalating hits, punches, slaps, and even broken bones. They confuse their mutual violence for love or something like it. Hey, break it up, go get healthy, and don't date anyone until you do. (Florence Welch alleges this song isn't about domestic violence, but I'm not buying it.)

9. "The Little Girl" by John Michael Montgomery

Even if you aren't religious, this 2000 country song will tug at your heart. It describes the young daughter of an alcoholic father and drug-addicted mother. The child thought she was fending for herself.

Poorly parented, the girl was left alone to watch television all day while her parents battled each other and gave in to the worst of their substance abuse. During the most unbearable moments, she hid in fear behind the family sofa. That's where she crouched when her enraged father turned a gun on both her mother and himself one night, making her an orphan.

In her foster home, she went to Sunday school for the first time and saw a picture of Jesus on the cross. Immediately, she recognized Him as the same man who hid behind the couch with her that fateful night.

National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

Highly trained advocates are available 24/7 to talk confidentially with anyone experiencing domestic violence, seeking information or resources, or questioning unhealthy aspects of their relationship.

10. "Run for Your Life" by The Beatles

When you think of The Beatles, chances are the first thing that pops into your mind is not the misogynistic death threat in this 1965 rock song. However, let's be honest: Mr. Peace and Love, John Lennon, did hit women and children.

Primarily a Lennon composition, this sinister ditty speaks for itself:

Well, I'd rather see you dead, little girl
Than to be with another man
You better keep your head, little girl
Or you won't know where I am.

11. "Warrior" by Demi Lovato

The narrator in this 2012 pop song recalls experiencing childhood trauma, a criminal act that changed her forever. She regrets that she was forced to grow up too fast and for so long felt broken and bruised. However, now, she wears her pain like a battle scar and describes herself as a warrior and a survivor.

Studies show that one in five girls and one in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse, although these numbers could be higher because such abuse is often not reported.

12. "Hush" by Hellyeah

Frontman Chad Gray and others like him have grown up within an abusive environment that many of us can only imagine. This 2014 heavy metal song is about that hell. It describes what can go on in emotionally and physically unsafe homes: insulting names, beatings to the point that the narrator peed his pants, screams, and strangleholds.

The song was meant to spark conversations about domestic violence. Chad Gray wanted others who had experienced abuse like he did to know that they are not alone. He also had this message about domestic violence:

Life is full of forgiveness, and I’ve had to forgive to live a more settled life. So forgive, lay down your arms, be a better person and take a stand with me.

13. "Gunpowder and Lead" by Miranda Lambert

Don't try this at home. In this sassy 2007 country song, the narrator was beaten by her live-in lover. Now, she's toting a loaded gun and is seeking revenge.

After topping up on liquid courage, she waits by the front door with a loaded shotgun, cigarette hanging from her lips. She's waiting for her abuser to return from his all-too-brief stint in jail.

Ominously, she warns, "His fist is big, but my gun's bigger. He'll find out when I pull the trigger."

14. "Two Beds and a Coffee Machine" by Savage Garden

Trapped in a relationship where she's a human punching bag, the woman in this haunting 1999 pop song often takes her kids and escapes the abuse, even if it's just for a short time. They spend the night in cheap hotels with two beds and a coffee machine.

Unfortunately, with groceries and other bills, she feels the economic pressure to keep returning home. She wonders how they will ever make it through.

15. "What's the Matter Here?" by 10,000 Maniacs

Bystanders are so afraid to get involved, but that's one reason why an estimated five children die every day from child abuse and neglect. Natalie Merchant, who wrote the song, based it on a real family who once lived nearby.

The 1987 rock song profiles a woman who realizes that her neighbors are abusing their young son. She hears the threats of violence and sees their half-naked child run into the yard, looking for a place to hide. Rather than calling authorities, however, she hesitates, struggling with whether to speak up or continue to mind her own business. What would you do?

16. "Church Bells" by Carrie Underwood

This darkly entertaining country song from 2015 tells the story of a poor but beautiful girl, Jenny, who married a millionaire. However, the trouble was this: he was an angry and violent drunk, and all the money in the world couldn't make up for that fact.

Eventually, Jenny grew tired of being on the receiving end of black eyes and bruises, so she slipped a permanent solution into her old man's whiskey. And then they were even.

17. "I'm OK" by Christina Aguilera

According to this 2002 pop song, when you grow up in a home where there is domestic violence, reaching adulthood is like surviving years living in a combat zone. The bruises and marks fade, but the guilt and anguish have left permanent scars. Despite her father's abuse against her mother, the narrator provides reassurance that she's made it out okay.

18. "Love the Way You Lie" by Eminem (featuring Rihanna)

The push and pull of a mutually addictive, brutal relationship—that's what this 2009 song is about. And the artists who sing it should know a thing or two about the topic, as they've each been involved in toxic love affairs.

The international chart-topper depicts the cycle of violent aggression between lovers, the lies that it will never happen again, and the justifications for not walking away from the unhealthy relationship.

1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have been victims of physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime. - National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)
1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have been victims of physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime. - National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) | Source

19. "Rearview Mirror" by Pearl Jam

Home is supposed to be a safe place, but the young man in this 1993 rock song has endured years of beatings, humiliation, and fear there. As he drives away from the horrors of his past, he feels emancipation, and he sees the abusive situation more clearly in his rearview mirror.

20. "Oh, Mother" by Christina Aguilera

This tender pop song from 2006 addresses the narrator's mother who was a victim of spousal abuse for years. Her mother covered up her own cuts and bruises, but when her husband turned his violent rage on the kids, she decided that was it. The narrator thanks her mother for her bravery and reassures her that together they will always pull through.

In the United States, there is a one in three chance that a high school aged girl experiences violence in a dating relationship.
In the United States, there is a one in three chance that a high school aged girl experiences violence in a dating relationship. | Source

Even More Songs About Domestic Violence and Child Abuse

Song
Artist
Year Released
21. Janie's Got a Gun
Aerosmith
1989
22. His Hands
Jennifer Nettles
2014
23. Black and Blue
Mindy McCready
unreleased
24. Pulling Teeth
Green Day
1994
25. Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?
The Offspring
2008
26. Devil in a Midnight Mass
Billy Tallent
2006
27. Independence Day
Martina McBride
1993
28. Levi Stubbs' Tears
Billy Bragg
1986
29. Good Enough
Sarah McLachlin
1993
30. Daughter
Pearl Jam
1993
31. Holy Water
Big & Rich
2004
32. Johnny Get Angry
Joanie Sommers
1962
33. Goodbye Earl
Dixie Chicks
1999
34. Call Me Guilty
Jazmine Sullivan
2008
35. Hell is for Children
Pat Benatar
1980
36. For The Love of a Daughter
Demi Lovato
2010
37. Blown Away
Carrie Underwood
2012
38. Broken Girl
Matthew West
2010
39. Steven
Jake Miller
2013
40. 11th Commandment
Collin Raye
1998
41. Karate
Brad Paisley
2013
42. Girl
Destiny's Child
2005
43. Dear Father
Black Sabbath
2012
44. Nobody Wins
Jodeci
2015
45. Tell Me Why
Taylor Swift
2008
46. Leave
Michael W. Smith
2010
47. He Hit Me (And It Felt Like a Kiss)
The Crystals
1963
48. 30 Minute Break
The Luka State
2014
49. Dear Mr. Jesus
PowerSource
1986
50. Open Wounds
Skillet
2003
51. Bang and Blame
R.E.M.
1994
52. Don't Leave Me Now
Pink Floyd
1979
53. Amy in the White Coat
Bright Eyes
2006
54. Crawling
Linkin Park
2000
55. Ask Me
Amy Grant
1990
56. Do You Know Where Your Children Are?
Michael Jackson
2014
57. Runaway Love
Ludacris (featuring Mary J. Blige)
2006
58. Sleep
Stabbing Westward
1996
59. Candyman
Siouxdie and The Banshees
1986
60. Evening Shade
Dolly Parton
1969
61. A Child Called "It"
Buckcherry
2008
62. Oh, Father
Madonna
1989
63. Don't Let Daddy Kiss Me
Motorhead
1993
64. Nowhere to Stand
k.d. lang and The Reclines
1989
65. Hands Clean
Alanis Morissette
2002
66. Daddy's Little Defect
Sugarcult
2001
67. Flinch
Alanis Morissette
2002
68. I Would Be Stronger Than That
Faith Hill
1993
69. A Man's Home Is His Castle
Faith Hill
1995
70. Black Eyes, Blue Tears
Shania Twain
1997
71. Hotter Than Hell
Dua Lipa
2017
72. Vicious Love
New Found Glory
2014
73. Cold Case Love
Rihanna
2009
74. Hey Men
Men Without Hats
1989
75. In The Night
The Weeknd
2015
76. Russian Roulette
Rihanna
2009
77. Bang Bang
Nancy Sinatra
1966
78. Little Toy Guns
Carrie Underwood
2015
79. Daddy's Girl
Scorpions
1993
80. Yvette
Jason Isbell
2013
81. The Stairs
Reba McEntire
1987
82. Ultraviolence
Lana Del Rey
2014
83. Praying
Kesha
2017
84. Elastic Heart
Sia
2015
85. Please Don't Believe Me
Terry Sue Crawford
2002
86. It Shouldn't Hurt to Be a Child
Hollow Hearts Ft: Calli Kathleen.
2012
87. Daddy, Did You Know?
Lelica
2011
88. Only Women Bleed
Lita Ford
1990
89. Face Down
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
2006
90. Delilah
Tom Jones
1968
91. Mother Dear
The Supremes
1965
92. Alive
Pearl Jam
1991
93. Sarah Yellin'
3 Doors Down
2002
94. Justified Black Eye
Tony Sly
2004
95. Revenge
Papa Roach
2000
96. What She Had to
Lonestar
2006
97. I Am, I Feel
Alisha's Attic
1996
98. Woman in the Wall
The Beautiful South
1989
99. Broken Wing
Martina McBride
1997
100. Facade
Disturbed
2008
Know a song about domestic violence or child abuse (that doesn't seem to promote it)? If we left off one of your favorites, make a suggestion in the Comments Section below.
Children who experience abuse and neglect are 9 times more likely to become involved in criminal activity.
Children who experience abuse and neglect are 9 times more likely to become involved in criminal activity. | Source

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      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        4 weeks ago from USA

        Bill - Thank you for the suggestion. I added it for our metal fans. Have a good week.

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        Bill 

        4 weeks ago

        Facade by Disturbed is another one, for those who like heavier music.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        2 months ago from USA

        I'mTryingtoSurvive - This hurts my heart to know that it's going on in your home. You are absolutely not to blame for this, not one iota. Please tell a responsible adult, whether that is your mother, another relative, trusted teacher or school counselor. You can also contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or RAINN's National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800-656-HOPE(4673) or chat online at https://hotline.rainn.org/online/. My kindest thoughts are with you dear one.

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        I'mTryingtoSurvive 

        2 months ago

        My stepdad is sexually and verbally abuse and I hate the thought of someone else going through what I have to go through. I feel like some people just don't realize how often it actually happens

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        FlourishAnyway 

        2 months ago from USA

        Asbjørn Søllested - Thank you for the song suggestion which I have added at 95. Have a great week. Be happy and well.

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        Asbjørn Søllested 

        2 months ago

        Revenge by Papa roach?

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        FlourishAnyway 

        5 months ago from USA

        StayCSarcastic - Thank you for the song suggestion. I have added it to the playlist. Be well and have a good week.

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        StayCSarcastic 

        5 months ago

        Justified Black Eye - Tony Sly (Acoustic Version)

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        FlourishAnyway 

        5 months ago from USA

        Harleen - Thank you for those additions. I appreciate you. Have a good weekend.

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        Harleen 

        5 months ago

        Here’s two more: “Alive” by Pearl Jam and “Sarah Yellin’” by 3 Doors Down

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        FlourishAnyway 

        6 months ago from USA

        Cynthia - That's so sad. How in the world does one ever gain that trust when so many boundaries have been violated? Thanks for sharing your experience working with survivors.

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        Cynthia 

        6 months ago from Vancouver Island, Canada

        Good job, as always, in researching the music that goes with emotionally-wrenching life events. "Luka" really stood out for me-- I was working in domestic abuse at the time, in a shelter with children who had been to hell and back, seeing their mothers beaten, being neglected and abused themselves. One of the saddest stories I ever heard was from a young woman who was abused by her father-- physically, emotionally, sexually-- and no one ever intervened. She trusted no one.

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        Robert Sacchi 

        6 months ago

        Yes, definitely. http://www.autism-society.org/

        Heather, does your cousin live near you?

      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        6 months ago from USA

        Robert - Heather might also consider local, regional, and national Autism organizations such as the Autism Society of America. Or contact an attorney.

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        Robert Sacchi 

        6 months ago

        Heather, that's horrible. Are other family members aware of the situation?

        Have you contacted your local ARC chapter

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        FlourishAnyway 

        6 months ago from USA

        Heather - Don't give up. Start writing letters and send them certified mail, marked "URGENT." Keep a copy. Send a copy to the Governor if you must.

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        Heather 

        6 months ago

        my 4 year old cousin who's autistic and cant speak is starved beaten and neglected. Ive told all the so called right people and all they say are "sorry about that": Someone needs to do something before its to late.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        7 months ago from USA

        Dear Janey - Your personal story is so important for others to read. Someone who is close to me has experienced and still experiences threats of violence to herself and her children from her mentally ill husband (whom she is divorcing). I include her story here: https://hubpages.com/problems/Divorce-and-Intimate...

        Continue to be strong and vigilant and know that you are not alone. Thank you for sharing your story so that others can realize they are not alone either! All the best to you.

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        Janey Finnie 

        7 months ago

        Hi I was a victim of Domestic violence for 13 years I have now been away from him for two years I had to get a restraining order against him for three years but he still manages to abuse me the police have being looking for him for 3 weeks. The state I still have to live in is bad but it's not hell living with him was hell but every time I walk into my hallway I cry because of all the locked and bolts all the way up my door I'm embarrassed to have anyone over because then they'll think I'm paranoid but the police done a risk check on my ex partner and because the scores he hit were high there just trying to keep me safe till they find him but I urge anyone who's being abused both mentally and physically there's lots of help out there and the abuser never needs to no about the help you're giving even if they phone you and your abuser is sitting with you they're highly trained like I had a safe word like if I said I'm already with a good phone provider they would know my abuser was with me so they would just say thanks for your time goodbye, that really helped me and. I'm not saying it's easy because it's not but it's so worth it I've had times when I've wanted to go back with my ex but didn't understand why that was intill I was told to google toxic bonds then it made sense I wasn't missing my ex my body and hormones were getting messed up because the toxins the body releases after the abuse it's very interesting infact I think teenagers should be taught at school what happens in abusive relationship because a lot of young people confuse the chemicals that you're body releases you think that you love the person GOOGLE TOXIC BONDS then you'll all no what I'm meaning I started going with my abuser when I had just turned 16 then I was pregnant within weeks but if I had known about toxic bonds I wouldn't have stayed with him but I had to walk my path and it's only made me a stronger person thanks very much Flourish the playlist helped me sending my prayers love and hugs to everyone may love and light BLESS USE ALL.

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        Robert Sacchi 

        8 months ago

        You're welcome.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        8 months ago from USA

        Bob - Thanks for the song suggestion. I've added it to both this playlist and the following playlist about stalkers, creepers, and obsessive love: https://hubpages.com/genres/50-Songs-About-Stalker...

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        Robert Sacchi 

        8 months ago

        Would Delilah fall into this category?

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        FlourishAnyway 

        8 months ago from USA

        Aaron - Thanks for that song suggestion. I've added it to the list at #89. Have a good weekend.

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        Aaron 

        8 months ago

        Ummm face down by red jumpsuit aparatus

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        Robert Sacchi 

        9 months ago

        You're welcome,

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        FlourishAnyway 

        9 months ago from USA

        Bob - Thanks for your kind comment.

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        Robert Sacchi 

        9 months ago

        These are powerful songs. Many of them made a definite impact. You did well by posting this article.

      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        9 months ago from USA

        Katie - Thank you for these suggestions. I have added them. I wish you all the best. - Flourish

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        Katie 

        10 months ago

        "Please don't believe me" by Terry Sue Crawford or Alan O'Day.

        "It shouldn't hurt to be a child" by Hollow Hearts Ft: Calli Kathleen.

        Just a few more.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        10 months ago from USA

        imscared - Adding this song. Thank you for the suggestion. Be safe.

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        imscared 

        10 months ago

        Elastic Heart by Sia definitely works for this situation

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        FlourishAnyway 

        10 months ago from USA

        hatingmydad - PLEASE reach out to the domestic violence hotline listed in this article 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) so that you'll reach someone caring, trained, and able to talk to you one-on-one. You do not deserve to be abused, and there are people who care. Abuse can have immediate impacts upon a person's safety, plus long-term impacts upon a person's self-esteem and how well they are able to function in the world. Please call that number.

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        hatingmydad 

        10 months ago

        Im abused daily. I don't know who to talk to and I don't like my dad. I dont know what to do. But I know i wanna stay here at home. idk what to do.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Tracy Pierce - Although not intended about domestic violence or child abuse, this song is definitely appropriate for the topic. Thank you for the suggestion! I've added it as #83.

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        Tracy Pierce 

        13 months ago

        Praying by Keisha

      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Catherine - I'm so sorry to hear that you were a victim a child abuse. I think if more people stood up and self-identified, then other victims wouldn't feel so isolated and alone. Thank you for sharing.

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        Catherine Giordano 

        13 months ago from Orlando Florida

        What I love about your playlists is that you so often call attention to important issues. Child abuse and spousal (mainly wife) abuse are such important issues. Thanks for shining a spotlight on this. I read the intros, but I couldn't bear to listen to the songs. I was a victim of child abuse and I still suffer the effects of it.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Anna - If you're talking about HP, I just publish and they pick it up or don't. Then every two weeks you can submit them to one of the niche sites using the buttons at the top of your hub. Hope that helps.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Shyron - Thank you so much for your kind words of support. I hope it raises the awareness I imagined. Thinking of you. Have a good week.

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        Shyron E Shenko 

        13 months ago from Texas

        I tried to search my memory for a song(s) about abuse and came up empty. This is a great hub and it should help people get help if they are being abused.

        Blessings my friend.

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        Anna Haun 

        13 months ago from USA

        Thanks. Where is everyone submitting articles? I've worked all day trying to submit articles.I submitted to search engines today.

      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Anna - Thank you. You are brave. I wish you peace.

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        Anna Haun 

        13 months ago from USA

        Thank you. If you ever do a follow-up story about the victims of abuse, you can interview me. I don't write on the topic, the closet I came to that subject was human trafficking.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Anna - I'm sorry you lived with abuse for so long but hope that you are safe and well now. Thank you for visiting and sharing your story.

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        Anna Haun 

        13 months ago from USA

        I've experienced physical abuse from my other half for eight long years until his passing and it's a cycle hard to get away from. Your article is wonderfully written, I enjoyed it very much.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        13 months ago from USA

        Jennifer Mansfield - So sad that there are so many songs about this topic. I appreciate your suggestion and have added it at #81. Be well and happy.

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        Jennifer Mansfield 

        13 months ago

        The Stairs Reba 1987

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        Yancosky 

        14 months ago from Uninhabited Regions

        You are welcome:-) Have a wonderful week, too!

      • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Tamara, Thank you for your kind comment. Have a wonderful week!

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        Yancosky 

        14 months ago from Uninhabited Regions

        Flourish,

        Not only do I like these songs that you have taken the time to post in concern for those who suffer these tragedies, but you are so kind to put the number of a resource in which to call for help.

        Your songs are fun, but also they help us, too!

        Tamara xxx

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Paula - I completely understand. Thanks for sharing a bit of your story.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Dianna - I hope that it prompts victims to seek help and realize they are not alone. Thank you for weighing in.

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        Paula 

        14 months ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

        F.A. I stopped by to just say, "Hello" & to apologize. I simply can't read this one, but I'm certain it is as excellent as all your work is.

        Even after (or perhaps "because of) decades of work, so closely associated with this shameful & egregious social sickness, I've taken as much of a permanent hiatus as possible, without being unconscious.

        No matter how lengthy, how "clinical" or whatever small successes, it is personally unavoidable that I STILL experience severely visceral reaction.

        Just know I do love your song articles. Paula

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        Dianna Mendez 

        14 months ago

        I didn't realize there were so many songs touching this subject. I pray they awaken people to the truth of such unfortunate crimes.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        42 - I almost deleted your comment simply because of your "name," however your song suggestion is a good one. I'm adding it.

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        childbeater42 

        14 months ago

        what about Yvette by Jason Isbell!?

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Devika - Thank you for your support and encouragement.

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        DDE 

        14 months ago

        Such songs do have a great connection with victims. You created a beautiful and meaningful hub!

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Linda - Sometimes songs can connect people to helpful resources. That's what I hope to do for those who need them. They need to realize that not only are they not alone but also that there's help. Thanks for stopping by. Have a good weekend.

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        Linda Crampton 

        14 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

        This is an important article, Flourish. I hope many people read it. It's not pleasant to think of the pain and suffering that you describe, but it's something that we all need to be aware of. Thank you for creating the article.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Larry - Thanks for your support. I agree that we need to become more aware of its prevalence. The victims walk among us every day and we aren't even aware of the pain they've endured or are enduring. I hope you are doing well.

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        Larry Rankin 

        14 months ago from Oklahoma

        Luka, Goodbye Earl, Janie's got a gun, never realized there were so many good songs about this despicable act.

        Great list.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Dora - I agree that it's a serious problem and hope this creates awareness around this epidemic.

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        Dora Weithers 

        14 months ago from The Caribbean

        These crimes are no laughing matter, and even in your list it is the girl or woman who gets the blows. Hopefully these lyrics reach the hearts and minds of these who seem unreachable otherwise.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Nell - Thank you for offering up that song. I have added it as #79. The more we shine light on the problem, the more we can bring hope to ending it.

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        Nell Rose 

        14 months ago from England

        Powerful songs and meaning, there is another one that I always find so strong, its Scorpions Daddys Girl. Powerful, scary and too many people out there doing it. Good to see songs talking about this kind of thing.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Jo - Thanks for stopping by regardless. Trying to let people know they are not alone and raise awareness for those not directly impacted. Have a good week, sweet lady.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Linda - I think musicians and songwriters sing and write about what they know, and unfortunately, domestic abuse all too often is part of that reality. Thanks for weighing in.

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        Jo Miller 

        14 months ago from Tennessee

        When I saw the title of this article I knew it would be brutal. Tough to get through. Don't think I want to listen to any of these songs for a bit.

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        Linda Correa 

        14 months ago

        Wow , I was clueless that there were so many songs about domestic abuse. So sad that society has to portray the real statistics in music. Wondering what that says about our culture

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Rasma - There are so many walking wounded people who have been abused in their homes. Another reason to be kind to others, as we never know what one is dealing with in other aspects of their life. Thanks for reading.

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        Gypsy Rose Lee 

        14 months ago from Riga, Latvia

        WOW I didn't realize there were so many songs on such a tragic subject. Thanks for sharing as always. I will have to check come of these out as I don't know practically any of them.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Martie - It's so sad to think about how often we clobber one another with our words as well as our fists in our own homes. If you cannot feel safe there, where can you feel safe? My family doctor now routinely asks all patients, "Do you feel safe at home?"

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        Martie Coetser 

        14 months ago from South Africa

        Those statistics are horrifying! And so many sad songs about domestic violence! Nowadays, extremely aware of all the violence in this world, Jesus' advice about being sad when a baby is born and happy when someone dies makes sense to me.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Shyron - That’s a perfect way to commemorate National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I look forward to reading it.

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        Shyron E Shenko 

        14 months ago from Texas

        I just found a poem that I wrote for my dear friend Trudy who was an abused child. I thought that I published it but I am not sure...so I will publish it in the very near future..

        Blessings my friend

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Larry - So often women who stay with men who abuse them are economically trapped. Suze Orman provides wonderful advice to every woman about having a freedom fund in case you ever need to escape. People never think it will be them, but there are a lot of people who have been surprised. I agree with you that the violence needs to stop. I'm a believer that there are many more kind people than bad ones. We just have to highlight the good and stand up for what is right when we see bad things happening. Have a wonderful week and spread kindness to all you know.

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        Larry W Fish 

        14 months ago from Raleigh

        This is one of the most touching and heartbreaking posts I have read in a long time. Thank you for writing it and bringing domestic and child abuse to peoples attention. It is often told through song and I hope that people listen to those words and really think. There is so much abuse in the world and it is so sad. In one of my recent posts, Under the Sunglasses, I try to bring the attention of abuse to people and get them to realize that they have to get away from it. I know many women stay with a man after being abused over and over again and honestly I can not understand why. No man should ever hit a woman under any circumstances at any time. Any man or woman that abuses a child is the lowest of the low. They should be locked up and the key thrown away. There is so much hate in this world, it needs stop, it just needs to stop.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        shanmarie - It's so sad. Words wound too and are recalled many years later. I'm adding your suggested song. Thanks so much.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Dunbar Green - I completely agree. We need to talk to our daughters and sons about it and show them by example how to love and solve conflicts in the home and outside of it as well without violence. Thanks for chiming in!

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        Shannon Henry 

        14 months ago from Texas

        Many of these song make me cry, especially "Concrete Angel." Can't even ding along without choking back tears. I don't know how Martina does it.

        It's about witnessing verbal abuse, but "Little Toy Guns" by Carrie Underwood might be one you want to include.

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        Dunbar Green 

        14 months ago

        Kudos! Domestic violence must be talked and written about until everyone acknowledges it. Then we can finally end it.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Linda - I'm so sorry to hear that. I know that you are a good support system for your loved one. I hope they are safe and healing. Both my mother and grandmother were physically abused in their earlier marriages. It leaves lifelong impacts. Thank you for sharing so that others know they are not alone.

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        Linda Lum 

        14 months ago from Washington State, USA

        This one hits too close to home (not me, but someone in my family). Physical abuse is horrid, but verbal abuse can be just as injurious. It leaves scars that never completely heal. Thanks for a thought-provoking article.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Bill - It's a sad topic and the fact that it touches so many people's lives is even sadder. One of the most common causes of homelessness among teenagers is physical and sexual abuse at home.

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        Bill Holland 

        14 months ago from Olympia, WA

        Well, I got #6 and #29. so I did better than usual. Sad list...oddly, I never thought of the one by The Beatles but obviously that's what it is about.

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        FlourishAnyway 

        14 months ago from USA

        Shyron - Thanks for the song suggestion. I've added it at #77. Hope your week is a good one!

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        Shyron E Shenko 

        14 months ago from Texas

        Bang Bang

        Nancy Sinatra

        I was five and he was six

        We rode on horses made of sticks

        He wore black and I wore white

        He would always win the fight

        Bang bang, he shot me down

        Bang bang, I hit the ground

        Bang bang, that awful sound

        Bang bang, my baby shot me down

        Seasons came and changed the time

        When I grew up, I called him mine

        He would always laugh and say

        "Remember when we used to play?"

        Bang bang, I shot you down

        Bang bang, you hit the ground

        Bang bang, that awful sound

        Bang bang, I used to shoot you down

        Music played and people sang

        Just for me the church bells rang

        Now he's gone, I don't know why

        And 'till this day, sometimes I cry

        He didn't even say goodbye

        He didn't take the time to lie

        Bang bang, he shot me down

        Bang bang, I hit the ground

        Bang bang, that awful sound

        Bang bang, my baby shot me down

        This song was the theme song for the movie “Kill Bill”

        It tells the story of a violent man who shot his pregnant girlfriend and took her baby from what he thought was her dead body.

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