94 Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone
Crushes: You're More Obvious Than You Believe
Crushes aren't just for teens. Adults get them too.
If your crush is on a coworker, neighbor, classmate, or friend, you probably daydream about taking the relationship to the next level. You earnestly believe your crush is your little secret. However, here's a news flash: the signs you're giving out are like a blinking neon light.
While you pine away and plan your next move, here's a playlist of pop, rock, country, and R&B songs about crushing on someone. Enjoy them as you think about your beloved. If you dare, you could even create a customized songlist and send it to your crush to let them know how you feel. Let us know how it turns out!
1. "Treat You Better" by Shawn Mendes
Oh, wow. He says he'll stop time for her.
The narrator in this 2016 pop hit currently sits squarely in the Friend Zone. However, he's looking for a sign from his crush that she wants to take it to the next level. One little problem: she's another dude's girlfriend. But don't fret because this is not a man who is easily dissuaded. Just give him a sign, girl, and don't take too long.
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2. "You Belong with Me" by Taylor Swift
A crush can sure make you feel like a teenager, even if you aren't. In this 2009 country song, the only obstacle standing between the teenage narrator and her best male friend is his girlfriend.
Citing common interests in music and a shared sense of personal style and music, Taylor Swift's narrator makes it her mission to convince her love interest that what he's been waiting has been here all along.
3. "Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover" by Sophie B. Hawkins
This 1992 rock song is 50 shades of awesome and sounds like a great pick up line. The narrator takes a look at that tall drink of water she's been crushing on and paints a dirty little picture of what she'd like to do to him:
Damn, I wish I was your lover
I'll rock you till the daylight comes
Make sure you are smilin' and warm
I am everything, tonight I'll be your mother
I will do such things to ease your pain
Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed, oh, oh
Open up on the inside, gonna fill you up, gonna make you cry.
4. "Crush" by David Archuleta
The guy in this 2008 pop song has just realized that he's crushing bad. His thoughts are dominated by his sweetie, he's mesmerized by her, and he feels so tingly he thinks it could be love or something like it. He needs to know whether he's alone in this little love affair or if just maybe she feels the same way.
12 Signs That Someone Has a Crush on You
They typically start the conversation.
| They listen intently to you.
| They always seem to be nearby.
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None of your love interests are good enough for you, in their opinion.
| You look over and they are frequently staring at you.
| They offer you compliments and small gifts.
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They change the subject when you talk about other dating partners.
| They joke about dating or crazy what ifs. They talk in future tense about the two of you.
| They smile at you a LOT, often with a big goofy grin.
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They find excuses to touch you or be alone together.
| They remember details about you that others don't.
| Others tell you that the person likes you.
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5. "Stuck Like Glue" by Sugarland
My teenage daughter described a cute crush story in which she and her best friend (a guy) sat listening to this 2010 country song on repeat. The fella had one earbud in his ear and she had the other in hers. Together they belted out the lyrics to one another. But alas, they date other people.
6. "Into You" by Ariana Grande
The narrator in this 2016 pop song is waiting for her crush to make a move. She wants a little less conversation and a little more action. Everybody's watching. Don't choke, Mr.!
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7. "Girlfriend" by Avril Lavigne
The confident girl in this sassy pop song from 2007 spells it right out. She doesn't like her crush's girlfriend, and time has come for him to find a new one. He deserves better, and she'll give him what he needs.
The narrator then issues him orders. If only it were this easy:
So come over here
And tell me what I wanna hear
Better yet, make your girlfriend disappear
I don't wanna hear you say her name ever again (and again and again).
8. "Crush" by Mandy Moore
In this 2001 pop song, the female narrator is crushing hard on a guy who shares her feelings—but for another girl, not her. Unfortunately, she can't find her backbone yet to let him in on the secret. Therefore, she may be staying in the Friend Zone forever.
9. “Check Yes Or No” by George Strait
If you grew up in a time before cell phones, you probably remember passing those oragami-folded love notes in class. Often, they required check-box answers.
The narrator in this 1995 country song waxes nostalgic about the sweet love notes that he and his wife once passed in elementary school:
Do you love me? Do you want to be my friend?
And if you do, well then don't be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no.
10. "Crush" by Yuna (featuring Usher)
There's a mutual crush forming in this 2016 R&B song. Hearts beat a little faster, and the guy tells this lady friend that she's just wasting time with all those other boys.
11. "Clumsy" by Fergie
Most people lose their wits about them when they have a crush. They smile a lot, stare too much, can't find anything to say, and fumble around like they have no thumbs.
This 2007 pop song will remind you of the funny things crushes have said or done. For example, a guy who once had a crush on me turned around after talking to me and walked smack into a telephone pole.
12. "Call Your Girlfriend" by Robyn
Sweedish singer Robyn issues step-by-step instructions to her intended new flame in this very danceable 2010 pop song. You have to admire a woman who knows what she wants, right?
Call your girlfriend
It's time you had the talk
Give your reasons
Say it's not her fault
But you just met somebody new
13. "Beautiful Soul" by Jesse McCartney
The fella in this 2004 pop song claims he just wants his crush and her beautiful soul, but he's also doubting himself a little. He wonders if she's out of his league.
Okay, let's be honest here. In real life, Beauty picks Brad Pitt over the Beast, and Prince Charming picks one of his socialite types rather than Cinderella, the house wench. But it's nice to dream, isn't it?
14. "Girl Crush" by Little Big Town
Hold on. Don't you get all judgmental on me.
If there's one thing this 2014 country ballad is NOT it's typical. The Grammy Award-winning song caused quite a controvery because some fans assumed it was about a lesbian couple.
However, the narrator who is crushing on a girl doesn't want to shag her. She wants everything the other girl has—her long blonde hair, perfume, her lips, and her touch—because they attract the man that she loves. He is the real object of her desire.
15. "I Wanna Be Your Lover” by Prince
Way back in 1979, this chart topper was Prince's first American hit single. It's about a man who yearns to be with his crush and tries to convince her how much better he can treat her than the other men she is accustomed to dating. The narrator doesn't have much money, but he promises to turn his lady love on and be everything she needs.
16. "Yeah Boy" by Kelsea Ballerini
This country song from 2015 was named the best crush song by Radio Disney. Okay, so the song leans young.
The protagonist is entranced by her crush's eyes, and every song on the radio reminds her of him. She wishes he'd wisk her away tonight for a ride in his car and some get-to-know-you-better time.
17. "Can't Fight This Feeling" by REO Speedwagon
A tidal wave of love looms large and threatens to overcome the guy in this 1984 pop song. Yet still he's trying to talk himself into sharing his crush for her. (Don't worry, crushes are often too obvious to stay secrets for long.)
She's been his galpal for awhile, but he's looking at her differently these days. The feeling has become so strong that he just can't hold back.
18. "Fallin' For You" by Colbie Callait
Watch out below because this girl is falling hard for the man in her life. In this 2009 pop song, the narrator is dancing with him and holding his hand but feels tentative about revealing her feelings.
19. "Jessie's Girl" by Rick Springfield
The number one rule of friendship is to keep your hands off each others' significant other. However, the lovesick guy in this classic 1981 pop song can't stop thinking about his best friend's girlfriend. The song was based on a friend named Gary and Gary's girlfriend.
20. "Smile" by Uncle Kracker
Love has done a number on the narrator in this 2009 pop song, and he's gushing with compliments about his crush. She's cooler than the flip side of his pillow and makes him forget how to breathe. In her presence, he loses all composure and becomes like a giddy little girl.
Even More Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone
Song
| Artist
| Year Released
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21. Hands To Myself
| Selena Gomez
| 2016
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22. Bad Case of Loving You
| Robert Palmer
| 1979
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23. Crush
| Jennifer Paige
| 1998
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24. Baby I
| Ariana Grande
| 2013
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25. Love Story
| Taylor Swift
| 2008
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26. Thunder
| Boys Like Girls
| 2008
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27. I Want to Hold Your Hand
| The Beatles
| 1963
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28. Closer
| Tegan and Sara
| 2013
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29. Cupid's Chokehold
| Gym Class Heroes (featuring Patrick Stump)
| 2005
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30. So Into You
| The Atlanta Rhythm Section
| 1976
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31. First Date
| blink-182
| 2001
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32. Stacy's Mom
| Fountains of Wayne
| 2003
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33. I Second That Emotion
| Smokey Robinson
| 1967
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34. Call Me Maybe
| Carly Rae Jepson
| 2012
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35. I Wanna Know
| Joe
| 1999
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36. Love You Out Loud
| Rascal Flatts
| 2002
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37. She Drives Me Crazy
| Fine Young Cannibals
| 1989
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38. Me & U
| Cassie
| 2006
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39. U Got It Bad
| Usher
| 2001
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40. Rush
| Paula Abdul
| 1991
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41. Baby, I Love Your Way
| Peter Frampton
| 1975
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42. Ain't Even Drinkin'
| Tyler Farr
| 2013
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43. Like This
| Shawn Mendes
| 2016
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44. There's Your Trouble
| Dixie Chicks
| 1998
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45. Why Don't You Make Up Your Mind?
| Tame Impala
| 2011
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46. #1 Crush
| Garbage
| 1996
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47. I’m On Fire
| Bruce Springsteen
| 1985
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48. The Way You Make Me Feel
| Michael Jackson
| 1987
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49. You Really Got Me
| The Kinks
| 1964
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50. I Can Love You Better
| Dixie Chicks
| 1997
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51. I Try to Think About Elvis
| Patty Loveless
| 1994
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52. Domino
| Jessie J
| 2011
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53. One Thing
| One Direction
| 2012
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54. Things I'll Never Say
| Avril Lavigne
| 2002
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55. One Time
| Justin Bieber
| 2009
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56. Heartbreak Girl
| 5 Seconds of Summer
| 2009
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57. Teenage Dream
| Tyler Ward
| 2010
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58. Boyfriend
| Justin Bieber
| 2012
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59. Crazy for You
| Madonna
| 1985
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60. Breathe
| Faith Hill
| 1999
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61. The Search Is Over
| Survivor
| 1984
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62. Don't Cry Joni
| Conway Twitty (featuring Joni Lee)
| 1976
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63. Enchanted
| Taylor Swift
| 2010
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64. Only the Good Die Young
| Billy Joel
| 1977
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65. Hot for Teacher
| Van Halen
| 1984
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66. Leave Your Lover for Me
| Sam Smith
| 2014
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67. Something to Talk About
| Bonnie Raitt
| 1991
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68. Imagination
| Shawn Mendes
| 2015
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69. Perfect
| Ed Sheeran
| 2017
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70. Secret Love Song
| Little Mix (featuring Jason Derulo)
| 2016
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71. Can’t Help Falling in Love
| Elvis Presley
| 1961
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72. Wanted
| Hunter Hayes
| 2011
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73. Hungry Eyes
| Eric Carmen
| 1987
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74. She's Like the Wind
| Patrick Swayze (featuring Wendy Fraser)
| 1987
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75. Iris
| Goo Goo Dolls
| 1998
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76. Take Your Time
| Sam Hunt
| 2014
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77. Cupid
| Sam Cooke
| 1961
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78. My Eyes Adored You
| Frankie Valli
| 1975
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79. I Wanna Get Next to You
| Rose Royce
| 1976
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80. This Time I Know It's for Real
| Donna Summer
| 1989
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81. Can't Take My Eyes Off You
| Frankie Valli
| 1967
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82. Obvious
| Westlife
| 2004
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83. Sober Up
| AJR (featuring Rivers Cuomo)
| 2017
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84. Roses
| Shawn Mendes
| 2016
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85. Crush
| Lila McCann
| 1999
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86. As If
| Sara Evans
| 2007
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87. Teardrops on My Guitar
| Taylor Swift
| 2007
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88. What I Go To School For
| Busted
| 2002
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89. Naturally
| Selena Gomez & The Scene
| 2009
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90. Close
| Nick Jonas (featuring Tove Lo)
| 2016
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91. One Day
| Tate McCrae
| 2017
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92. Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic
| The Police
| 1981
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93. Alone
| Heart
| 1987
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94. Thirteen
| Big Star
| 1972
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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
Questions & Answers
I want to tell my crush how much I love him, but I am very awkward and afraid of damaging our friendship. He already has a girlfriend, but he doesn't like her. He likes me instead. He never wants to be with his girlfriend; he only wants to be with me. He means the world to me, but he has no clue how I feel. Should I tell him how I feel?
I'm concerned that you're getting ahead of yourself. First, you know that he's dating someone else, so honor that. If he truly didn't like her or want to be with her, he'd break up with her. Give him the space to figure that out for himself instead of being the cause of it. You wouldn't want anyone creating trouble in your dating relationship, would you?
Second, since you say he has no clue how you feel, going from that to professing undying love is like going from zero to 100. Slow down. Work on a friendship with him instead while he works out his relationship issues. There's nothing wrong with letting him know that IF he ever becomes single, then you'd be interested. Or, you might say that he's your kind of guy, his girlfriend is very lucky, and ask him where you would meet someone like him? It gets the point across well enough.
If he likes you as well as you claim he does, then you'll end up together. While he figures it out, however, don't stop looking elsewhere.
Helpful 73I have a crush in my school. She's about my age. I want to tell her that I like her since it's our final year in school. However, I don't have the guts to do so. She's smart, kind, and pretty, and I know she's out of my league. Should I forget about my secret crush or just tell her the truth?
Think about it this way. I know people who went to high school 40 years ago who had a crush on a classmate but never took the chance to express themselves or ask the person out. You don't want to be one of them, do you?
Since you're both in your last year in school, you need to take the chance while you have it. You don't have to express undying love for her, just ask her out. Just because you may be an unlikely couple doesn't mean you're beneath her.
If it turns out that indeed she does not share your romantic interest, at least you have her out of your system. You won't be left wondering, "What if?" for the next umpteen decades. Sure, rejection hurts but we've all experienced it and we get over it. Not knowing is so much worse.
Helpful 22- Helpful 1
There's a girl in my school that I love but we've only talked a couple of times. I see her stare at me all the time, and when I look at her she looks away. She tries to find an excuse to talk to me, touch my hand, and tries to “bump” into me. Her group of friends and her look at me smiling. We have a lot of similar interests. She's single, but I'm too shy. What should I do?
The girl you are attracted to obviously has a crush on you, so you have a decision to make about your shyness. Do you want to be comfortably shy and alone OR feel somewhat outside of your comfort zone and maybe get a girlfriend? Having been a shy teen myself, I understand that introducing yourself and talking to people you don't know isn't exactly fun. But the risks for you are worth the potential rewards. Here are a couple of things to consider:
1) make sure you look your best (e.g., grooming, clothes), as that will bolster your self-confidence
2) practice the art of holding a gaze without staring -- it's an essential flirting technique
3) when you see her looking your way, smile and wave or nod your head in acknowledgment
4) ask one of her friends for her contact information and "talk" over social media
5) practice the art of asking questions; if you're nervous during a conversation or don't know what to say, ask an open-ended question about the other person so they talk about themselves. This will help you when you talk with her at length.
6) when you see her stare at you, move from where you are sitting/standing and go join her friend group. Playfully ask them why they were laughing at you. You might even jokingly guess a few things (Laughing makes people feel more comfortable). Then before you leave, give a folded piece of paper with your contact information to your crush.
I hope these ideas were helpful. Shyness doesn't have to be a roadblock to love.
© 2017 FlourishAnyway
Comments
I like a guy, and I had my friend give him a note at for me at a dance on Saturday, and then I went to the restroom, and some of the goes to church with were in there at the same time. They asked me if I knew him, and then if I like him, and I said I did. Then they started telling me that the next slow dance I should ask him. Then they started telling me about how sweet he is. The thing is I have absolutely no idea if he likes me, or if they are setting me up for embarrassment. What do you think?
Thanks flourishanyway
I owe you one
Great ill tanervously this monday.wish me best of luck!
Im nervous.OMG what if other guys are around? Idk wt to do
The first few weeks or days of liking someone are so exciting. It's a universal feeling, I think; that's why there are so many songs about it. Crushes remind me of high school and the innocence of young love. Great list!
I just joined a new school last year and made a friend there (guy).we both were artists but he liked painting and i specialised in sketching.we soon became inseparable.But some rumous started spreading thathe loved me and i confronted him and he denied having to do anything with the rumours.But i started avoiding him after this and we've not spoken from an year.Now i realised that he was telling the truth all along.How do i speak to him.
P.s.:the rumours didnt die down yet.im 14
How do I tell my crush that I like him he laughs calls me babe we are the same age but different grades his friends say that he likes me but I dont know how to tell him I like him how do I tell him?
I'm interested of your kind replies for the above answers and the collection of songs you have taken is perfect and all are my favorite songs.
ok so like I like my bestfriends brothere he is a bad influence and he is a senior while im a freshman and the thing is idk how he feels about me because all of last year he and i flirted back and forth and now this year he got a girlfriend but he still flirts with me once in awhile what should i do?
I have had a really big crush on this guy since the end of July. I gave him a thank you note, and one of my friends added something about me liking him, so last month I explained to him about what my friend did. His brother has been talking about the note and what happened for the passed 6 months.
He has been sending me mixed signals and I’m not sure what he thinks of me, and I’m too shy to ask him in person. I want to give him a note on valentines but I don’t want his brother talking about even more stuff about me. What should I do? Should I talk to him about my feelings, if so, how do I gain confidence?
I like this guy but I’m way too shy to ask him if he likes me and I plan to tell him when we are both 13. Is that a good plan?
I want to tell my crush how I feel about him. I really do have strong feelings for him but im afraid of rejection. WE been friends for sometime now and we both are single. I know for a fact he likes me but I don’t know if he has the same feelings like I do. IM ready take things to another level but im scared what should I do
Hey it's me again. I just want to say, that i confessed to my new crush that ive liked all of 2018, and i confessed twice. and both times she IGNORED me. and then she didnt talk to me on hangouts, and changed her account. and than we had a sleepover and were playing truth or dare and my other friend said that i needed to confess to her, so i did. and than today i apologised, because i felt the need to. and she replied "cookie" and than after several tries i left the chat cause i was frustrated. and than she re-dmmed me. and than im like "oh so we are playing the game that we pretend nothing happens and we embarrass madison?" she just replied this "." and i said, "sorry, i just needed claification" but i still feel she is trying her hardest NOT to talk about it. What do i do?
I’m ‘dating’ a boy and I want us to act like friends but I feel he wants to move faster than I’m wanting and I don’t want to hurt his feelings.
He’s the best. He has brunette hair with light brown eyes and is tall and really cute. He is nice but he will get angry at people who mistreat him. He and I both love the same video game and love the same types of things.
Part of me thinks we would be better off as friends but part of me wants to pursue a relationship.
What should I do?
Hi, I'm really going nuts about telling him how I feel. We're social media friends, he adds and followed me first on facebook and Instagram. He keeps on viewing my stories. But I want to know what he really thinks about me. Cause I'm starting to like him. He's smart and a very great man. How can I know the truth? I'm also not good with starting the conversation first. :(
I have a crush on this this man I have been friends with him for 2 and I have years he knows that i like him because my ¨best friend¨ said it out loud and a other guy told my crush I like him but i don,t know if he loves me or not....
So a couple weeks ago, I was getting out of my car to walk into work. I had to cross the street and after walking on the sidewalk for a bit I hear someone shout while running at me, "Have you heard of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?!" from behind me and my fight or flight instinct told me to run just because it seriously took me by surprise, but a split second later I realized it was my crush and then he was like "hey wait, it's me!", lol! He really got me good, we both just had a good laugh about it after I got over being shocked and chatted a little bit before I went into work.
But anyways, besides that incident, we had not really seen each other much or gotten to talk due to the semester ending and finals, but since we both finished our finals yesterday, we did meet for dinner this evening and he introduced me to two of his closest friends (one of them I knew of because we have the same major, but I didn't actually know-know him). They both seemed really nice and cool and we all had a good time talking. I was thinking while I'm home for Christmas break I might try to get him a small gift (I was thinking possibly something souvenir-like from my hometown), it was my friend's idea. Yeah I still don't actually know if he likes me back, like my gut tells me that there could be a chance, I just don't want to jump to conclusions yet... I was thinking that maybe its coming close to the time of just telling him, not directly after the next semester starts but maybe a few weeks in. Do you think it would be too soon? By the way, I seriously appreciate your advice and input. I remember when I first posted on this page about my old crush, not completely knowing if you'd reply or not, so yeah I totally appreciate you. :)
So you want to know about my crush? Alright then...
He is a year older than me, and we’re in the same school. We met four years ago during math trainings and started talking more. He started hanging out with me and my best friends about two years ago and quickly became one of my closest friends.
He’s a sweetheart, and loves hugs. We have shared so many moments together. We have so many things in common as well. He has a beautiful soul, and will protect his friends any time. He’s loyal, kind, sweet, funny, and so many other things. And also, to add into the mixture, he’s cute. He has beautiful chocolate eyes and soft auburn hair. He’s tall, about a head over me. He’s the best.
We spend so much time together some people even think we’re dating. He liked a couple of girls before, and now he likes me. The thing is, we both know we like each other. But we also know that both of our parents don’t want us to have a girlfriend/boyfriend yet. Until we are both allowed to date, we’ll stay as friends. I’m scared he’ll take interest in another girl though, since he’a not tied to anything at the moment. Hope you can give me some advice for that. Thank you! Bye!
-With love,
Beca
My crush is rlly funny. He always finds time to talk to me and we're really good friends. He knows about things that happen to me that no one else does, and I trust him and i think he trusts me just as much. I'm not even rlly sure why i like him because hes not the cutest person i can find, but theres just something...
Listen to one day by Tate mcrae
It describes crushing perfectly! Mine is cute sweet and respectful
The date with him went perfectly and we’ve been talking ever since, he’s introduced me to his roommates, his friends, and one night I went over without makeup, scared of what I looked like without makeup but he kept saying I looked beautiful and nothing changed :) each time we get to know each other more and every time we fall asleep next to each other, he makes sure I’m not cold and cuddles with me till I fall asleep ☺️ I think it’s going on a positive direction and I hope it keeps going that way and I’m trying hard to not fall fast but it’s gettjng harder every time we hang out now
I have a crush on this one guy that used to like me. I’m not sure how to tell if he likes me back still or how I could tell him that I like him. We only see each other during class switches and when there is a lot of people around. Any suggestions?
A great list of songs, have heard some of them. Hats off to you for putting together this list.
This helps me a lot through ruff times I love it
This hub made me think of a crush like experience from some years back. I say crush like because it wasn't a crush as your hub describes. However, I was smitten more like a lust at first sight. During my first week at the University of Iowa, classes began on Wednesday. Having studied my schedule, I noticed that if I dropped my literature class, I would still have a full load (thus insuring continued eligibility for my guaranteed student loan) and leave my Fridays class free. So, the plan on Friday was to attend class and promptly get the teacher's signature and say adios to lit class. I go to the English Philosiphy Building and head towards the classroom. But upon reaching the classroom, I saw the teacher and stopped in my tracks. Upon seeing her (the teacher) I immediately changed my mind. I was struck by the vision before my eyes. I stayed in her class and I believe my grade was a "B" for that course.
So I contacted you about the crush I met through a mutual friend at a party and here’s an update! He asked me to dinner :) so I think it’s going well so far :)
Just an update, I feel like things are continuing to get easier for me and I'm starting to raise my propinquity with my crush! We've been messaging most of the days this week (and it is not always me initiating conversation :D) and we've actually hung out twice as well! Today we went to a raid (its an in-game event I guess you could call it); he messaged me late morning asking if I knew if there were any raids going on and there happened to be one that people were gathering for within half an hour of after I received his message. I told him about it and asked if he wanted to go and he said yes and asked me if he could ride with me again. And so we went to it and we got to talk quite a lot again. I actually got to talk about some stuff about me like he asked me about what I want to do after graduation, he told me about how his mom wants him to do a masters but he doesn't really want to. It was so cute, when he saw a nice car (I really know nothing about cars so I don't remember what it was), he started talking about it; I was listening intently and then at some point he stopped himself and was like "I'm sorry if this is boring you, I just really like cars" and I smiled and said something like "No, its okay, I think its really cool that you are into cars." We also somehow ended up talking about how our parents met and at some point this lead to us saying when our birthdays are. Also, he said that a conversation he had with a friend the other day reminded him of something I had said when we hung out on Sunday. Lastly, I had my music playing on shuffle and the theme song of one of my favorite animes came on and he showed curiosity about it (he doesn't know much about anime) so I ended up telling him about it and he seemed to take interest in the plot (I'm thinking possibly later on I can invite him to watch it with me if things continue to go well like this). I still want to do the coffee thing too, I just have not found the right time yet to ask yet. I've honestly never felt this comfortable talking to a guy who I am romantically interested in before and its a great feeling.
Hi again! So I actually worked up the courage to message my crush and asked him if he wanted to join me and a group of some other Pokemon Go players I know. We went out today and I think things went really well. I didn't get too nervous, and I was able to talk to him comfortably; I mean I think it helped that we were hanging out in a group but it's definitely a start. And I did have some 1 on 1 time with him because we went in the same car (I drove in the morning, but when we did head back to the university to get some stuff and we went in his car when we met back up with the group later). We did talk quite a lot and I did learn a lot about him. He was telling me a lot about his family and his hometown and some various other things about him and he also asked me some things about me.
Based on what I observed we sort of have similar personalities (like quiet, laid back etc.) And well this one small instance (I mean it could be nothing but I feel like he might have been flirting a little, but I'm not sure), well there was a point where we all stopped at this one place to sit down for a bit and everyone was sort of having their own conversations amongst the group and we were sitting next to each other and well I was looking down at my phone and then he randomly started tapping on my screen and playfully said something like "oh is that a touch screen?" and it kinda didn't register in my head right away and I kinda just said "yeah" before I realized the joke, lol.
And when we were walking back I casually asked if he wanted to get food on the way back and we picked up some taco bell. I did pull out my wallet intending to pay for myself, but when we got there he asked me what I wanted and said that he would pay for it.
Also at the drive through there was kind of a long wait and we were talking some more and he asked me if he sounded too southern (he is from the south) when he talks and I told him no, just sometimes (like when he said thank you to the lady at the drive through, it sounded like "thank ya") and then he was telling me about some words that most of the time come out southern, like the word "peaches". I said it, then he said it again and I laughed a little bit and then he got a little defensive asking if he was saying it wrong and then I was like no I can just hear a bit of the twang when you say it and we both laughed.
So yeah that all happened. Everything about our conversations just felt so natural and not awkward or forced. He also said to let him know when we'd be meeting up again and he thanked me for inviting him. What do you think? I realize it is early on, but do you think there may be something there like there's a chance I may be getting somewhere with this? Any tips on what to try to do next in addition to inviting him to our next hangout?
Well, you know me and country music often go hand in hand. Usually, the first songs that come to my mind for your playlists are country. So here's an old school song from the 90s. Remember Lila McCann's "Crush" song? I didn't see it on your list. It's the first one I thought of this time. Oh, and "As If" by Sara Evans may fit your list. I think it does, anyway. This is a fun list, by the way. :)
okay so uhhh... i really like this dude in my classes. quite obviously he’s super cute, he has a great personality, and he has my same interests and humor type. my problem is that i don’t know where i stand with him. i don’t know if he considers me a friend or not... i also recently found out that he likes one of my emotionally abusive ex-girlfriends (i’m bisexual) and i give him small hints as to why she’s no good, not just because i’m interested in him, but because think he deserves so much better..
I like a girl in my class but she likes someone else so I started to get her phone number and now I think she feels a little bit awkward around me now.
i like this boy that goes to my church he told me he ddint like me an to stop texting him but i never felt this feeling about a boy before
So I asked out this guy, and he didn’t say yes OR no, he said he was going to think about it. Just wondering if there’s is any songs for situations like this? I can’t find find anything lol
There's this certain girl in my neighborhood, didn't have enough courage to ask her out but I did eventually. She told me she's got the same feelings for me but can't dive into another relationship as she recently just broke up. Now she's asking if I could wait a little while. I don't know if she's putting my patience up for a test or she just doesn't want me to feel bad. Now I'm real confused, don't know what to do.
About my crush huh? Well well well. He's a year older than me and he's the type guy I'd think is "out of my league" sadly. Him and I used to go to school together, until he left around a year ago, leaving me with the hope of seeing him again one day. Good news! we still catch up to this day and I'm so happy we do. As stated before, I do tend to think I'm out of his league though now. He's the type of guy to hang out with all the cool kids and get along so well and be so loyal and kind. Me on the other hand, I'm socially awkward and tend to think I'm boring to people even when they say I'm not. But when we're together I feel amazing. We have the best vibes and make each other laugh for hours and have a blast! I don't know how to talk to him though. Sure this may sound clichè when someone's crushing, but "Will I bore him to death?" "Will we have an engaging, fun conversation?" "Will he think there are better and more entertaining people to talk to?" Are the questions that linger in my head when I think about going in to talk to him in person or on social media. I don't like hinting that I have these feelings for him when I obviously prolong our conversations because I feel like they'll soon become shorter and shorter if they become clear. I really just don't want to bother him, but then my heart aches the longer I avoid talking to him because I don't know how to anymore. I'd appreciate some advice or help! Thanks
So I have a crush on my ex. When we were dating it was awkward due to the fact that we didn’t talk a whole lot. I like him and I don’t know what to do.
Hey there! You may or may not remember me from way earlier in the year; So anyways, there’s a guy I met about a week ago on campus while playing Pokémon go (he plays as well) and we talked quite a bit and friended each other in the game and also on Facebook. We have different majors and have classes in different buildings so I actually haven’t seen him since then. I did have two brief conversations with him on messenger. I think he’s really cute and I want to get to know him better, but not seeing him much doesn’t exactly help. :/ I could try to message him more, and maybe at some point ask him if he wants to hang out but I don’t know how to without it being weird I guess? My roommate who knows him said that he’s quite approachable and really sweet so I shouldn’t be nervous to talk to him, but my shyness and tendency to overthink sorta gets in my way. He also happens to live in the apartment next to another friend of mine who also has some classes with him. So yeah I guess I’m just stuck on how to try to move forward with this. Any advice?
Hi! So i have a a crush on this guy at work. I added him on messenger.Fortunately he accepted me.My sister, whos quite stupid sent a kissing emoji
somebody likes me slould i tell him no or yes
I really like this boy and in the beginning of the year he would t stop watching me so I went up and takes to him we were friends for like a week and we would sit together in class and at lunch and then he got really distant and I kinda miss him and do t k ow what to do. Should I tell him or just try and become friends with him again??
So I really like this guy in one of my classes. We only met 2 months ago and we barely talk but hes the best guy I've ever met. The only problems are that hes kinda quiet, a year younger than me ( and im a senior so that wont last), and a football player. Everyone kinda thinks I'm just a nerdy girl who studies all day bc I won most likely to succeed but I'm really not like that. I've heard from other people that he might be talking to this other girl. But I'm not sure. I go to all his games and I'm always scared to talk to him after. I've gotten rejected before and since I sit next to him if he rejects me it'll be really awkward. I don't want to make you repeat yourself. You don't have to respond it just feels good to get this off my chest.
how do i tell my crush i like him??? he barley knows i exist, but he's the entire world to me. help me please. i've had a crush on him for about 4 years and still haven't said anything. im just to afraid of his answer.
Great list, a lot of notable songs. Check out Westlife's "Obvious", it's one of my go to songs.
Sorry four more for the road...
This Time I Know It's For Real - Donna Summer
Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You - Frankie Valli or Lauren Hill
Crazy For You - Madonna
I Need Someone Like You - James Ingram
Good list! Here are some more crush songs
Hungry Eyes - Eric Carmen
She's Like the Wind - Patrick Swayze
Iris - The Goo Goo Dolls
Breakhru - Queen
Take Your Time - Sam Hunt
Cupid - Sam Cooke or the Spinners
Tryin to tell ya - Andru Donald
My Eyes Adored You - Frankie Valli or Justin Kawika
I wanna get next to you - Rose Royce
I am very nostalgic reading your article; great job. My head might as well be Little Karachi (Most my crushes being from Karachi, Pakistan) However, my crush songs are metal and hardcore.
Check out Story of the Year's "We Are Not Gonna Make It." Off of Black Swan.
Hello, i need your help. See i have a crush on this really cute guy since i moved schools (late last year) and my ex bestie found out i liked him (via guessing it because her crush is mines best friend. And my constant staring at him.) A few weeks later she told him. Now my other friend was talking to him in the school libary, and he accused me of making him fail in english and maths. When i did next to nothing! I have nothing to do with him! Some part of me doesn't beleive it. Allthough a few times i find him looking at me. I dont harras him. His friends are the toxic ones here. Not me, what do i do? Im really confused so i came to you.
Also, sorry for my spelling errors.
while this list was useful im going to go on my own path and just write my own song and have my friend help with the music
Hey, it's me again.
So, I took your advice in confessing to him and under no circumstances shall I watch his confession tomorrow. We talked about that matter in private messaging since I am too shy to open up the video call and he respected that. He panicked slightly and pleaded to come and watch just for support. I told him no, and that I told him that I have to discuss that sort of thing to him (and surprise surprise, confess to him in the middle of the convo). He told me to just say it in chat but I insisted on face-to-face since I was going to confess, he won't see if my facial expression would be sincere and all and I want to express my feelings to him vocally.
The next day, I wanted to back out since confessing is too overwhelming for me considering this is the first time I have to confess to the guy I love. After classes, he called me (for the first time) and told me to follow him at the back of the school so that we will talk.
It was really far from how we talk in the PMs cause in reality, we talk awkwardly, like we were meeting each other for the first time but after a few topics, we recovered from the awkwardness and began talking like best friends. He suddenly brings up the topic about the girl he likes and that's where everything happened.
He starts of describing how amazing she is and how approachable she is and stuff, and I admit I was very jealous and I was sad at the same time, thinking of wow what a wonderful girl she is and told him, "Wow, you will be a very lucky guy if she falls for you after your confession today." and a question hit me, "Did you already confess? How'd it go?"
He simply blurts out, "Yeah, I'll be really lucky if you'll fall for me."
I played it off as if I was hearing the wrong thing and laughed and told him to say it again because I didn't hear him correctly and he confessed AGAIN.
Well, I didn't manage to confess first before him since he beat me through it but here I am, thanking you for your advice as I am having a video call with my pretty sweet boyfriend in the other window lol.
Thank you so much~!! XOXOX
I have a crush on one of my colleagues at work. We have known each other for almost a year. I started to have feelings for her the past few months and hence began my very subtle attempts at flirting and geting to know her better.
Thing is i don’t know if she likes me too.
And I’m not sure if she even knows I’m flirting with her.
She doesnt initiate conversations in text. But we can talk quite a lot at work.
She is of the shy type but has a group of friends (guys and girls) whom she regularly goes out with. I thought I didnt have any chance of getting together with her until few days back when I decided to take a leap of faith and asked her out for dinner which she suprisingly agreed too. I was suprised as she always have dinner plans with her friends. Just the two of us, we had a nice evening where we talked a lot about work, family, the past etc.
I just dont know what to make of it. Do I have a chance? Im scared of ruining a precious friendship.
I have been dropping many hints past few months; staying back to help her even though we are different departments, buying her dinner when she is doing night shift, caught me staring at her few times and virtually being around her most of the time at work. Though I dont know if she notices it or not
I am in love with this guy.
We met by a friend when we were added in a Messenger groupchat, a groupchat for friends or so she says. He is a really silent kid while I'm an upbeat, energetic kiddo. I had no intentions of falling for him and I just thought of him as a schoolmate of mine (we are not classmates). One day, I happen to touch a topic while talking to my best friend in the groupchat that sparked his interests, it was actually surprising to find out we had the same interests and that was when he actually started to chat in the groupchat.
Starting from that day, we always chat on that groupchat of ours, with our friends telling us to just PM each other since we are noisy haha.
He always chats me first in the groupchat, sometimes mentioning me if I don't see it directly. When we chat in PMs, either he chats first or tells me in the groupchat to chat in the PM first for some reason. Even if we are only very close in chats and just look at each other silently in person, I still fell in love with my schoolmate.
He told me that in two days, he is going to confess to a girl that he recently likes and apparently my friends know it excluding me, the closest friend that is girl (in which he says so), who doesn't know anything about that girl. He told me to go at xxx location if I want to see him confessing. I told him that I'm not going (to keep my heart from shattering btw, I did not tell him that lol) but he insists that I go so I'll go.
I'm actually shaking since this is the first time I encountered this situation. Does he like me? Do I make the first move and confess? What do I do? This is the first time I fell in love with someone and I don't know what to do.
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