84 Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone
Crushes: You're More Obvious Than You Believe
Crushes aren't just for teens. Adults get them too.
If your crush is on a coworker, neighbor, classmate, or friend, you probably daydream about taking the relationship to the next level. You earnestly believe your crush is your little secret. However, here's a news flash: the signs you're giving out are like a blinking neon light.
While you pine away and plan your next move, here's a playlist of pop, rock, country, and R&B songs about crushing on someone. Enjoy them as you think about your beloved. If you dare, you could even create a customized songlist and send it to your crush to let them know how you feel. Let us know how it turns out!
1. "Treat You Better" by Shawn Mendes
Oh, wow. He says he'll stop time for her.
The narrator in this 2016 pop hit currently sits squarely in the Friend Zone. However, he's looking for a sign from his crush that she wants to take it to the next level. One little problem: she's another dude's girlfriend. But don't fret because this is not a man who is easily dissuaded. Just give him a sign, girl, and don't take too long.
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2. "You Belong with Me" by Taylor Swift
A crush can sure make you feel like a teenager, even if you aren't. In this 2009 country song, the only obstacle standing between the teenage narrator and her best male friend is his girlfriend.
Citing common interests in music and a shared sense of personal style and music, Taylor Swift's narrator makes it her mission to convince her love interest that what he's been waiting has been here all along.
3. "Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover" by Sophie B. Hawkins
This 1992 rock song is 50 shades of awesome and sounds like a great pick up line. The narrator takes a look at that tall drink of water she's been crushing on and paints a dirty little picture of what she'd like to do to him:
Damn, I wish I was your lover
I'll rock you till the daylight comes
Make sure you are smilin' and warm
I am everything, tonight I'll be your mother
I will do such things to ease your pain
Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed, oh, oh
Open up on the inside, gonna fill you up, gonna make you cry.
4. "Crush" by David Archuleta
The guy in this 2008 pop song has just realized that he's crushing bad. His thoughts are dominated by his sweetie, he's mesmerized by her, and he feels so tingly he thinks it could be love or something like it. He needs to know whether he's alone in this little love affair or if just maybe she feels the same way.
12 Signs That Someone Has a Crush on You
They typically start the conversation.
| They listen intently to you.
| They always seem to be nearby.
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None of your love interests are good enough for you, in their opinion.
| You look over and they are frequently staring at you.
| They offer you compliments and small gifts.
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They change the subject when you talk about other dating partners.
| They joke about dating or crazy what ifs. They talk in future tense about the two of you.
| They smile at you a LOT, often with a big goofy grin.
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They find excuses to touch you or be alone together.
| They remember details about you that others don't.
| Others tell you that the person likes you.
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5. "Stuck Like Glue" by Sugarland
My teenage daughter described a cute crush story in which she and her best friend (a guy) sat listening to this 2010 country song on repeat. The fella had one earbud in his ear and she had the other in hers. Together they belted out the lyrics to one another. But alas, they date other people.
6. "Into You" by Ariana Grande
The narrator in this 2016 pop song is waiting for her crush to make a move. She wants a little less conversation and a little more action. Everybody's watching. Don't choke, Mr.!
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7. "Girlfriend" by Avril Lavigne
The confident girl in this sassy pop song from 2007 spells it right out. She doesn't like her crush's girlfriend, and time has come for him to find a new one. He deserves better, and she'll give him what he needs.
The narrator then issues him orders. If only it were this easy:
So come over here
And tell me what I wanna hear
Better yet, make your girlfriend disappear
I don't wanna hear you say her name ever again (and again and again).
8. "Crush" by Mandy Moore
In this 2001 pop song, the female narrator is crushing hard on a guy who shares her feelings—but for another girl, not her. Unfortunately, she can't find her backbone yet to let him in on the secret. Therefore, she may be staying in the Friend Zone forever.
9. “Check Yes Or No” by George Strait
If you grew up in a time before cell phones, you probably remember passing those oragami-folded love notes in class. Often, they required check-box answers.
The narrator in this 1995 country song waxes nostalgic about the sweet love notes that he and his wife once passed in elementary school:
Do you love me? Do you want to be my friend?
And if you do, well then don't be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no.
10. "Crush" by Yuna (featuring Usher)
There's a mutual crush forming in this 2016 R&B song. Hearts beat a little faster, and the guy tells this lady friend that she's just wasting time with all those other boys.
11. "Clumsy" by Fergie
Most people lose their wits about them when they have a crush. They smile a lot, stare too much, can't find anything to say, and fumble around like they have no thumbs.
This 2007 pop song will remind you of the funny things crushes have said or done. For example, a guy who once had a crush on me turned around after talking to me and walked smack into a telephone pole.
12. "Call Your Girlfriend" by Robyn
Sweedish singer Robyn issues step-by-step instructions to her intended new flame in this very danceable 2010 pop song. You have to admire a woman who knows what she wants, right?
Call your girlfriend
It's time you had the talk
Give your reasons
Say it's not her fault
But you just met somebody new
13. "Beautiful Soul" by Jesse McCartney
The fella in this 2004 pop song claims he just wants his crush and her beautiful soul, but he's also doubting himself a little. He wonders if she's out of his league.
Okay, let's be honest here. In real life, Beauty picks Brad Pitt over the Beast, and Prince Charming picks one of his socialite types rather than Cinderella, the house wench. But it's nice to dream, isn't it?
14. "Girl Crush" by Little Big Town
Hold on. Don't you get all judgmental on me.
If there's one thing this 2014 country ballad is NOT it's typical. The Grammy Award-winning song caused quite a controvery because some fans assumed it was about a lesbian couple.
However, the narrator who is crushing on a girl doesn't want to shag her. She wants everything the other girl has—her long blonde hair, perfume, her lips, and her touch—because they attract the man that she loves. He is the real object of her desire.
15. "I Wanna Be Your Lover” by Prince
Way back in 1979, this chart topper was Prince's first American hit single. It's about a man who yearns to be with his crush and tries to convince her how much better he can treat her than the other men she is accustomed to dating. The narrator doesn't have much money, but he promises to turn his lady love on and be everything she needs.
16. "Yeah Boy" by Kelsea Ballerini
This country song from 2015 was named the best crush song by Radio Disney. Okay, so the song leans young.
The protagonist is entranced by her crush's eyes, and every song on the radio reminds her of him. She wishes he'd wisk her away tonight for a ride in his car and some get-to-know-you-better time.
17. "Can't Fight This Feeling" by REO Speedwagon
A tidal wave of love looms large and threatens to overcome the guy in this 1984 pop song. Yet still he's trying to talk himself into sharing his crush for her. (Don't worry, crushes are often too obvious to stay secrets for long.)
She's been his galpal for awhile, but he's looking at her differently these days. The feeling has become so strong that he just can't hold back.
18. "Fallin' For You" by Colbie Callait
Watch out below because this girl is falling hard for the man in her life. In this 2009 pop song, the narrator is dancing with him and holding his hand but feels tentative about revealing her feelings.
19. "Jessie's Girl" by Rick Springfield
The number one rule of friendship is to keep your hands off each others' significant other. However, the lovesick guy in this classic 1981 pop song can't stop thinking about his best friend's girlfriend. The song was based on a friend named Gary and Gary's girlfriend.
20. "Smile" by Uncle Kracker
Love has done a number on the narrator in this 2009 pop song, and he's gushing with compliments about his crush. She's cooler than the flip side of his pillow and makes him forget how to breathe. In her presence, he loses all composure and becomes like a giddy little girl.
Even More Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone
Song
| Artist
| Year Released
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21. Hands To Myself
| Selena Gomez
| 2016
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22. Bad Case of Loving You
| Robert Palmer
| 1979
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23. Crush
| Jennifer Paige
| 1998
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24. Baby I
| Ariana Grande
| 2013
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25. Love Story
| Taylor Swift
| 2008
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26. Thunder
| Boys Like Girls
| 2008
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27. I Want to Hold Your Hand
| The Beatles
| 1963
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28. Closer
| Tegan and Sara
| 2013
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29. Cupid's Chokehold
| Gym Class Heroes (featuring Patrick Stump)
| 2005
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30. So Into You
| The Atlanta Rhythm Section
| 1976
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31. First Date
| blink-182
| 2001
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32. Stacy's Mom
| Fountains of Wayne
| 2003
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33. I Second That Emotion
| Smokey Robinson
| 1967
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34. Call Me Maybe
| Carly Rae Jepson
| 2012
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35. I Wanna Know
| Joe
| 1999
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36. Love You Out Loud
| Rascal Flatts
| 2002
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37. She Drives Me Crazy
| Fine Young Cannibals
| 1989
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38. Me & U
| Cassie
| 2006
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39. U Got It Bad
| Usher
| 2001
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40. Rush
| Paula Abdul
| 1991
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41. Baby, I Love Your Way
| Peter Frampton
| 1975
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42. Ain't Even Drinkin'
| Tyler Farr
| 2013
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43. Like This
| Shawn Mendes
| 2016
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44. There's Your Trouble
| Dixie Chicks
| 1998
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45. Why Don't You Make Up Your Mind?
| Tame Impala
| 2011
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46. #1 Crush
| Garbage
| 1996
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47. I’m On Fire
| Bruce Springsteen
| 1985
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48. The Way You Make Me Feel
| Michael Jackson
| 1987
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49. You Really Got Me
| The Kinks
| 1964
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50. I Can Love You Better
| Dixie Chicks
| 1997
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51. I Try to Think About Elvis
| Patty Loveless
| 1994
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52. Domino
| Jessie J
| 2011
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53. One Thing
| One Direction
| 2012
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54. Things I'll Never Say
| Avril Lavigne
| 2002
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55. One Time
| Justin Bieber
| 2009
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56. Heartbreak Girl
| 5 Seconds of Summer
| 2009
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57. Teenage Dream
| Tyler Ward
| 2010
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58. Boyfriend
| Justin Bieber
| 2012
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59. Crazy for You
| Madonna
| 1985
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60. Breathe
| Faith Hill
| 1999
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61. The Search Is Over
| Survivor
| 1984
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62. Don't Cry Joni
| Conway Twitty (featuring Joni Lee)
| 1976
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63. Enchanted
| Taylor Swift
| 2010
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64. Only the Good Die Young
| Billy Joel
| 1977
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65. Hot for Teacher
| Van Halen
| 1984
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66. Leave Your Lover for Me
| Sam Smith
| 2014
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67. Something to Talk About
| Bonnie Raitt
| 1991
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68. Imagination
| Shawn Mendes
| 2015
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69. Perfect
| Ed Sheeran
| 2017
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70. Secret Love Song
| Little Mix (featuring Jason Derulo)
| 2016
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71. Can’t Help Falling in Love
| Elvis Presley
| 1961
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72. Wanted
| Hunter Hayes
| 2011
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73. Hungry Eyes
| Eric Carmen
| 1987
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74. She's Like the Wind
| Patrick Swayze (featuring Wendy Fraser)
| 1987
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75. Iris
| Goo Goo Dolls
| 1998
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76. Take Your Time
| Sam Hunt
| 2014
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77. Cupid
| Sam Cooke
| 1961
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78. My Eyes Adored You
| Frankie Valli
| 1975
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79. I Wanna Get Next to You
| Rose Royce
| 1976
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80. This Time I Know It's for Real
| Donna Summer
| 1989
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81. Can't Take My Eyes Off You
| Frankie Valli
| 1967
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82. Obvious
| Westlife
| 2004
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83. Sober Up
| AJR (featuring Rivers Cuomo)
| 2017
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84. Roses
| Shawn Mendes
| 2016
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Questions & Answers
I want to tell my crush how much I love him, but I am very awkward and afraid of damaging our friendship. He already has a girlfriend, but he doesn't like her. He likes me instead. He never wants to be with his girlfriend; he only wants to be with me. He means the world to me, but he has no clue how I feel. Should I tell him how I feel?
I'm concerned that you're getting ahead of yourself. First, you know that he's dating someone else, so honor that. If he truly didn't like her or want to be with her, he'd break up with her. Give him the space to figure that out for himself instead of being the cause of it. You wouldn't want anyone creating trouble in your dating relationship, would you?
Second, since you say he has no clue how you feel, going from that to professing undying love is like going from zero to 100. Slow down. Work on a friendship with him instead while he works out his relationship issues. There's nothing wrong with letting him know that IF he ever becomes single, then you'd be interested. Or, you might say that he's your kind of guy, his girlfriend is very lucky, and ask him where you would meet someone like him? It gets the point across well enough.
If he likes you as well as you claim he does, then you'll end up together. While he figures it out, however, don't stop looking elsewhere.
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I have a “friend with benefits" that I am developing feelings for. We both agreed to this, and it’s been six months. We don’t touch unless we are in the bedroom. Lately, we don’t linger afterward; he just kisses my forehead. When my car quit, he bought a car and handed the ownership and his bank card to me and said, “Do what you need to do.” Sometimes he just shuts me out. It’s confusing and emotionally upsetting. Do I pursue my feelings or just walk away?
When you initially agreed to this relationship, you probably didn't expect to develop an emotional attachment to the person you were sleeping with. You simply wanted to use one another for convenient, no-strings-attached sex. (Sex, however, is an intimate act that always has some strings attached.) While it's not impossible for a friends with benefits relationship to transition into a love relationship, communication regarding changing expectations and feelings is essential.
You've become emotionally attached, and it seems like he has become either bored or wary of your attachment. It's clear that you've exchanged benefits -- the car for sex -- but are you sure there's any friendship left? From what you describe, there's little emotionality between the two of you. He sounds more like a f*ck-buddy, to be honest. You deserve someone who will cherish and respect you. Put a halt to the sexual part of the relationship and see if he's still interested in the friendship. That'll tell you everything you need to know. Better verbal communication is needed to supplement the physical communication that's been going on.
Helpful 1What do you do if your crush has a girlfriend and he knows you like him, but he won’t date you?
You’ve made your feelings clear to someone who currently has a girlfriend, and he has chosen to honor his commitment to his girlfriend. You should respect that and turn your attention elsewhere.
Work on being a happy, healthy and positive person. You may be surprised to find how good things will come your way when you work on you. You cannot force him to love you. However, you might be surprised that there’s someone else out there who probably thinks you’re pretty terrific. You may not have noticed him because you were way too wrapped up in your crush. Give someone other than your crush a chance to discover and appreciate you.
Helpful 2I have had a crush on someone for years, so I confessed to him in writing. He said he likes someone else, and since then I’m too scared and embarrassed to talk to him. He tries to approach then he turns around and looks at me and turns red. He sits beside me sometimes and starts touching my hand. What does this mean?
Don't feel ashamed about expressing your feelings to a schoolmate you've known for years. After suffering in silence for years, you took a chance, and although you didn't get the response you immediately wanted, you should be proud of being genuine and just putting your emotions out there. (You didn't indicate you much time has passed since your confession.)
Regardless, he claimed that he likes someone else. He seems to be giving you mixed messages, however, with the hand touching. Perhaps he changed his mind about liking that other person, had a girlfriend at the time you confessed your feelings for him, wasn't sure about how he felt about you and now is, or he just froze and didn't know how to respond. It's obvious that he values maintaining some kind of relationship with you because he does try to approach you and sits near you.
Can you get up the nerve to tell him you're confused by his behavior and ask him why he blushes and turns around when he looks at you (describe his exact behavior nonjudgmentally)? Can you get up the nerve to just ask him why he starts touching your hand when he sits near you -- especially if he likes someone else? Simply asking him will be the best way to get to the bottom of this.
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AUTHORJenna - It seems like you do have a lot in common, including this young woman. IF you're going to caution him about this young woman, I would be candid instead of tossing little hints. Some people don't get hints at all. Perhaps give him some level of choice in the matter by asking him a question along the lines of, "Can I speak openly and honestly about my reaction to you liking Jane?" or "If I had important information about someone you like, would you want me to speak up, or stay quiet about it?" That way, he has some level of choice. His judgment about this girl will tell you whether he's worthy of continuing to admire.
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Acul - Since you know she likes someone else, just ignore the awkwardness and be her friend, just as you are friends with others. Smile, use compliments, make her laugh, ask her questions so that she talks to you about herself. The more familiar one gets with another person, the more that awkwardness tends to go away. Even if you never end up to be more than just friends, we can never have too many friends, right? Great social skills is a lifelong benefit, so practice making people feel comfortable in awkward situations. Good luck to you.
okay so uhhh... i really like this dude in my classes. quite obviously he’s super cute, he has a great personality, and he has my same interests and humor type. my problem is that i don’t know where i stand with him. i don’t know if he considers me a friend or not... i also recently found out that he likes one of my emotionally abusive ex-girlfriends (i’m bisexual) and i give him small hints as to why she’s no good, not just because i’m interested in him, but because think he deserves so much better..
I like a girl in my class but she likes someone else so I started to get her phone number and now I think she feels a little bit awkward around me now.
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destiny - No matter how much you may like him, if he has told you he didn't like you and to stop texting him, it's important to honor that request. If you don't, your behavior could be perceived as stalker-like and that would prevent you from future relationships that might be reciprocal. We've all been rejected, and it hurts. Just work on loving yourself. Some day the right relationship will come along.
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Cj - What kind of person has to think that much about a date? As my teen daughter says, "It's not that deep!" Really, it's a couple of hours. You didn't ask him to marry you.
You either caught him off guard and he didn't know how to turn you down, he's got a very packed social calendar or he's already dating someone he likes but they're not quite committed yet and he doesn't want to mess it up. Or, Cj, if you are also male and he is not out, he may legitimately have something to think about. I could understand that better, but hopefully, he'll be candid with you.
As far as your request for songs related to this situation, here are a few listed below:
1) "What Do You Mean?" by Justin Bieber (2015)
2) "Taking Chances" by Celine Dion (2007)
3) "Say You Will" by Foreigner (1987)
4) "Take a Chance on Me" by ABBA (1976)
5) "Check Yes or No" by George Strait (1995)
6) "Start of Something Good" by Daughtry (2011)
7) "Take a Chance on Me" by JLS (2011)
Hope this helps.
i like this boy that goes to my church he told me he ddint like me an to stop texting him but i never felt this feeling about a boy before
So I asked out this guy, and he didn’t say yes OR no, he said he was going to think about it. Just wondering if there’s is any songs for situations like this? I can’t find find anything lol
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Gabriel - If she recently broke up with someone, there may be trust issues as well as an adjustment (mourning) period. This is normal. She did you BOTH a favor by being candid, so don't assume that she's testing your patience or playing games. It would've been worse to have started dating and then found out she had unresolved feelings for her ex, right? Let her work it out on her own, then start dating when she's ready.
In the meantime, work on being her friend. Develop a history together even if it's not dating yet.
Learn more about each other, hang out with her both alone and in groups but no hand holding, etc. Just give her a little space. If she told you she has the same feelings for you, take her at her word. Make it clear to her that you'll be a friend first and you're hanging out as friends. After a couple months check back in with her to see how she's doing emotionally and see if she's ready to go out on a real date.
I hope this helps.
There's this certain girl in my neighborhood, didn't have enough courage to ask her out but I did eventually. She told me she's got the same feelings for me but can't dive into another relationship as she recently just broke up. Now she's asking if I could wait a little while. I don't know if she's putting my patience up for a test or she just doesn't want me to feel bad. Now I'm real confused, don't know what to do.
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xxRhiannynxx - If you talk for hours, laugh, hang out and have a blast, then you're obviously worth his time and not all that socially awkward! Give yourself a little more credit for being awesome. You may be that quiet girl who just doesn't fit into the crowd of "cool kids"--who decides they're cool anyhow?--but you have a certain mystique about you. You'd be surprised how many of those cool kids think that they, too, are socially awkward, BTW.
My recommendations: keep pretty frequent contact with him, even if it's just to check in with him about how he's doing, follow up on the status of something important in his life (a test, starting a new job, etc.). Start with checking in once a week or so, then go more frequent if he gives you more than a courtesy response.
See if he'll engage more with you over social media or text. Talk on the phone or FaceTime. See if he'll hang on more with you. It's best to hang out one-on-one rather than in a group so you can really get to know one another. Share more about yourself and worry less about impressing him.
Discover what you have in common -- background, beliefs, preferences, habits. Discuss and debate your differences. Sometimes the best way to do this is by discussing current events! Ask him random questions, sometimes off the wall or funny ones to get him to open up. Be prepared to answer them yourself. Talk about childhood memories that made you who you are, what you want in life, and the big things that matter to you. The important thing is to keep talking. Generate opportunities for interaction on social media and especially in person. Tell him he was fun to hang out with and you want to know him better. That's blunt and honest.
I know the stakes seem high, somewhere in there is a confident young woman. If he doesn't return your feelings, that's okay. There are plenty of guys out there. View this as social skills practice in getting what you want. Wishing you all the best.
About my crush huh? Well well well. He's a year older than me and he's the type guy I'd think is "out of my league" sadly. Him and I used to go to school together, until he left around a year ago, leaving me with the hope of seeing him again one day. Good news! we still catch up to this day and I'm so happy we do. As stated before, I do tend to think I'm out of his league though now. He's the type of guy to hang out with all the cool kids and get along so well and be so loyal and kind. Me on the other hand, I'm socially awkward and tend to think I'm boring to people even when they say I'm not. But when we're together I feel amazing. We have the best vibes and make each other laugh for hours and have a blast! I don't know how to talk to him though. Sure this may sound clichè when someone's crushing, but "Will I bore him to death?" "Will we have an engaging, fun conversation?" "Will he think there are better and more entertaining people to talk to?" Are the questions that linger in my head when I think about going in to talk to him in person or on social media. I don't like hinting that I have these feelings for him when I obviously prolong our conversations because I feel like they'll soon become shorter and shorter if they become clear. I really just don't want to bother him, but then my heart aches the longer I avoid talking to him because I don't know how to anymore. I'd appreciate some advice or help! Thanks
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Confused Girl - If you have a crush on your ex, consider whether anything has really changed or you're just in love with the idea of who you wished he was. After all, if you didn't talk that much how much do you really know about him other than surface stuff? Do you talk now?
You must've broken up for a good reason -- probably lack of common interests and an emotional connection. Physical attraction can only take you so so far. If you have a mutual spark in which you share conversation, an attraction, respect for one another, and mutual interests, take it to the next level. If not, go on to the next guy. Your ex isn't the only one out there, and it's common to look back sometimes with a tinge of regret.
So I have a crush on my ex. When we were dating it was awkward due to the fact that we didn’t talk a whole lot. I like him and I don’t know what to do.
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Astrid - Good to hear back from you. It's wonderful that your new interest is approachable and you have connections who also know him. Here are a couple ideas to help get closer to him. Think about the goal at this point as being to hang out together or go get coffee, lunch, or ice cream together.
1) message him more and forget about it being awkward - if all is going well, at some point just say "I'm hungry, do you want to go get lunch?" or "I need caffeine, do you want to go get some Starbucks?" or "Great game! Do you want to go celebrate with some ice cream?"
2) instant message or inbox him on Facebook, starting with something funny or cute, then ask if he wants to hang out
3) arrange to be over your friend's apartment (the one who is a neighbor of his) at a time when he's likely to be home. Even if he's not there, leave a brief note on his door or tell his roommate to tell him that you came by.
Good luck!
Hey there! You may or may not remember me from way earlier in the year; So anyways, there’s a guy I met about a week ago on campus while playing Pokémon go (he plays as well) and we talked quite a bit and friended each other in the game and also on Facebook. We have different majors and have classes in different buildings so I actually haven’t seen him since then. I did have two brief conversations with him on messenger. I think he’s really cute and I want to get to know him better, but not seeing him much doesn’t exactly help. :/ I could try to message him more, and maybe at some point ask him if he wants to hang out but I don’t know how to without it being weird I guess? My roommate who knows him said that he’s quite approachable and really sweet so I shouldn’t be nervous to talk to him, but my shyness and tendency to overthink sorta gets in my way. He also happens to live in the apartment next to another friend of mine who also has some classes with him. So yeah I guess I’m just stuck on how to try to move forward with this. Any advice?
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Veena - Sisters! You can always count on them to embarrass you.
Hi! So i have a a crush on this guy at work. I added him on messenger.Fortunately he accepted me.My sister, whos quite stupid sent a kissing emoji
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help me - If you like him back, there's nothing wrong with acknowledging it. Take it slow and be happy.
somebody likes me slould i tell him no or yes
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The girl who - Telling him is premature at this point. You were friends for a week then he became distant. Perhaps he moved on or got distracted by someone else. Try to rekindle the friendship and see if the spark is still there.
I really like this boy and in the beginning of the year he would t stop watching me so I went up and takes to him we were friends for like a week and we would sit together in class and at lunch and then he got really distant and I kinda miss him and do t k ow what to do. Should I tell him or just try and become friends with him again??
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A - A must be for Awesome! First, it's absolutely okay to be a smart, nerdy, shy girl who is most likely to succeed. I was one! Embrace who you are!
Second, since you're in your senior year, please don't waste time by just pining away for him, never taking a chance, and always wondering "what if?". Everyone experiences rejection from time to time and it really is okay if that happens. What's worse than rejection is never taking the chance and finding out. You don't have to express undying love for him. Just flirt a little and see how he responds.
Here are a couple of simple but effective ideas to get you started. Start smiling directly at him, saying hello or good morning (and use his name), tilting your head, and making direct eye contact. Do it consistently. Bring Lifesavers, Tic-Tacs, gum (if allowed) or whatever to class and offer him one. Compliment him and ask him questions about himself such as what he did this past weekend (that's tell you more about if there's another girl in the picture). You can also share information about yourself. Tell him that you go his games or you wanted to come up to him after the game last Friday but you're shy and chickened out. That's being honest, and since he's quiet he'll appreciate that.
I hope you take a chance. Someone WILL appreciate you for being who you are. Believe me!
Wishing you all the best.
So I really like this guy in one of my classes. We only met 2 months ago and we barely talk but hes the best guy I've ever met. The only problems are that hes kinda quiet, a year younger than me ( and im a senior so that wont last), and a football player. Everyone kinda thinks I'm just a nerdy girl who studies all day bc I won most likely to succeed but I'm really not like that. I've heard from other people that he might be talking to this other girl. But I'm not sure. I go to all his games and I'm always scared to talk to him after. I've gotten rejected before and since I sit next to him if he rejects me it'll be really awkward. I don't want to make you repeat yourself. You don't have to respond it just feels good to get this off my chest.
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sarah decarlo - There are a number of Questions and Answers at the end of the article which provide a variety of ideas and advice, depending on the situation. Rather than repeating myself here, why not take a look at some of those to get some ideas? Be sure to click on the "see more" at the bottom for the entire list of Questions that readers have posed. In brief, it's already been 4 years. Don't let more time slip away. Even if it's a negative answer, knowing is better than not knowing! Good luck.
how do i tell my crush i like him??? he barley knows i exist, but he's the entire world to me. help me please. i've had a crush on him for about 4 years and still haven't said anything. im just to afraid of his answer.
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NE41679 - Thank you for that song suggestion! I have added it to the playlist. Have a wonderful week ahead.
Great list, a lot of notable songs. Check out Westlife's "Obvious", it's one of my go to songs.
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robpeters076 - Thanks again! I had Madonna at #59 but added some of the others. You're great with this!
Sorry four more for the road...
This Time I Know It's For Real - Donna Summer
Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You - Frankie Valli or Lauren Hill
Crazy For You - Madonna
I Need Someone Like You - James Ingram
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robpeters076 - There are some great additions here. Thank you for the suggestions.
Good list! Here are some more crush songs
Hungry Eyes - Eric Carmen
She's Like the Wind - Patrick Swayze
Iris - The Goo Goo Dolls
Breakhru - Queen
Take Your Time - Sam Hunt
Cupid - Sam Cooke or the Spinners
Tryin to tell ya - Andru Donald
My Eyes Adored You - Frankie Valli or Justin Kawika
I wanna get next to you - Rose Royce
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Jake - I'm glad you enjoyed this. I added your suggested song to my playlist about heartbreaks and breakups. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
I am very nostalgic reading your article; great job. My head might as well be Little Karachi (Most my crushes being from Karachi, Pakistan) However, my crush songs are metal and hardcore.
Check out Story of the Year's "We Are Not Gonna Make It." Off of Black Swan.
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Maddy McPatty - You seemed to have learned this bit of information about your crush allegedly accusing you of making him fail his exams from an unreliable source. Unless you hear it from him forget that you heard it. (You could always ask him directly.)
Now that he knows you like him--think of your former BFF's tattling as doing the hard part for you by letting him know--you need to see whether he returns your interest. If not, that's fine, but don't let rumors concern you.
Also be alert that people do surround themselves with others who are similar. Thus, be open to the possibility that he may not be worth your trouble. Cute doesn't always mean nice, too.
Hello, i need your help. See i have a crush on this really cute guy since i moved schools (late last year) and my ex bestie found out i liked him (via guessing it because her crush is mines best friend. And my constant staring at him.) A few weeks later she told him. Now my other friend was talking to him in the school libary, and he accused me of making him fail in english and maths. When i did next to nothing! I have nothing to do with him! Some part of me doesn't beleive it. Allthough a few times i find him looking at me. I dont harras him. His friends are the toxic ones here. Not me, what do i do? Im really confused so i came to you.
Also, sorry for my spelling errors.
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Noar rbc - Good for you. I encourage your creativity.
while this list was useful im going to go on my own path and just write my own song and have my friend help with the music
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Cher - Woo hoo! A very big high five! I am DELIGHTED that it all worked out and that you were actually the crush involved. Have fun together!
Hey, it's me again.
So, I took your advice in confessing to him and under no circumstances shall I watch his confession tomorrow. We talked about that matter in private messaging since I am too shy to open up the video call and he respected that. He panicked slightly and pleaded to come and watch just for support. I told him no, and that I told him that I have to discuss that sort of thing to him (and surprise surprise, confess to him in the middle of the convo). He told me to just say it in chat but I insisted on face-to-face since I was going to confess, he won't see if my facial expression would be sincere and all and I want to express my feelings to him vocally.
The next day, I wanted to back out since confessing is too overwhelming for me considering this is the first time I have to confess to the guy I love. After classes, he called me (for the first time) and told me to follow him at the back of the school so that we will talk.
It was really far from how we talk in the PMs cause in reality, we talk awkwardly, like we were meeting each other for the first time but after a few topics, we recovered from the awkwardness and began talking like best friends. He suddenly brings up the topic about the girl he likes and that's where everything happened.
He starts of describing how amazing she is and how approachable she is and stuff, and I admit I was very jealous and I was sad at the same time, thinking of wow what a wonderful girl she is and told him, "Wow, you will be a very lucky guy if she falls for you after your confession today." and a question hit me, "Did you already confess? How'd it go?"
He simply blurts out, "Yeah, I'll be really lucky if you'll fall for me."
I played it off as if I was hearing the wrong thing and laughed and told him to say it again because I didn't hear him correctly and he confessed AGAIN.
Well, I didn't manage to confess first before him since he beat me through it but here I am, thanking you for your advice as I am having a video call with my pretty sweet boyfriend in the other window lol.
Thank you so much~!! XOXOX
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Donny - First, because I'm a former corporate HR investigator let me commend you on one big point ... you're colleagues rather than one of you supervising the other, so you have less to worry about in regards to workplace harassment. (It's still worthwhile to check your company's policies to make sure dating a colleague is permitted. Sometimes there are even policies against that.) If so, then a crush totally works in your case until someone says they're not interested. Many people meet their mates at work. (I met my husband at work.) If the relationship doesn't work out, at least she's not in the same department.
Second, to address your question, you seem very attentive towards her and respectful of her feelings. Realize that she might not have a lot of practice dating. Even being a shy woman, she has taken a risk and accepted your dinner invitation as well as allowed you to buy her dinner when she was doing the night shift. If she was not interested at all, she'd probably make excuses or turn you down cold. You had a good time when you went out. She may not text back because she's shy and doesn't know what to make of the relationship. Instead, how about calling her instead? If she is receptive to chatting via phone, then pick a concert or activity based on mutual interests and invite her to go. Tell her you had fun over dinner and would like to continue to get to know her better outside of work, if she's interested. (For example, sometimes you can find really interesting things on Groupon or similar sites that you've never considered doing until you see them -- sushi making classes, ziplining, archery, paint nights, escape rooms). Make it a memorable adventure together so that it challenges you both to open up. You need shared activities that other coworkers aren't a part of so that you're establishing your own history together. It's best if you're a newbie at the activity, too, so you go through it together.
Keep trying until she gives you more of an indication regarding how she feels. Good luck!
I have a crush on one of my colleagues at work. We have known each other for almost a year. I started to have feelings for her the past few months and hence began my very subtle attempts at flirting and geting to know her better.
Thing is i don’t know if she likes me too.
And I’m not sure if she even knows I’m flirting with her.
She doesnt initiate conversations in text. But we can talk quite a lot at work.
She is of the shy type but has a group of friends (guys and girls) whom she regularly goes out with. I thought I didnt have any chance of getting together with her until few days back when I decided to take a leap of faith and asked her out for dinner which she suprisingly agreed too. I was suprised as she always have dinner plans with her friends. Just the two of us, we had a nice evening where we talked a lot about work, family, the past etc.
I just dont know what to make of it. Do I have a chance? Im scared of ruining a precious friendship.
I have been dropping many hints past few months; staying back to help her even though we are different departments, buying her dinner when she is doing night shift, caught me staring at her few times and virtually being around her most of the time at work. Though I dont know if she notices it or not
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Cher - You indicate that he is super shy, and I'm betting if that's the case he may not have a lot of practice with crushes, dating, and social skills. That's a nice way of saying he's probably socially awkward to some extent. That means with your outgoing personality and more polished social skills, you'll likely have to cut him some slack and also take the lead on this.
I suspect since you have hit it off so famously that it is actually you he wants to confess his attraction to. However, his method is awkward at best and it's odd that he insist that you watch him confess his love to someone else if that's the case (and cruel if he suspects you like him). Consider tell him that under no circumstances will you be showing up to spy on him confessing his love to his crush and you need to Facetime (or Skype) him to discuss the matter. Then ask him point blank who is this person because you are attracted to him and you think the feeling is mutual. If it gets awkward (for example, there really is someone else), that's okay. At least you told him. You say you're in love. He needs to know where you stand instead of making you play silly games. It's better to be rejected than always wonder! Take it from me!
I am in love with this guy.
We met by a friend when we were added in a Messenger groupchat, a groupchat for friends or so she says. He is a really silent kid while I'm an upbeat, energetic kiddo. I had no intentions of falling for him and I just thought of him as a schoolmate of mine (we are not classmates). One day, I happen to touch a topic while talking to my best friend in the groupchat that sparked his interests, it was actually surprising to find out we had the same interests and that was when he actually started to chat in the groupchat.
Starting from that day, we always chat on that groupchat of ours, with our friends telling us to just PM each other since we are noisy haha.
He always chats me first in the groupchat, sometimes mentioning me if I don't see it directly. When we chat in PMs, either he chats first or tells me in the groupchat to chat in the PM first for some reason. Even if we are only very close in chats and just look at each other silently in person, I still fell in love with my schoolmate.
He told me that in two days, he is going to confess to a girl that he recently likes and apparently my friends know it excluding me, the closest friend that is girl (in which he says so), who doesn't know anything about that girl. He told me to go at xxx location if I want to see him confessing. I told him that I'm not going (to keep my heart from shattering btw, I did not tell him that lol) but he insists that I go so I'll go.
I'm actually shaking since this is the first time I encountered this situation. Does he like me? Do I make the first move and confess? What do I do? This is the first time I fell in love with someone and I don't know what to do.
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Grace - You say you text him and he responds but in a delayed fashioned. Your task is to discover whether he's being socially awkward, a player, or he's just super busy or distracted. Here are some questions you can ask yourself to help figure it out.
Does HE ever initiate contact, or is it always you? Are you sure he's single? Does he have a reputation as a player? Does he leave you on "Read" for a long time before responding? That's probably more likely to be game playing if that's how he does it. When he flirts back is it talk always sexual or does he want to know about YOU, how your day went, who you are as a person, etc.? The more it tends to be sex-charged, the more likely he's using you for self-gratification fantasies. (Sexting is a mistake.)
I assume you have interactions with him that are in person too rather than just over text. How does he treat you then? Does he pay respectful attention to you, flirt, want to be close to you in person? Rely more on the in-person encounters to gauge how he really feels about you. Does he tend to be shy?
Texting conceals so much about our intentions and emotions.
You could also just come right out and ask him what takes him so long to reply to your texts. I'd do it in person and would make a bit of a joke of it. Call his behavior out. It's not respectful. Don't allow yourself to be treated like this. If he wants to flirt, then he can do it a little more on your terms or else explain himself. Relationships -- even those in the early stages -- are two-way streets.
I love this guy, and I've been texting him recently but he takes so long to reply! I don't know if he loves me or not!
When he does reply it's quite flirty but I just can't work it out. It's always over a day to reply which is why I have my doubts but it's painful and I really need some help!
Do I try stop myself from loving him or keep talking to him?
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Astrid, I'm so sorry that this didn't work out this time. However, the positive side is that you built some confidence, the rejection truly wasn't about you, and at least you're not pining about all summer about someone you can never be with. It's wonderful that he trusted you enough as a friend to be candid about his sexual identity. That had to be really hard for him.
I hope the net experience was positive and that you've gained a good male friend. Someone as sensitive and caring as you will find someone, probably when you least expect it.
Hey there again! I know its been a while, but yeah I finally told him (not directly, but it will make sense in a minute)... We had a masquerade dance last weekend and I went; he was also there as well as some of our other friends. I wasn't planning on telling him that night, but eventually I got the courage to request a slow song a few songs later when it came on, I asked him if he wanted to dance with me. He's an amazing dancer (he's been doing choreography for our theater productions and he's been dancing since he was a kid), and it felt amazing to dance with him. Also as the song was ending he told me that he wanted to talk to me, and he also told me to go get my phone because he wanted to take a picture of me on one of the spiral staircases. So I went back to our table and grabbed my phone and then we walked over to the staircase and he took a very nice picture of me and told me I was pretty. we then went up the stairs to the balcony/landing that went around the square room and well this is what happened... He told me that he really values me as a friend and doesn't want to lose me as one, and then he told me something about himself that he said he does not really tell anyone, especially anyone from our hometown (we're both from the same city) (you can probably guess what it is, I'm just omitting it out of respect for him). He was so sweet about the whole thing, he was even apologizing, but I told him that he didn't have to because its part of who he is and that is nothing to apologize for. Despite the slight disappointment, I feel so honored that he trusted me enough to tell me. Then we had a nice conversation and he called me gorgeous and said he truly thinks there is someone out there for me. He also still wants to go to coffee with me and he recommended a place that he likes that I've never been to. So yeah I didn't actually tell him directly, but I think it was just really obvious when I asked him to dance (I truly tried to stay calm, but I was really nervous so I stuttered a little).
Also the people running the campus event were taking Polaroids and he asked me if I wanted to take one with him before we left which was really nice and he asked me if I wanted to keep it (so yeah I did :))
Anyways, I just thought I would tell you what happened since you kind of helped me through this. I guess I just have a lot of mixed emotions, and I really really liked him and I know my feelings are not going to fade right away, but knowing myself well enough I will get through it and move on after some time passes. I'm just glad that we're still friends and that it went smoothly compared to the terrible scenarios my anxiety cooked up in my brain, lol.. So once again, thank you. :)
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Somebody - Instead of just looking at one another, try smiling or try to sit closer. you don't have to force it but that igot be a step in the right direction. Good luck!
I really like this kid at my church and he looks over at me often . We avoid talking to each other bc I think we are both too nervous. I really think he could be a special part of my life .
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Astrid, it sounds like there are signs of mutual interest there. Maintain his gaze a lot with a smile and see if he reciprocates. Try the head tilt. Intentionally touch him (pick a pretend hair or piece of lint off him). If he responds to these and continues to give you the vibe that he likes you, you might just come out and say that you asked him out the first time (to the play), and now it's his turn. If he doesn't take that hint, move on.
Hi again! So I've been attempting to subtly flirt with the guy I like. It's going okay I think? And well a few small things happened and I would like a second opinion on it. So I was working on a group project with him and one of our other friends, we met in a study room in the library (it's a small room with a table, a computer in the corner and a whiteboard on the wall). The guy I like was using the computer and was also writing down things we found on the board, and me and our other group member were using our laptops. At some point I found something to write on the board, he looked busy reading something so I said I would write it down. There was a marker in the basket on the tablet was going to grab it but he suddenly turned around from the computer and handed me the marker he was using. And I'm know for a fact that I didn't imagine it, our hands touched... also when we were done researching, our other group member was in charge of the PowerPoint so she was typing everything. My crush and I started practinf chemistry problems on the board and despite there being two markers we were just passing the marker back and forth... I realize maybe I'm making a big deal of nothing but I'm pretty sure I felt something there...
The other thing that happened, just the other night at rehearsal for the opera I'm in, he's helping with costumes and choreography, he and the main costumer called me back to try some things on. They were still figuring things out so I was basically just putting different things over the shirt I was wearing. He handed me this dress/long shirt and he started putting it on for me. I was able to keep my composure but wow! Then the main costumer cracked a joke saying "isn't she capable of putting it on herself?" And he replied (also in a joking tone) "nooo she isn't!" And we all just kinda laughed and yeah.
And one more thing, my friend who is also in the cast told me that at the tech call last weekend for the opera, they were looking for things for costumes and my crush came across a dress and asked my friend if she though that I would look good in it. My friend said yes and then my crush said that he thought I would look hot in it
So those are just a couple of the big things, another small thing: I had to work with him today in lab again and we talked quite a bit, I just asked him how choreography was going and we talked about that and then as its International Women's Day, I noticed he made a Facebook post dedicated to his younger sister in honor of the day and I casually mentioned it that I thought it was a really sweet post and that branched into a little conversation about how close he is with his sister. :)
So yeah do these seem like potential signs or should I still wait it out? I'm somewhat debating asking him if he wants to get coffee sometime and if I time it right I might just admit my feelings. I don't want to rush anything, and I understand if he doesn't feel the same way then that's just how it is and I'll get over it eventually, it's just I don't want to drag this to the very end of the semester (there's only like 2 months left..). Sorry this turned into an essay, but I really appreciate your input and advice. Thanks so much! :)
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Courtney - Since it's a workplace situation, the former corporate HR representative in me says tread carefully. This doesn't mean you have to abandon all hope; it just means you need to be smart about it. Thus, you might want to try to grow your friendship first to discover whether she's already attached and likes girls. Try taking your friendship to events outside of work so that you can learn more about one another. This shouldn't be too difficult since you are already friends and spend time together at work. You may discover important information about how she feels about you. Many people have met spouses and significant others at work while others have unfortunately created uncomfortable situations for themselves and others that impact their career. It's therefore important to be aware of relevant company policies and risks regarding dating a fellow employee. Take a look at the following article, particularly the tips at the bottom of the article: https://hubpages.com/business/Can-You-Find-Love-an... Best of luck to you! Let us know how it goes.
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Astrid - Keep us posted. Even if this doesn't work out, that's totally okay. Look at it as practice! I bet you're more awesome than you give yourself credit for. Best of luck.
I am a 29-year-old female. Up until recently, I've had crushes only on men. However, there is a female coworker who I have grown attached to in the 10 months I've been in my department. She has a very warm, approachable personality, she always compliments my efforts at work, she notices little things I say and do and she's always been very supportive of me from day one. I realized I have a crush on her 3 months ago and the feeling is still going strong. She makes my day better with a smile aimed my way, or a conversation during lunch break. We've grown closer as friends, but I don't want to tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin the friendship we have, I don't know if she likes girls too and we're coworkers, which complicates things a little bit. However, I wish she knew how amazing she is in my eyes.
Thank you so much for responding to my comment! I appreciate the advice you've given and I will do my best to put it into action... I'm quite introverted and a little shy, I also don't have much (like barely any) experience with relationships and flirting, so this is sort of difficult for me. (I had to have a lot of encouragement from my best friend to actually work up the courage to ask him to the play I mentioned that we saw last weekend). We were both out of town last week for a science conference and ended up being lab partners for the chemistry lab we missed. We came in on our own time yesterday so I did get to spend a bit of time with him and have casual small talk while doing the lab, so that was nice. :) We're going to see each other again during our actual lab period tomorrow so that will be another opportunity. Thank you so much for the encouragement! :)
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Astrid - So you're a college student who has made the first move, however, you don't know whether your crush returns your feelings beyond friendship. Good for you in expressing your interest, regardless of where this adventure takes you.
Here are my ideas since you asked. Consider some fun flirting and see whether he returns your interest. Smiling, eye contact, use of interpersonal touch and body space, and even the colors you wear all matter when it comes to interpersonal attraction and flirting. Tips and explanations are shared here: http://hubpages.com/dating/Get-Noticed-The-Science... You might also try compliments, finding a common task to work on together, and spending more time alone with him, when possible. Get him talking about himself so that not only can you do the same but also you might have a chance to learn more about his personal/love life. (I assume you already know he's straight and has no girlfriend.)
Since you both have common interests, consider more opportunities to go to events together. Either repeat what you've done before with asking him out or put the responsibility on him to ask you. Ask what fun things he has scheduled or whether he's been to a given event, restaurant, movie, or location. Work it into the conversation. If he's already been, then ask what he thought. If he hasn't been yet, tell him that anytime he'd like to go, you'd be interested.
You only have so much time left in the semester and you don't want to pine away for him over the summer. You're worried about getting rejected, but what's worse that rejection is never knowing. I'm rooting for you, Astrid!
I like someone, I have no idea if he likes me back though... We've been friends for a little over a year and I just recently started to realize my feelings. We both have the same major and we both love participating in theater. He can be a bit dramatic and kinda gets on people's nerves sometimes, but he is also really sweet and has always been especially kind to me. I already kinda took a first step, a co-worker invited me to play she was in and I bought two tickets from her and asked him if he wanted to go, he agreed and we both really enjoyed the play. I had the intention to ask if he wanted to get food afterwards, but I chickened out (this was actually 2 days ago). I guess I'm just not sure what to do next... I don't want to be super obvious about my crush on him, but at some point I hope he figures out or at least gets a hint... Do you have any input?
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Sofia Erman - Thanks for your comment.
There is this boy and I was just dreaming about him but we are just really good friends. But I do 't know what the dream was for though. I do think about him sometimes
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thatperson - The only way you'll know if there's a match is if you start talking to her. If you're too shy to make a move, perhaps your friend can arrange for the three of you to hang out. That might make things easier. Just an idea. Good luck.
i sent my crush a valentine. We are both girls so I didn't know what she would do. She told my friend she likes girls and wants to know who I am. I don't know what to do because we never talk and I'm really awkward.
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That Girl - Glad you enjoyed these.
This was helpful- never heard any of these before!
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classof2018 - So how about when the time is right ask him if he recalls kissing you (yep), then ask was it like kissing his sister (hopefully not)? Then see where the conversation leads. I hope it works out for you!
Ive been falling so hard for this guy and we kissed.. it was magical but now I dont know how he feels anymore and all i wanna do is call him mine..
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noname - I'm so sorry. It's been a long time, but I've been in your shoes and many others have, too. Try to concentrate on making yourself the happiest, most awesome, attractive person possible. It may attract her or someone you who isn't yet on your radar. Good luck!
i like her so so so much. but shes with someone else and it breaks my heart. im so jealous. ive been thinking about her almost nonstop nov2017
Great collection. If someone loves anyone, it is great thing. Real love is rare.
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doglover - Thanks for the suggestion. I’ve added it as #71. Happy Holidays!
i cant help falling in love with you
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Hazle - You could ask him and save yourself a lot of stress.
I have this crush on one of my closest friends and he use 2 like my friend...he "says" he got over her and has a new crush and he likes her more but he won't tell me who...he always says things That seems like it me but I dont want 2 get my hopes up
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Anna - Best of luck. I hope he sees the truth, and I hope you find out why your frenemy did that. Jealousy?
A few weeks ago, my ex best friend told the guy I liked that I called him a b#@%&. Now he won't talk to me. We have to find partners to sing with for a talent show. And just because of some of these songs, I'm going to ask him to sing with me. (I never called him a b##%)
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Hi, Haylei, Thank you for that suggestion! It is now #70. Have a great day.
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Haylei - Have you started with maybe trying to see if he feels the same? Giving him your contact information and seeing if he texts or calls? Good luck.
"Secret love song"
By: Little mix
This is my all time favorite song you'll like it too
...Hopfully
So theirs this guy I like his name is connor he is 15 but his parents are my family doctors, So I only see him like 5 times a month and im crazy about him and i cant stop thinking about him!!! can you help me...?
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Mystery - What would be wrong with taking her aside and just having an honest discussion with her? You might get hurt, or she could, or not. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you well.
I never really knew I liked my crush until earlier this year.I liked her last year but it was like for a month or so.Back then when I wasnt really into her,she kept giving me this suspicious look like she wanted to tell me something but was scared to say.This happened in the beginning of last year. Then through out the year she i kinda felt like she lowkey liked/likes me too.Like me and my friends were talking about liking the same gender and i was like my friends will sill love me no matter who i liked and so to prove that I went to my crush which is my friend till this day and asked her if she would still be my friend if I liked the same gender and she told me that she didnt care and she would still love me no matter what.And me and another one of my friends were really lose and rumors were going around saying that were were dating or we did.My crush over heard that and when we went to our 3/4 block she was like ¨Why didnt you tell me.¨ at that point I was confused and then she told me what she hear.Right there are to signs.Actually three,the looks,dont care if i dated the same gender,and me telling her that i dated the same gender.Towards the end of last year she started coming out about herself and how she likes girls cause I guess the end of the year was a confession section so we played never have I ever and then started coming out about stuff and she told us how she liked girls and at that time she glanced at me here and there.Till this day when I look up,we seem to meet eye contact and it stays for like 30 seconds but i always seem to break the gaze mainly cause i cant stand looking people in the eye.When she is aroun and make each otheres day.Our classes are right next to each others and when I seem to leave or arrive to class she gets excited to see me.I honestly think I play my cool about liking her then she lays hers bout liking me.d me we seem to have a good time and make each other laugh When this school year happened I had a stronger crush on her and my other friends thought i should tell her nd I did.When I told her her whole face lit up,like shes been waiting for me to say that but at the same time I think she was afraid to admit that she has feelings for me.When people started making things weird I told her I didnt like her anymore and i can tell that she didnt believe it and if she did she kinda got sad.Now when we hang out,for some reason her skirt is always under when when we are on the bus and we pretty much act like we are a couple.Im trying to find out if she really likes me or not and shes been throwing some of the signs but im not fully convinced.Probably like 50%. Im not the jealous type but every time she talks about the dudes fighting over her or her friend thats at another school I start to feel some type of way but never show it.We are both girls by the way and she lives on the other side of the block from me.
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Brooke - Thanks for the suggestion. I've added it to both this playlist and the following one: http://hubpages.com/playlists/I-Love-You-Playlist-...
Perfect- ed sherran
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Juliet - Thanks for sharing your feelings and experience. We've all probably had that secret someone who seemed out of reach. Don't forget that there are other guys out there too.
My crush has a girlfriend. He keeps looking at me and I really like him although he hasn't asked me out. My friends know I like him and they are in the same class as he is, overtime I see them with him they get along so well it makes me really jealous.
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Aria - It's hard to logically convince someone how untrustworthy and deceptive another person is where matters of the heart are concerned. All you can do is love and support your friend and continue to provide examples of how he's mistreating girls and leading them on. I'm sure he does it to others. Try to be as non-emotional as possible about pointing out his misdeeds to her. If it continues and the time is right, you might call him out on his behavior right in front of her. Yep, ask him questions about who he's dating, why he's hitting on your friend when he ignores her the next day, and name the behavior directly to the him, the offender. Provide HIM with examples of how he plays with girls' emotions -- right in front of her. No yelling, just conversation. For some reason, she doesn't feel like she deserves better. And he is either very arrogant or has low social skills. Not a good combination.
So i want to ask something about my best friend. She likes this guy but she wont admit it at least not always. The guy she likes is a HUUUGE player and one day hes all over her and the other he doesnt even notice her. My friends and i know that she really liked hin but we know what person he is. What should we do? Advice please
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Diana - Thank you for the suggestion. I've added it at #68.
Imagination by Shawn Mendes is also about crushes
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Jamie - Sometimes the chemistry isn't there for romance. Concentrate on "you" and being happy. People are drawn to happy, positive people. If it's not right with her, then someone else will like you for you. We've all been there!
I have already asked my crush out. She rejected me but I'm still crazy for her. The only trouble is that I am shy so I can't ask her out again. Plz help. What do I do?
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Daniel - I added "Words I Couldn't Say" to the following playlist: http://hubpages.com/playlists/Getting-Over-You-Pla... Regarding the other Rascal Flatts song, it's debatable. If the guy is wanting to stand on rooftops and climb on mountains, I'm thinking he's still very much infatuated and got his head in the clouds. Thank you for stopping by and the suggestion. I appreciate you.
Words I couldn't say - Rascal Flatts
Though has different meanings to different people one of which is have a crush, but never telling them and goes on to regret it.
What do I do now that you're gone?
No back up plan, no second chance
And no one else to blame
All I can hear in the silence that remains
Are the words I couldn't say
I shold have found away to tell you how I felt
Now I'm only tellin' myself.
Oh and Love you out loud isn't about a crush with lyrics like
now that your in my arms, and just how good your live looks on me.
It's about expressing his love for her after they got together.
I'm listening to it right now and that's at least what it sounds like to me.
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Mini-Paige - I'm not sure how you both know you're into DDLG, but it you know that much you can make him a playlist. Good luck to you both.
Well, I love this list. I have a crush on this guy and he always seems to be staring at me and whenever he sees me he smiles (or so my friends say) so I descided to sing for him since I know he's really into music and he really liked it. We're both into DDLG so I'm just waiting for him to ask me out but my friend told me that he asked her advice on how to ask me out so I know I won't be waiting very long
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Lindsey - Initially, when I was writing this playlist I was going to add that but I has a reservation about it, as you could understand. However, if "Stacy's Mom" could be on there, why not this one? Also, my reader (you) recommended it ... so it's on there now! Thank you for the suggestion!
What about "Hot for Teacher"?? :)
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ArxerDash - That is a terrific add. I will make it #63. Thank you for taking the time to read and make a suggestion.
enchanted- taylor swift
"please dont be in love with someone else, please dont have somebody waiting on you"
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Linda - Thanks for playing along! I appreciate you!
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