119 Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone

Updated on February 27, 2020
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If you have a crush on someone, why not make a playlist of pop, rock, R&B and country songs about crushes?  Enjoy it for yourself or make your move by sharing it with them.
If you have a crush on someone, why not make a playlist of pop, rock, R&B and country songs about crushes? Enjoy it for yourself or make your move by sharing it with them. | Source

Crushes: You're More Obvious Than You Believe

Crushes aren't just for teens. Adults get them too.

If your crush is on a coworker, neighbor, classmate, or friend, you probably daydream about taking the relationship to the next level. You earnestly believe your crush is your little secret. However, here's a news flash: the signs you're giving out are like a blinking neon light.

While you pine away and plan your next move, here's a playlist of pop, rock, country, and R&B songs about crushing on someone. Enjoy them as you think about your beloved. If you dare, you could even create a customized songlist and send it to your crush to let them know how you feel. Let us know how it turns out!

1. "Treat You Better" by Shawn Mendes

Oh, wow. He says he'll stop time for her.

The narrator in this 2016 pop hit currently sits squarely in the Friend Zone. However, he's looking for a sign from his crush that she wants to take it to the next level. One little problem: she's another dude's girlfriend. But don't fret because this is not a man who is easily dissuaded. Just give him a sign, girl, and don't take too long.

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2. "You Belong with Me" by Taylor Swift

A crush can sure make you feel like a teenager, even if you aren't. In this 2009 country song, the only obstacle standing between the teenage narrator and her best male friend is his girlfriend.

Citing common interests in music and a shared sense of personal style and music, Taylor Swift's narrator makes it her mission to convince her love interest that what he's been waiting has been here all along.

3. "Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover" by Sophie B. Hawkins

This 1992 rock song is 50 shades of awesome and sounds like a great pick up line. The narrator takes a look at that tall drink of water she's been crushing on and paints a dirty little picture of what she'd like to do to him:

Damn, I wish I was your lover
I'll rock you till the daylight comes
Make sure you are smilin' and warm
I am everything, tonight I'll be your mother
I will do such things to ease your pain
Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed, oh, oh
Open up on the inside, gonna fill you up, gonna make you cry.

4. "Crush" by David Archuleta

The guy in this 2008 pop song has just realized that he's crushing bad. His thoughts are dominated by his sweetie, he's mesmerized by her, and he feels so tingly he thinks it could be love or something like it. He needs to know whether he's alone in this little love affair or if just maybe she feels the same way.

12 Signs That Someone Has a Crush on You

 
 
 
They typically start the conversation.
They listen intently to you.
They always seem to be nearby.
None of your love interests are good enough for you, in their opinion.
You look over and they are frequently staring at you.
They offer you compliments and small gifts.
They change the subject when you talk about other dating partners.
They joke about dating or crazy what ifs. They talk in future tense about the two of you.
They smile at you a LOT, often with a big goofy grin.
They find excuses to touch you or be alone together.
They remember details about you that others don't.
Others tell you that the person likes you.

5. "Stuck Like Glue" by Sugarland

My teenage daughter described a cute crush story in which she and her best guy friend sat listening to this 2010 country song on repeat. The fella had one earbud in his ear and she had the other in hers. Together they belted out the lyrics to one another. But alas, they date other people.

This song is about feeling totally nuts about someone you've known for a long time. You may argue vigorously with them, but they make you feel like a kid. Your interpersonal attraction makes you stick together like super glue. It could describe best friends with a spark.

6. "Into You" by Ariana Grande

The narrator in this 2016 pop song is waiting for her crush to make a move. She wants a little less conversation and a little more action. Everybody's watching. Don't choke, Mr.!

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7. "Girlfriend" by Avril Lavigne

The confident girl in this sassy pop song from 2007 spells it right out. She doesn't like her crush's girlfriend, and time has come for him to find a new one. He deserves better, and she'll give him what he needs.

The narrator then issues him orders. If only it were this easy:

So come over here
And tell me what I wanna hear
Better yet, make your girlfriend disappear
I don't wanna hear you say her name ever again (and again and again).

8. "Crush" by Mandy Moore

In this 2001 pop song, the female narrator is crushing hard on a guy who shares her feelings—but for another girl, not her. Unfortunately, she can't find her backbone yet to let him in on the secret. Therefore, she may be staying in the Friend Zone forever.

9. “Check Yes Or No” by George Strait

If you grew up in a time before cell phones, you probably remember passing those oragami-folded love notes in class. Often, they required check-box answers.

The narrator in this 1995 country song waxes nostalgic about the sweet love notes that he and his wife once passed in elementary school:

Do you love me? Do you want to be my friend?
And if you do, well then don't be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes
Check yes or no.

You never know when a crush can turn in to something more.
You never know when a crush can turn in to something more. | Source

10. "Crush" by Yuna (featuring Usher)

There's a mutual crush forming in this 2016 R&B song. Hearts beat a little faster, and the guy tells this lady friend that she's just wasting time with all those other boys.

11. "Clumsy" by Fergie

Most people lose their wits about them when they have a crush. They smile a lot, stare too much, can't find anything to say, and fumble around like they have no thumbs.

This 2007 pop song will remind you of the funny things crushes have said or done. For example, a guy who once had a crush on me turned around after talking to me and walked smack into a telephone pole.

12. "Call Your Girlfriend" by Robyn

Sweedish singer Robyn issues step-by-step instructions to her intended new flame in this very danceable 2010 pop song. You have to admire a woman who knows what she wants, right?

Call your girlfriend
It's time you had the talk
Give your reasons
Say it's not her fault
But you just met somebody new

13. "Beautiful Soul" by Jesse McCartney

The fella in this 2004 pop song claims he just wants his crush and her beautiful soul, but he's also doubting himself a little. He wonders if she's out of his league.

Okay, let's be honest here. In real life, Beauty picks Brad Pitt over the Beast, and Prince Charming picks one of his socialite types rather than Cinderella, the house wench. But it's nice to dream, isn't it?

14. "Girl Crush" by Little Big Town

Hold on. Don't you get all judgmental on me.

If there's one thing this 2014 country ballad is NOT it's typical. The Grammy Award-winning song caused quite a controvery because some fans assumed it was about a lesbian couple.

However, the narrator who is crushing on a girl doesn't want to shag her. She wants everything the other girl has—her long blonde hair, perfume, her lips, and her touch—because they attract the man that she loves. He is the real object of her desire.

15. "I Wanna Be Your Lover” by Prince

Way back in 1979, this chart topper was Prince's first American hit single. It's about a man who yearns to be with his crush and tries to convince her how much better he can treat her than the other men she is accustomed to dating. The narrator doesn't have much money, but he promises to turn his lady love on and be everything she needs.

16. "Yeah Boy" by Kelsea Ballerini

This country song from 2015 was named the best crush song by Radio Disney. Okay, so the song leans young.

The protagonist is entranced by her crush's eyes, and every song on the radio reminds her of him. She wishes he'd wisk her away tonight for a ride in his car and some get-to-know-you-better time.

17. "Can't Fight This Feeling" by REO Speedwagon

A tidal wave of love looms large and threatens to overcome the guy in this 1984 pop song. Yet still he's trying to talk himself into sharing his crush for her. (Don't worry, crushes are often too obvious to stay secrets for long.)

She's been his galpal for awhile, but he's looking at her differently these days. The feeling has become so strong that he just can't hold back.

18. "Fallin' For You" by Colbie Callait

Watch out below because this girl is falling hard for the man in her life. In this 2009 pop song, the narrator is dancing with him and holding his hand but feels tentative about revealing her feelings.

19. "Jessie's Girl" by Rick Springfield

The number one rule of friendship is to keep your hands off each others' significant other. However, the lovesick guy in this classic 1981 pop song can't stop thinking about his best friend's girlfriend. The song was based on a friend named Gary and Gary's girlfriend.

20. "Smile" by Uncle Kracker

Love has done a number on the narrator in this 2009 pop song, and he's gushing with compliments about his crush. She's cooler than the flip side of his pillow and makes him forget how to breathe. In her presence, he loses all composure and becomes like a giddy little girl.

Crushes can be complicated when the object of your affection is taken.
Crushes can be complicated when the object of your affection is taken. | Source

Even More Songs About Crushes and Crushing on Someone

Song
Artist
Year Released
21. Hands To Myself
Selena Gomez
2016
22. Bad Case of Loving You
Robert Palmer
1979
23. Crush
Jennifer Paige
1998
24. Baby I
Ariana Grande
2013
25. Love Story
Taylor Swift
2008
26. Thunder
Boys Like Girls
2008
27. I Want to Hold Your Hand
The Beatles
1963
28. Closer
Tegan and Sara
2013
29. Cupid's Chokehold
Gym Class Heroes (featuring Patrick Stump)
2005
30. So Into You
The Atlanta Rhythm Section
1976
31. First Date
blink-182
2001
32. Stacy's Mom
Fountains of Wayne
2003
33. I Second That Emotion
Smokey Robinson
1967
34. Call Me Maybe
Carly Rae Jepson
2012
35. I Wanna Know
Joe
1999
36. Love You Out Loud
Rascal Flatts
2002
37. She Drives Me Crazy
Fine Young Cannibals
1989
38. Me & U
Cassie
2006
39. U Got It Bad
Usher
2001
40. Rush
Paula Abdul
1991
41. Baby, I Love Your Way
Peter Frampton
1975
42. Ain't Even Drinkin'
Tyler Farr
2013
43. Like This
Shawn Mendes
2016
44. There's Your Trouble
Dixie Chicks
1998
45. Why Don't You Make Up Your Mind?
Tame Impala
2011
46. #1 Crush
Garbage
1996
47. I’m On Fire
Bruce Springsteen
1985
48. The Way You Make Me Feel
Michael Jackson
1987
49. You Really Got Me
The Kinks
1964
50. I Can Love You Better
Dixie Chicks
1997
51. I Try to Think About Elvis
Patty Loveless
1994
52. Domino
Jessie J
2011
53. One Thing
One Direction
2012
54. Things I'll Never Say
Avril Lavigne
2002
55. One Time
Justin Bieber
2009
56. Heartbreak Girl
5 Seconds of Summer
2009
57. Teenage Dream
Tyler Ward
2010
58. Boyfriend
Justin Bieber
2012
59. Crazy for You
Madonna
1985
60. Breathe
Faith Hill
1999
61. The Search Is Over
Survivor
1984
62. Don't Cry Joni
Conway Twitty (featuring Joni Lee)
1976
63. Enchanted
Taylor Swift
2010
64. Only the Good Die Young
Billy Joel
1977
65. Hot for Teacher
Van Halen
1984
66. Leave Your Lover for Me
Sam Smith
2014
67. Something to Talk About
Bonnie Raitt
1991
68. Imagination
Shawn Mendes
2015
69. Perfect
Ed Sheeran
2017
70. Secret Love Song
Little Mix (featuring Jason Derulo)
2016
71. Can’t Help Falling in Love
Elvis Presley
1961
72. Wanted
Hunter Hayes
2011
73. Hungry Eyes
Eric Carmen
1987
74. She's Like the Wind
Patrick Swayze (featuring Wendy Fraser)
1987
75. Iris
Goo Goo Dolls
1998
76. Take Your Time
Sam Hunt
2014
77. Cupid
Sam Cooke
1961
78. My Eyes Adored You
Frankie Valli
1975
79. I Wanna Get Next to You
Rose Royce
1976
80. This Time I Know It's for Real
Donna Summer
1989
81. Can't Take My Eyes Off You
Frankie Valli
1967
82. Obvious
Westlife
2004
83. Sober Up
AJR (featuring Rivers Cuomo)
2017
84. Roses
Shawn Mendes
2016
85. Crush
Lila McCann
1999
86. As If
Sara Evans
2007
87. Teardrops on My Guitar
Taylor Swift
2007
88. What I Go To School For
Busted
2002
89. Naturally
Selena Gomez & The Scene
2009
90. Close
Nick Jonas (featuring Tove Lo)
2016
91. One Day
Tate McCrae
2017
92. Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic
The Police
1981
93. Alone
Heart
1987
94. Thirteen
Big Star
1972
95. Rumor
Lee Brice
2017
96. Dibs
Kelsea Ballerini
2015
97. Girls Like You
Maroon 5
2018
98. Singles You Up
Jordan Davis
2018
99. Black Butterflies & Déjà Vu
The Maine
2017
100. Hello
Martin Solveig (featuring Dragonette)
2011
101. Complicated
Carolyn Dawn Johnson
2001
102. uwu
Chevy (featuring Park bird)
2018
103. ME!
Taylor Swift
2019
104. Shower
Becky G
2014
105. Don't Ever Let It End
Nickelback
2011
106. Notice Me
Alli Simpson
2013
107. Crush
Avril Lavigne
2019
108. Sucker
Jonas Brothers
2019
109. Nobody Love
Tori Kelly
2015
110. Heartbeat Song
Kelly Clarkson
2015
111. Stop Standing There
Avril Lavigne
2011
112. I Really Like You
Carly Rae Jepson
2015
113. Brand New Key
Melanie
1971
114. The Tide Is High
Blondie
1980
115. Can't Blame a Girl for Trying
Sabrina Carpenter
2014
116. Had Me @ Hello
Olivia Holt
2012
117. Why Her Not Me
Grace Carter
2018
118. Eyes Off You
PRETTYMUCH
2019
119. One Shot
PRETTYMUCH
2019
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Crush, just thinking about you makes my heart explode.
Crush, just thinking about you makes my heart explode. | Source

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Questions & Answers

  • I want to tell my crush how much I love him, but I am very awkward and afraid of damaging our friendship. He already has a girlfriend, but he doesn't like her. He likes me instead. He never wants to be with his girlfriend; he only wants to be with me. He means the world to me, but he has no clue how I feel. Should I tell him how I feel?

    I'm concerned that you're getting ahead of yourself. First, you know that he's dating someone else, so honor that. If he truly didn't like her or want to be with her, he'd break up with her. Give him the space to figure that out for himself instead of being the cause of it. You wouldn't want anyone creating trouble in your dating relationship, would you?

    Second, since you say he has no clue how you feel, going from that to professing undying love is like going from zero to 100. Slow down. Work on a friendship with him instead while he works out his relationship issues. There's nothing wrong with letting him know that IF he ever becomes single, then you'd be interested. Or, you might say that he's your kind of guy, his girlfriend is very lucky, and ask him where you would meet someone like him? It gets the point across well enough.

    If he likes you as well as you claim he does, then you'll end up together. While he figures it out, however, don't stop looking elsewhere.

  • I have a crush in my school. She's about my age. I want to tell her that I like her since it's our final year in school. However, I don't have the guts to do so. She's smart, kind, and pretty, and I know she's out of my league. Should I forget about my secret crush or just tell her the truth?

    Think about it this way. I know people who went to high school 40 years ago who had a crush on a classmate but never took the chance to express themselves or ask the person out. You don't want to be one of them, do you?

    Since you're both in your last year in school, you need to take the chance while you have it. You don't have to express undying love for her, just ask her out. Just because you may be an unlikely couple doesn't mean you're beneath her.

    If it turns out that indeed she does not share your romantic interest, at least you have her out of your system. You won't be left wondering, "What if?" for the next umpteen decades. Sure, rejection hurts but we've all experienced it and we get over it. Not knowing is so much worse.

  • I want to get closer to my crush, even if it's just as a friend. How can I do that?

    Friendships start when people notice that they have things in common -- ideas, experiences, hobbies, interests, or other friends AND they expect to interact with one another regularly. Thus, you'll need an opportunity to share similarities and develop interpersonal trust through regular contact. That can be via classes, friendship groups, clubs or organizations you both belong to, etc.

    The best chance of doing so is if you have a mutual friend who can include you in the friend group that he hangs out in. You'll have a chance to talk with him and then see if you share common ideas, a sense of humor, interests, etc.

    Be genuine, but befriend a friend of his and you'll find yourself included in the group eventually. If that is absolutely not possible, join a club he's in, take a class he's in or learn about a hobby he's interested in (as long as you're genuinely interested). Start to sit near him if you're already in a class he's in, attend his games if he's in sports (especially if you have other friends on the team who can introduce you?), etc. Show some interest so you'll have something specific to talk to him about. (People love talking about themselves.)

    When I was a teenager, a guy who was crushing on me decided to become best friends with my next door neighbor to get closer to me. They played basketball for hours on my family's basketball hoop. Sometimes I'd go out and talk to him. We ended up dating long-term.

  • What should I do in this situation? I have 13 days left to talk to my crush before not seeing him for a long time. I really want to tell him how much I love him, but I am very awkward and afraid of damaging our friendship. I've heard from people that he has a crush on me. I am hoping its true, but I am still very skeptical. He means the world to me, but he has no clue. Should I tell him how I feel?

    You absolutely need to tell him. Do not delay. Since you have limited time and you will be apart for awhile, why not buy a parting gift that he can remember you by? It doesn't have to be big or expensive, just memorable, and preferably something he'll keep with him and remind him of you (i.e., not something generic). When you've made your selection, contact him, and either ask him to lunch or tell him you need to see him before he goes away. Present your gift there.

    Practice what you're going to say. Make sure he has your contact information and a photo. Better yet, take a parting selfie if it feels right. Set aside your fear and just GO FOR IT. People regret opportunities they don't take. If you'd like, you can pour your heart out in a card as well in case you don't nail it verbally. I'm rooting for you.

    You've got this.

  • My crush had a crush on my friend, but once she acknowledged that she liked him back, he didn't like her anymore. Sometimes, he flirts with me, but he also flirts with every girl in my class. What should I do -- give up or continue to crush on him?

    This one is easy. The only one this guy truly has a crush on is himself. Leave him alone. He's a player, pure trouble and not worth the time or emotion you invest.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 days ago from USA

      Brayden - Since you've known her for 6 years she's not exactly a stranger, so that's good. I've written an article, "How to Tell Your Crush That You Like Them," that addresses exactly this question: https://hubpages.com/dating/How-to-Tell-Your-Crush...

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      Brayden 

      7 days ago

      Hey I have know this girl for 6 years and we are friends but for the past 3 years I've been hiding my attraction from her. I'm 17 and I'm a senior now. I feel like the song "you and me" from lifehouse. I don't have much time and I'm not sure she is even into me. It's been aching my heart for years now. My only problem is I don't know how to approach her. Can you help me please?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 days ago from USA

      Just laugh - I’m not sure if the dance will happen given the pandemic but with the crush, don’t wait. You have signs that it’s mutual so give him your number and let him feel like he is making the first move. Don’t wait him out and play games. Time is not on your side given that you may move. Don't send messages through your friend either. Deal directly with him. Good luck.

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      Just Laugh in the hardest times 

      8 days ago

      Hi. Um i've never done any of these before but So My best friend is a couple years older than me, but her younger brother is my age. I've been "friends" with him for quite some time now. He is very shy though. His sister keeps hinting that he likes me. I catch him looking at me quite often actually, now that I think about it. I think I could possibly be catching feelings... I don't know what to do though. I've talked to him through instagram. But I am way too chicken to ask him for his number. Its my junior year in high school and there is a dance this year.. (Well when the school year starts) Should I maybe ask him to dance. Well thats if he doesnt end up asking me... or should I just ask him for his number. You see there is a big possibility that I might be moving this year. And I don't want it to be to late. Could you give me any advice?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 weeks ago from USA

      Megan - You do have a crush, although you're probably mixing your memory and what you wish he would be with what he actually is. That's not unusual but also not silly. Just take it slow and treat it like any other online relationship since he doesn't remember you like you recall him. It was obviously a long time ago, you do actually have the elementary school and common experiences in your background, and at some point he may suddenly remember you. Good luck and be safe.

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      Megan 

      2 weeks ago

      Hi! So when I was in elementary, I had this HUGE crush on this kid that we will can Aiden. Aiden and I were close friends, he knew I liked him but nothing ever happened. He moved away in 3rd grade. Recently, I found his Instagram and sent a follow request. He approved it and followed me. I commented on his post asking if he had gone to the elementary school. He said yes. Later that day, he sent me a DM and we continued talking. He lives 3-4 hours away. He’s super sweet, nice, respectful, and so damn hot. He, however, doesn’t remember me. My friends are convinced I still have feelings. I mean sure, he’s really cute, but if he asked me out I wouldn’t say yes, only bc I don’t know him that well anymore. What should I do? I don’t want to appear weird,I believe he’s single. And do I have an actual crush or is this kinda silly and it’s just old stuff?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 weeks ago from USA

      Annabeth - Good luck to you. I wish you the best.

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      Annabeth 

      7 weeks ago

      I'm 15 now, and I only have a year until I will move again. So thank you for suggesting that I tell the truth. :)

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 weeks ago from USA

      Annabeth - You are young and at this point there isn't pressure to date or be exclusive or anything so just let things happen. There is no need to "do" anything. If you potentially like both guys, be open and honest about your feelings with both as conversations come up and don't hide it. That way, there's no conflict. Everything is out in the open. Enjoy your relationships with both, whatever they happen to be!

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      Annabeth 

      7 weeks ago

      I also forgot to mention that I'm not sure if I like him, or another guy that I'm friends with that likes me. Im very confused, is there any advice you could give me?

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      Annabeth 

      7 weeks ago

      Hi, I met this guy in third grade and him and I became really close, He asked me out a couple of times, but I can't date until I'm 16. So he said he would wait for me. We were super close, we didn't want our classmates, or each other to know that we liked each other. I liked him for 4 years. And he was sort of my date to a dance. He is very smart and kind and was like my other half. We went to school together, but he was also my next door neighbor. In the summer I was supposed to go to 6th grade, we moved to a different state. We were In that other state for a year when my dad announced that we were moving. It turns out we were going back to the same small town, and i ended up being next door neighbors with him again, just in a different house. So that summer he came over every once in a while when it used to be almost daily. You see, neither of us go to the same school anymore. We are both very smart so we are going to schools that best fit us and our parents budgets. Its been a year since we moved back, and we just talk every once in awhile. I can say that my feelings for him haven't gone away. I don't think his has either. What should I do?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 months ago from USA

      Trent Thibeaux - If one of the 119 songs listed here don't work, then click on my profile to access one of the other 250 or so playlists. There's gotta be something perfect just for her.

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      Trent Thibeaux 

      2 months ago

      I need a song that i can put on for my girlfriend

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 months ago from USA

      Savanna - Wow, this is an overwhelming amount of communication. I hope that when you talk with your crushes you are more measured in how much you say at one time and that you take time to listen as well as talk. The risk is that you can sound like you're having verbal diarrhea. Just give that some thought.

      Your questions about whether you have a crush on him and how to share your feelings with your crush are addressed in the following articles on PairedLife: http://hub.me/an3Lf "How to Tell Your Crush That You Like Them"

      http://hub.me/an6SK "How to Know When You Have a Crush." If he already has a girlfriend, that's a moral decision you're going to have to make regarding whether you're comfortable being someone who attempts to intrude on someone else's relationship. I'd want someone to respect my commitment, and I'd be very upset it someone knowingly tried to take my boyfriend. What goes around comes around.

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      Savanna 

      2 months ago

      Ok, so there's this guy that I have had a crush on ever since I saw him walk on my school bus, and for some reason a lot of nights I literally dream that we are a couple, anyway we have said hi to each other in a few times before but I don't know how to tell him I like him, because first of all a few other girls like him too, and the worst part is he has a girlfriend, and lots of people in the past that I have told them I was attracted to them they either were freaked out that I told them or they were disgusted, and on top of it he's literally a few houses down from me. Two things I wanna know is how to tell him I like him and this may sound crazy but, I can't tell for sure if i'm in love with him or not, i've been in love before, but in a way it's different. I can't stop dreaming about him and I feel really nervous when i'm around him, he's a really nice and funny guy, I mean i'm just confused about what to do!

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 months ago from USA

      MG - Yes, a crush is a developing attraction. It's often a term that teens and very young people use.

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      MG Singh 

      2 months ago from Singapore

      What is a crush, its a liking for someone? For me, I always have a crush going. Lovely selection, quite an effort compiling them.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      2 months ago from USA

      Peyton - I recommend taking it slow, developing a friendship with him and reading my article, "How to Tell Your Crush That You Like Them" on PairedLife." https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-to-Tell-Your-Cru...

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      Peyton 

      2 months ago

      sooo.. I like this boy but I do not know if he likes me back.. I have only been to his house like 10 times and he has been to mine about 10 as well. We facetime at least once a day if not more when we are not together and always are texting. Our parents have been friends for a while but my parents do not know how I feel about him and neither does he. I have liked him for about a month now and I have surprisingly done pretty good not making it weird when we are together or talking. He is a year older than me and tells me he doesn't like anyone. I can not tell if he is lying or not, but I have been told by multiple people that he likes me but again they can be lying to. He dated my best friend two years ago and sometimes I can not tell if they are over each other, they do not really flirt they just talk at school a lot and I just do not know who to believe or what I should do in this situation.. So please..please help me!!

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      FlourishAnyway 

      4 months ago from USA

      Susan - Rather than approach it as a "relationship," instead describe it as a special friendship and ask if he can spend time with you and your family as a group. With more exposure to him, they'll see that he is trustworthy, kind, and responsible (rather than threatening and ready to impregnante you) and that you two are okay to spend some time together. They're treating you like you're 12, but attempt to have a reasonable discussion. You're close to being a legal adult! Maybe they can agree that he can come over to dinner, come over for a family game nights, or you all can go on family outings together -- once this pandemic is over. In the meantime, connect over social media since we all have to socially distance!

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      Susan 

      4 months ago

      Hi, I met this really great guy and we both like each other but I'm not allowed to date. I'm 17 and I'm a straight A student. I don't drink or do drugs or anything like that, I'm not perfect but I'm responsible and trustworthy. I've talked to my parents but they won't let me date him. How can I convince them that I'm ready for a relationship?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      4 months ago from USA

      Maya - Give him a chance to respond. Explain what's been going on and understand that maybe he has similar demands on his end. Be direct and let him know that you really like him and miss seeing him in person but hope you can keep up via social media. A little honesty goes a long way.

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      Maya 

      4 months ago

      So I'm currently a senior in High School, and I met this guy in my night class. He was really friendly and kinda cute and even though we only saw each other once a week we developed a friendship. However, I was in a relationship already but things with the guy I was dating just weren't working out and I broke up with him. I continued to be the exact same with this guy in my night class, and I started to question if maybe I wanted to be more than friends. Then I started to think that maybe he liked me because he would be kinda of flirty and sometimes he would tell me that I looked really nice. Also, both of us are really into music and we were always telling each other certain artists or songs to listen to. I started to notice that he started telling me songs that were about feelings or kinda of romantic-ish first Moonlight by Bayou, then My Type by Saint Motel, and then Hung Up by Madonna. At first I didn't think it meant anything but then we started texting a lot and one day he did something really funny and he said that he loves to make me laugh when I asked him why he told me it was because he wanted me to like him. So about six weeks have passed and my feelings for this guy went from a slight attraction too a full blown crush. Only the problem is we no longer see each other because school is canceled because of the corona virus. We used to text all the time but for the past two weeks I've been kinda busy and it takes me longer to respond to his messages. I told him that I was going to be busy so I might not respond for awhile and he said he understood. This week we've barely texted at all. I texted him last night and he still hasn't even read the message. I'm worried that I might have hurt his feelings and made him possibly stop liking me. I really like him and I don't know what to do. Also I'm worried that I might be jumping in to things too quickly. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and even though I've completely moved on I'm not sure I should like someone else this soon. I really like this guy, but even if things don't work out romantically I really value his friendship and I don't know what to do.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      4 months ago from USA

      bhattuc - Thank you for the kind commendation.

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      bhattuc 

      4 months ago

      This is a great article. Almost like a book on the matter in hand. Sort of compendium. Thanks.

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      = just me = 

      4 months ago

      I have a crush on my landlord, been her tenant for 5 months now. She’s very kind and sweet and for that I truly respect her with all my heart.

      I know whatever I feel for her must be contained, moreso must be stopped coz it is way too complicated . So I decided to keep my distance. Make story short I started avoiding her coz when I see her or even have a small chat with her, my mind literally can’t think of anything but her alone. I think my strategy works well coz I think of her less now. However, I’m worried that she might get offended for she might think I’m being disrepectful of her.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      5 months ago from USA

      amelah - Life is about taking risks. Here is a helpful article about how to tell your crush that you like them: https://hubpages.com/dating/How-to-Tell-Your-Crush...

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      amelah 

      5 months ago

      i want to tell my crush i like him but im not sure how to say it i dont want to get rejected and ruin our friendship but i dont just want to be friends i was to be more but i dont think he feels the same way

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      FlourishAnyway 

      5 months ago from USA

      Harvey1881 - Give her personal compliments, make the conversation increasingly personal (her opinions, feelings, beliefs, perspectives), and invite her to do something small but enjoyable (go to lunch or coffee, visit a museum, go for a walk). If she accepts and seems to appreciate small gestures, build on these and share your own feelings. Since she has recently left a relationship, she may not immediately be looking for anything deep so take it slow.

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      Harvey1881 

      5 months ago

      Ok so I have a crush on a lady that is a few years older than me and we use to work together and we talk almost daily and I know she has ended her relationship with who she was with but I don't know how to go about letting her really know how I feel

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      FlourishAnyway 

      5 months ago from USA

      Ziya - Two years is a long time to have a crush on someone and not have an answer. If he rejects you, sure, it won't feel great but you'll have your answer and you can move on instead of wasting more time. If he likes you back, however ... game changer! Find out. https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-to-Tell-Your-Cru...

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      Ziya 

      5 months ago

      So I have a crush on this dude at my school and he is amazing in every way and sometimes I feel he giving me mixed signals and we have spoken before and other things. But my feeling for this boy is so irritating cause I don’t know how he feels and I want to talk to him about but I’m so scared of rejection. It just scares me so much of the thought of not likening him. I just don’t know anymore I’ve had a crush on him for 2 years

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      FlourishAnyway 

      6 months ago from USA

      Hadee Deh - If she is an adult and doesn't work for you or isn't in your class (i.e., you don't have any official authority over her that would be interpreted as coercion) it may be deemed fair to gently approach the subject such as asking her out for coffee. However, .if she thinks of you as her mentor or teacher and especially if there is a large age difference between you, there may be an ick factor to it. Approach the topic carefully.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      6 months ago from USA

      Wilfred Shulet - Let her resolve the relationship she is currently in before you get serious. If you fail to do that, someone will get hurt.

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      Hadee Deh 

      6 months ago

      Hi. So I've had this crush on a student of mine ever since our first class. She's not my student anymore. We correspond with each other and are pretty friendly, but I think she still sees me as her teacher. Should I confess my crush?

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      Wilfred shulet 

      6 months ago

      I have a girlfriend who's already has a husband before he left her and came into my life. what should I do with her.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      6 months ago from USA

      Asher - I've never heard of your sexual identity (it sounds like cheating) but as long as everyone is on board and aware I guess there's nothing wrong.

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      Asher 

      6 months ago

      So ummm my crush is breaking up with his girl and umm i have a gf but im polomorasexual so i like being with more than one person soo what should i do should i aask him or keep it

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      FlourishAnyway 

      6 months ago from USA

      Adarsh - As much as you love one another, that is a long time to wait. I hope the timing is right for you both. Good luck.

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      Adarsh 

      6 months ago

      My love story is different, she knows that I love her, I love her till the death, but I'm still 19, first I need to build a carrier, then I need have to take a responsibility, I'm not a kind of person who will dump her after some time,, I have been texting, talking to her from last 3 year's and I want next 50-60-70 years together, we talk a lot, actually I talk a lot, I share everything, she knows my Evey sh*t thing's, she is a good listener, and I'm a bad Strorteller, she's talk active person, not with me... I don't know why and I'm ok with that... Fallen for her bcz of those Beautiful hair which I will be remembering forever,, Someday I'm gonna hold her hand and I will request her to Wait for max 4 years so I can settle down,, bcz I want you badly, I believe in ma gut that you will be waiting for me....

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      FlourishAnyway 

      6 months ago from USA

      Alexia - If he has a girlfriend, turn your attention elsewhere. Don't try to be the cause of a breakup. You wouldn't want someone to do that to your relationship.

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      Alexia 

      6 months ago

      I have crush on this guy. I like him since i'm enter the middle school .His my first love.He didn't have a girlfriend,but now,he have a girlfriend.I never confess to him but when he have a girlfriend,I feel like I want to confess to him.Should I confess or NOT??

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 months ago from USA

      kingjoe1 - She seems to treat you differently online vs. in person. You've had a crush on her for a while so how about asking her out for pizza or a smoothie or something that doesn't seem like a night time "date?" That'll give you the chance to talk to her one-on-one about what's going on in her life, how she feels about you, and why she's giving you mixed messages. Be sure to put your feelings out there. My guess is that there's something about you that is frustrating her. Maybe it's some misunderstanding? Express your feelings in person to her and see how she responds.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 months ago from USA

      Deepa - If there is a mutual attraction but he is too busy because he is always playing video games, it doesn't seem like he has his priorities straight. Gaming can be addictive and all-consuming. Text him and propose that you meet in person for lunch or something similar and when you do so make sure you have his full attention. See if there is a human connection at that time. Don't continue to have a lopsided romance. You'll find it unfulfilling and the more you invest the worse it will become. Good luck.

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      kingjoe1 

      7 months ago

      I have this one crush, I've known her since last year and we always had a good relationship. On snapchat, she sends people streaks but never sends one back to me. I snapped her saying how was your day and she ignored and I snapped her again directly and she said haha I'm doing good. We had a convo about computer science around midnight and I have a feeling she doesn't like me but every time we are next to each other in real life she smiles and tries to bring up a conversation. When I see her, she puts her head down and waits for me to make the first move. I check out her "vsco" collection and she keeps republishing posts that say show she wants to say something but is afraid too. And how she doesn't have time for small talk then we don't talk again. I posted a picture on instagram and she liked it but she keeps skipping my stories as well and I just think I should post a New Years post and see if she likes it. I also have a feeling she muted my profile on Instagram so she wouldn't see my stories anymore. I don't know what to do to be honest.

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      Deepa 

      7 months ago

      I just like a guy very much .he is little different from other normal guys. I told him about my feelings indirectly and he too admitted that he also like me .but after that we are not having sufficient conversation as he is a gamer he is always busy .if he also likes me then why dont he text me first? Why always me ? I helplessy fall for him even he dont give attention

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 months ago from USA

      PinkStarbursts - This happens. Refocus your energy on your committed romance at home and try to breathe some new fire into it. Additionally, admitting the crush to your significant other is one way to kill it fast, providing they are adult enough to process the information. Keep conversations with the crush professional/work-related rather than venturing into personal discussions. You might also lay low for a while. Review the indicators of "how to flirt" to ensure that you're not doing that near him (head tilting, lengthy eye contact, touching, sitting/standing close, etc.). Good luck.

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      PinkStarbursts 

      7 months ago

      I have been in my current relationship for over 10 years, and I love my partner very much, but as happens sometimes in life, I have a crush on a coworker, who is married. I've been trying really hard to hide it from the coworker, but I think I've been figured out. How do I get over this or make things less obvious/awkward?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 months ago from USA

      Anonymous - He doesn't seem to be available right now, as he has a girlfriend. The best you can hope for is a friendship. Live your life and pursue other interests, including other dating interests. It's possible his girlfriend found out about the crush.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      7 months ago from USA

      Brian - A lot of that depends on their level of skill and subtlety (or lack of it). Although it focuses on how to recognize when you have a crush, the following article lists signs of a crush and it applies to recognizing crushes in others as well:

      https://hubpages.com/dating/How-to-Know-When-You-H... Look for the signs. Your friends know, too, if this person seems to be sweet on you.

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      Anonymous 

      7 months ago

      My crush is a guy a half inch shorter than me. We were best friends last year, and he’s been ignoring me lately. I recently got his number and found out he has a girlfriend. I really like him, and he’s really kind to me, or was at least.

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      Brian 

      7 months ago

      How do you know if your crush is trying to get your attention?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      8 months ago from USA

      anonymous - Your description is very sweet. I encourage you to let him know that you think he is special and exchange contact information in case you want to stay in touch. Here is an article on how to tell your crush that you like them: https://pairedlife.com/dating/How-to-Tell-Your-Cru...

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      anonymous 

      8 months ago

      I have a crush, he is only 124 days older than me. He goes to my school and my scouts but he will be up leaving scouts soon because he will turn 15 in the ne t August and then after year 11 (he is in year 10 right now) we will probably never see each other again. Right now we are just friends but I am longing to be with him I just don’t know how he feels. The only thing I have gotten really is he replies very fast to my texts and I noticed him looking at me and when I caught him, he smirked and shrugged then looked the other way. I have a feeling he is talking to someone though... he might not be. But we have totally different tastes in music! But I think he is so sweet and funny and omg I just love him I sing these songs to myself at night time because it lets me think of what it would be like if we were together

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      FlourishAnyway 

      8 months ago from USA

      Angela - ok thanks

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      Angela Batson 

      8 months ago

      my crush is awsome amnd cute

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Anonymous - Good luck and thank you for sharing.

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      Anonymous 

      9 months ago

      I have a crush, his name is Max, he even has the same religion as me, we've played volleyball together for a church activity, but I don't think I'm ever going to tell him I like him, besides I'm not even 16 yet. I did catch him sneaking glances at me yesterday though

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      natdog - Just because you're an unlikely pair doesn't mean it's hopeless. Choose a song from this very long song list.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Layla - Thank you for the song suggestions. Have a great week.

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      Robert Sacchi 

      9 months ago

      Yes, Blondie had some great songs.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Bob - Great song! I love Blondie. I added it at #114.

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      Layla 

      9 months ago

      Don't Blame A Girl for Trying by: Sabrina Carpenter

      Senorita by: Shawn Mendes and Camila Cabello

      Replay by: Zendaya

      Had Me @ Hello by: Olivia Holt

      Smoke and Fire by: Sabrina Carpenter

      Love Is The Name by: Sofia Carson

      Last Christmas by: Asher Angel

      One Thought Away by: Asher Angel

      Chemistry by: Asher Angel

      Getaway by: Asher Angel

      YOUTH by: Troye Sivan

      Written In The Stars by: The Girl and The Dreamcatcher

      Glowing In The Dark by: The Girl and The Dreamcatcher

      Hurricane by: Forever In Your Mind

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      Robert Sacchi 

      9 months ago

      Would "The Tide is High" by Blondie fall into this category?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Cupcake - He likes someone else so don't go chasing him when you know he has a girlfriend. It cheapens the attraction. If he really liked you as much as you liked him he'd break up with her. Sorry but I'm just giving it to you straight.

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      Cupcake 

      9 months ago

      Basically me and this boy met in secondary and ever since I have liked him. We sit together a lot so I decided to ask him out and he said no. But a couple days later he said it’s only cause he liked someone else so now I’m unsure of his feelings for me . What should I do ???

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      Robert Sacchi 

      9 months ago

      You're welcme. Hope you had a great weekend.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Bob - Thanks for the suggestion which I added. Have a great week ahead.

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      Robert Sacchi 

      9 months ago

      Would "Brand New Key" by Melanie fall into this category?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      idk - Make sure you understand one another so no one gets hurt.

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      idk 

      9 months ago

      He is currently one of my friends. We call everyday and we have 2 classes together. I'm not sure if he likes me, or if its just a good friendship. Even I'm not sure if I like him like that. I'm not longing to be with him, I just really appreciate him. I think its just a rlly good friendship.

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      natdog12345678910 

      9 months ago

      i like someone they dont notice me and i have no chance with him what are some suggegtions u have for me

    • FlourishAnyway profile imageAUTHOR

      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Bob - I didn't know that either!

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      Robert Sacchi 

      9 months ago

      So that's what My Sharona is all about. Thanks Spinspiel.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Spinspiel - Thanks for the song suggestion.

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      Spinspiel 

      9 months ago

      OMG you are missing the biggest "crush" song of all time -----

      The Knack - My Sharona.

      Doug Fieger of the Knack had a crush on 17 year old Sharona Alperin.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Haylee - Thanks for these songs suggestions. I've added them! Have a great week!

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Mimmy - Thank you for these great song suggestsions! Have a wonderful week ahead.

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      Haylee 

      9 months ago

      Stop Standing There by Avril Lavigne, Crush by Avril Lavigne, I Really Like You by Carly Rae Jepsen.

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      Mimmy 

      9 months ago

      Song suggestions:

      1. Crush by Avril Lavigne.

      2. Sucker by Jonas Brothers.

      3. Nobody Love by Tori Kelly.

      4. Heartbeat Song by Kelly Clarkson.

      5. Ment to be by Bebe Rexha.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      9 months ago from USA

      Eva - Thank you for the song suggestions. The Tate McRae song was already on there and I added the Alli Simpson song. Regarding your question, a number of others have asked similar questions. Instead of writing him a note, try to talk with him and develop a personal connection first to see if there is an attraction. Take a look at the questions and answers above for specific suggestions on how to do that. I've answered many questions on the topic.

      You've convinced me to write an article about the topic instead of answering these one by one.

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      Eva 

      9 months ago

      Hey i really like this boy in my class. we are not friends and we never talk. how can i get closer to him? if i write him a secret love letter and put it in his locker, what kind of stuff should i say?

      also i have a few song suggestions. they are "notice me" by Alli Simpson, "one day" by Tate McRae and "i think im in love again" by Kat Dahlia. thanks

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      Robert Sacchi 

      10 months ago

      You're welcome.

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      FlourishAnyway 

      10 months ago from USA

      Bob - Thanks for the song suggestion.

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      Robert Sacchi 

      10 months ago

      Another trip down memory lane. Have you considered "Midnight Confessions" by The Grass Roots?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      11 months ago from USA

      Lana - You don't say how you determined that he "clearly" did not have the same feelings for you. However, it seems that your relationship with him has recently strengthened. If he is flirting now, then you've probably gotten mixed messages along the way. Or, maybe you've read him incorrectly. Resolve it with open and honest face-to-face communication.

      There is nothing wrong with finding a quiet time when you have time to talk and both of you are relaxed. Then just ask him. The conversation might go along the lines of, "So … can I ask you what is this thing we have going on? I'm confused. Are we just buddies who flirt on occasion or do you want it to be more?" Don't be afraid to ask him to state his feelings or intentions, but at the same time be ready to do the same. If what he wants doesn't coincide with your own goals, be ready to cool things way down and let him know WHY. There are plenty of attractive, sensitive young men out there who are interested in meaningful relationships rather than just the latest sexual conquest. Get the answer you need rather than just guessing. Good luck!

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      Lana Rosemund 

      11 months ago

      i reconnected with an old friend of mine i used to go school with about a year ago. I started to grow a crush on him but he clearly did not feel the same, but lately since around 5 months we have been flirting and talking a lot. we make it sure that we talk or update each other about our day everyday. He insisted on meeting me and plans to meet me again and hang out often. sometimes he acts weird which makes me sceptical. i doubt that he flirts with me just because he is bored but then he does something sweet. its like we have this unspoken thing and we are kinda in the 'talking phase' but idk. plus i cannot confess cause im scared it might damage my friendship with him, also my overthinking gets me to believe that he is a sort of a fuckboy. please help me :(

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      FlourishAnyway 

      11 months ago from USA

      Mina - You're either going to have to wait for him to respond to the friend request if he sees it, remembers it, etc. OR strike up an in-person conversation and see if you might have something in common. Take a chance. It's just a conversation.

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      Mina 

      11 months ago

      I’ve a crush on someone we attended the same school today but we never spoke to each other ;( he knows I exist and I send him a friend request but he hasn’t yet respond

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      FlourishAnyway 

      11 months ago from USA

      Girl with a crush - 1) Be a little more positive about what you have to offer; and 2) if everybody knows then someone will surely tell him or else it's so obvious he's likely to notice the crush himself. Good luck, Alexandra!

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      Girl with a crush 

      11 months ago

      I have no chance with my crush and yaaaaaaaaaa also EVERYONE KNOWS I LIKE HIM EXCEPT HIM

      Thanks for reading

      - Alexandra

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      FlourishAnyway 

      12 months ago from USA

      Bucky - Here are a couple of suggestions:

      1) "Ever Little Thing She Does Is Magic" by The Police (1981)

      2) "I'm a Mess" by Bebe Rexha (2018)

      3) "I Want You to Want Me" by Cheap Trick (1977)

      Good luck with your love connection.

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      Bucky 

      12 months ago

      Do you have any song suggestions about being in love with someone you know you would never have a chance with? :(

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      FlourishAnyway 

      12 months ago from USA

      CatherineD - Both you and Ava need to stay away from this dangerous person. If he is threatening to kill you, report him to the police. Honor Ava's choice to date someone else and refrain from pursuing the relationship while she is committed to another person.

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      CatherineD 

      12 months ago

      I have a crush.. it’s a girl I’m bi and I like her.. but she’s already dating a boy and the boy she is dating is... my ex boyfriend, he said he hates me and if i go near Ava (my crush) he will kill me.. so idk what to do.. do you have any ideas? P.s. Ava is bi too

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      FlourishAnyway 

      12 months ago from USA

      Sadie, He likes you, but beware of those close hugs at 2 a.m.

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      SadieTorgesen 

      12 months ago

      This week I went to a church camp, and we were put into groups. I was in the same group as a really cute guy. All week we were talking to each other, and he was continually messing with me. We got back at 2 this morning and he came over to me and said he had fun with me then asked if we could hug. He also told me he likes my hair and he thinks it is pretty. I don’t have any idea I feel if he likes me though. What do you think?

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      FlourishAnyway 

      12 months ago from USA

      Jimmy - Thank you for the recommendation. Have a great week!

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      jimmy 

      12 months ago

      shower by becky g would be a great one to add!

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      FlourishAnyway 

      13 months ago from USA

      Kirra - Get closer to him and make yourself known. He's not larger than life. He's just a person like you and me. Start a conversation with a simple smile and hello.

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