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41 Songs About Alzheimer's and Dementia

FlourishAnyway believes there is a playlist for just about any situation and is on a mission to unite and entertain the world through song.

These pop, rock, country, and folk songs are a tribute to patients with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia as well as the families who lovingly support them. Make a playlist of songs about dementia to spread awareness.

These pop, rock, country, and folk songs are a tribute to patients with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia as well as the families who lovingly support them. Make a playlist of songs about dementia to spread awareness.

The Long Goodbye: There's Big Trouble with Granny

Big trouble has been brewing with Granny for years, and everyone knows that it's getting worse. Her doctors call it "mild to moderate cognitive impairment." Behaviorally, we see a terse and confused 86-year-old woman who sometimes picks up the television remote when the phone rings.

Granny can't be left alone because she gives away sensitive information over the phone to anyone who asks—her banking and credit card numbers, social security number, whatever people ask for. She forgets to eat, makes lewd comments that would shame most grown men, and suspects that someone is stealing from her, planning against her, or both.

My cousin and I were befuddled when Granny "introduced" us to one another recently. We clearly knew one another, but did she? Dementia can be difficult on families as well as the person diagnosed.

If your family is struggling with a dementia diagnosis, consider making a playlist of these pop, rock, and country songs that pay tribute to patients with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia as well as the families who support them in their journey. Many of these songs exhibit great empathy. Take comfort in knowing that you are not alone in this struggle.

1. "I'm Not Gonna Miss You" by Glen Campbell

Known as country music's Rhinestone Cowboy, Glen Campbell spent five decades in the music business and won both a Grammy Hall of Fame and Lifetime Achievement Award.

In 2011, he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's Disease. This poignant autobiographical song from 2014 tugs at the heartstrings as it fittingly describes his receding memory: "I'm still here, but yet I'm gone."

Unfortunately, the singer's family was embroiled in internal battles over his care as he faced the end stages of the disease living in a memory care facility. Although an internet hoax reported his death in May 2017, he actually died in August 2017.

2. "While He Still Knows Who I Am" by Kenny Chesney

This 2012 country song will leave a lump in your throat. The narrator returns home with intentions of trying to visit and reconnect with his father who is battling dementia:

I'm going back to see him
While he still knows
Who I am.

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3. "When You Were Superman" by Massive Dog

On some level, every child believes that his or her parents are invulnerable. Dementia shatters that ideal.

This touching pop song from 2014 features a narrator who fondly recalls his father's previous superhero status. The narrator juxtaposes memories of his own growing up, having his dad teach him skills like reading and tying his shoes with his father’s current loss of them.

The son wishes he could restore his father’s vigor and vitality by finding out who holds the kryponite, and he's sad that

Superman can’t save the world anymore.
He’s fading fast, but
You’ll always be Superman to me.

4. "Afire Love" by Ed Sheeran

Ed Sheeran's grandfather battled Alzheimer's Disease for 20 years before it claimed his life in 2013. This 2014 pop song describes Sheeran's memories of growing up with a grandfather who lost the ability to recognize even those who were close to him. It also tenderly portrays the love between his grandparents.

5. "Faces of Stone" by David Gilmour

In this 2015 alternative rock song, an old couple walks, arm in arm. The woman suffers from memory problems and vividly recalls stories from both her youth and childhood home by the sea. She doesn't understand that she is not walking with the lover from her younger years.

6. "Doing The Right Thing" by Daughter

The narrator of this 2016 alternative rock song laments the inevitability of growing old. He reflects on the biological purpose of our lives as reproduction, merely perpetuating ourselves.

After we serve that austere purpose, eventually one loses the people he loves, his purpose, and perhaps his mind:

I have lost my children
I have lost my love
I just sit in silence
Let the pictures soak
Out of televisions
Out of televisions… .

7. "Where've You Been?" by Kathy Mattea

This moving 1989 country song won a Grammy Award for good reason. It was written by the singer's husband regarding his own grandparents' lifetime love affair and a moment they shared towards the end of their lives.

Three different meanings of the question, "Where've you been?" are reflected in the song. The first depicts the couple as young lovers, with the woman asking her new flame where he's been all her life. In the second scenario, they are a married couple, and she is thankful to see him when he returns home late from work in the midst of a bad storm.

In the last scenario, the lifetime partners have been married 60 years but are now resigned to living in a care facility on different floors. The wife experiences dementia. She

... soon lost her memory, forgot the names of family
She never spoke a word again
Then one day they wheeled him in ... .

8. "I Miss Her" by Jessie J

Addressing God, the narrator in this 2013 pop song describes a relative who is an empty shell of her former self, as her mind has been ravaged by dementia. Watching her loved one slip away mentally, the narrator asks God for help and healing. She misses her relative even though she is still here.

9. "Veronica" Elvis Costello

If you have a loved one with dementia like I do, it is bittersweet to compare what they used to be to what they have become. The singer wrote this 1989 rock song about his grandmother with Alzheimer's and her "terrifying moments of lucidity."

Veronica, the old woman in the song, now seems to exist in a dream state or perhaps she is is hiding from reality. The narrator refers to her youth, when her mind was carefree and she carried a devilish look in her eye. Those days have long disappeared, however.

Dementia is an umbrella term that includes symptoms caused by many diseases.  Alzheimer's disease is the most common type of dementia, but other forms include vascular dementia, dementia with Lewy bodies and frontotemporal dementia.

Dementia is an umbrella term that includes symptoms caused by many diseases. Alzheimer's disease is the most common type of dementia, but other forms include vascular dementia, dementia with Lewy bodies and frontotemporal dementia.

10. "Silent House" by Dixie Chicks

The woman at the center of this 2006 country song has sadly forgotten many of the parts of her life that made it unique and remarkable. Her relative, the narrator, takes a good look at all of the family photographs, handmade objects, clothing, books, and personal items that belong to the ailing woman and now fill up the family home. The younger woman then promises to take these items and try to connect them, thus carrying on the old woman's memories and spirit.

11. "Unraveling" by Liz Longley

The grandaughter of a dementia patient struggles with her grief in this pop song from 2013. She is left with boxes and baskets of her grandmother's treasured items, but the old woman's memory is failing:

She looks in my eyes and asks me my name
Every five minutes I tell her the same.
She smiles, but it's cold and dead
And I'm screaming out loud in my head.

Most people with dementia are over the age of 65, but dementia is not an inevitable consequence of growing old.  Some types of early onset dementia typically strike people as young as their 40s.

Most people with dementia are over the age of 65, but dementia is not an inevitable consequence of growing old. Some types of early onset dementia typically strike people as young as their 40s.

10 Warning Signs and Symptoms of Dementia

Source: Alzheimer's Association

Warning SignWarning Sign

Memory loss affecting job skills and daily function

Problems with abstract thinking

Difficulty performing familiar tasks such as following a recipe, driving to a famiiar location, or remembering the rules to a favorite game

Misplacing things, such as putting items in inappropriate places

Problems with language, such as forgetting simple words or substituting the wrong word

Changes in mood and behavior, such as rapid mood swings for no known reason

Disorientation of time and location

Personality changes, such as becoming suspicious, fearful, or confused

Poor or inappropriate judgment

Loss of initiative, including passivity and requiring prompting to act

12."Vanishing Mind" by Calexico

This alternative rock song from 2012 fittingly describes dementia as the "vanishing mind." With its references to sealed rooms and waiting in hallways, it envokes images of nursing homes and reminds us that it's challenging to understand someone when there is nothing left to remember them.

13. "Forever Changed" by Carrie Underwood

Nothing ever stays the same. This 2012 country song depicts the life changes that forever marked the life of her grandmother: falling in love, becoming a mother, and now, as her life memories fade away in old age, Alzheimer's.

14. "The Locket" by Lauren Alaina

In this 2011 country song, a thoughtful grandaughter tries to prompt her grandmother to recall personally significant memories. Decades before, the old woman had been given a heart-shaped locket by her beau, the man she married and had a family with. She promised never to take it off. However, now she gifts the locket to the grandaughter, saying it's time to head on home to the boy in the locket.

15. "Raymond" by Brett Eldredge

The singer was inspired to write this 2010 country tune because his grandmother had Alzheimer's. In the song, a young man works at a nursing home. One of the patients he serves routinely mistakes him for her long-dead son, Raymond, who was killed while serving in the Vietnam War.

Although there are medications that can alleviate some of the symptoms of dementia for some people, there is no cure for the brain's gradual deterioration.

Although there are medications that can alleviate some of the symptoms of dementia for some people, there is no cure for the brain's gradual deterioration.

Famous People with Alzheimer's and Other Forms of Dementia

Dementia knows no socioeconomic boundaries and doesn't respect fame or achievement. It strikes leaders, heroes, entertainers, artists, authors and everyday people.

Casey Kasem, from American Top 40 Count Down fame and voice of "Shaggy" in Scooby Doo

Sugar Ray Robinson, champion boxer

David Cassidy, former teen idol, musician, and actor, famous for The Partridge Family

Gene Wilder, comic actor

Margaret Thatcher, first female Prime Minister of Britain

Robin Williams, actor and comedian

Rita Hayworth, dancer, pin-up, and film star

Rosa Parks, mother of the Civil RIghts movement who refused to give up her bus seat

Abigail Van Buren, advice columnist known as "Dear Abby"

Ronald Reagan, 40th U.S. President

Norman Rockwell, painter of American nostalgia

E.B. White, author of "Stuart Little" and "Charlotte's Web"

Sargent Shriver, politician and activist who organized the Peace Corps, founded Job Corps and Head Start

Glen Campbell, pop and country music artist

Charlton Heston, actor and political activist

Malcolm Young, guitarist and co-founder of AC/DC

Ralph Waldo Emerson, American transcendental poet

Pat Summitt, NCAA women's basketball coach

16. "I Know Who He Is" by William Michael Morgan

Not wanting to give in to the reality that his father is going downhill as a result of his battle with dementia, the man in this 2016 country song tells the doctor that he will remember for him. He sees his dad the way he used to be, even as changes have taken their heartwrenching toll:

Looking right through me is not at all the way I see him
I don’t mind at all remembering for him
He doesn’t have to get why I adore him
He don’t have to know me; I know who he is.

17. "Sometimes" by Charlie McGettigan

This talented Irish singer contributes a touching 2010 country song about a man who visits a longtime friend with Alzheimer's. The ailing friend cannot remember important people if his life or other details about his past. Naturally, it's painful for his friend to watch him frustrated and struggling with memories that are forever slipping away.

18. "The Way" by Fastball

A chart-topper from 1998, this rock song is about an elderly married couple who decide to pack their suitcases and leave their lives, driving away on an unannounced road trip. The song is a romanticized depiction of a real couple from Texas, Lela and Raymond Howard, who were both in their eighties. Lela suffered from Alzheimer's and Raymond was recovering from brain surgery when they set out for a nearby festival 15 miles from home.

The real couple was sadly found dead in their car at the bottom of a ravine 500 miles away only two weeks after their road trip began. However, this song imagines them setting off on a highway adventure, happy, carefree, and forever young.

19. "From His Window" by John Smith

Dedicated to his father who died from Alzheimer's, this bittersweet 1998 song describes an old man who doesn't know what day it is and doesn't speak much anymore. The disease has taken that from him.

His son, however, reflects on the man his father used to be. His dad now looks out on the world from his window—the windows at his nursing home and the car window when his son comes to take him on drives.

20. "Forget To Remember" by Megadeth

If you doubted that a hard rock song could also be poignant, then you haven't listened to this 2013 song. The narrator addresses a loved one with dementia and describes the long goodbye.

Alzheimer's affects one in 10 Americans over the age of 65.  It disproportionately strikes women, blacks, and Hispanics.

Alzheimer's affects one in 10 Americans over the age of 65. It disproportionately strikes women, blacks, and Hispanics.

Even More Songs About Alzheimer's and Dementia

Do you know a pop, rock, or country song that should be on this tribute playlist to families living with a loved one with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia? Make a suggestion in the Comments Section below.

SongArtistYear Released

21. Ellsworth

Rascal Flatts

2006

22. Remembering

Ashley Campbell

2015

23. She Misses Him

Tim Rushlow

2001

24. She Remembers Love

Mindy McCready

2001

25. Alzheimer's

Eric Church

unreleased

26. I Will Remind You

Brian Asselin

2012

27. Basket

Dan Mangan

2009

28. I Left That Body Long Ago

Amy MacDonald

2012

29. Moving Oleta

Reba McEntire

2003

30. I'm Not Me

Billy Gilman

2005

31. Remember Me

Chris Mann

2015

32. I'm Not Me Anymore

Jerry Landsdowne

2010

33. Dreamin'

Taylor Loren

2015

34. Blank Stares

Jay Allen

2017

35. My Mom

Chocolate Genius

1998

36. Hello

Amy Black

2014

37. She's Gonna Fly

Collin Raye

2000

38. The Dutchman

Steve Goodman

1972

39. Sweet Norma Jean

Mountain City

2019

40. Deadly Dull

Movements

2017

41. Time After Time

Cyndi Lauper

1984

Nearly two-thirds of Americans with Alzheimer's are women, according to the Alzheimer's Association.  Caregivers are also  disproportionately women.

Nearly two-thirds of Americans with Alzheimer's are women, according to the Alzheimer's Association. Caregivers are also disproportionately women.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2017 FlourishAnyway

Comments

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on May 27, 2020:

annmarie nic - At first blush, I thought, "No way. This is not about this topic. It's about a breakup." However, I looked at the lyrics just to see if it might apply here and it very much does. Thanks for suggesting it. I added it.

annmarie nic on May 22, 2020:

Can i please suggest Time after Time by Cyndi Lauper.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on April 19, 2020:

Peggy - It's a devastating disease. People slowly disappear before your eyes.

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on April 18, 2020:

I have known several people who were afflicted with this horrendous disease. I hope that someday they can find a cure. As to the songs, I do not think I have heard of any of them!

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on April 03, 2020:

dozjazz - Thank you for your comment. Although I haven't added it to the playlist, many people read the comments here. The links are often excerpted, however.

docjazz on April 03, 2020:

Lovely article, and unique collection of songs! Thank you. I didn't even realize there are so many songs about this topic. On my own new album 'Love in the Time of Corona' (by Doc Jazz) my song 'Leaving it up to Fate' is about how I am processing the pain of having my dear mother fall victim to Alzheimer's .

Release date is 18th of March 2020, so that would be the most recent one on your list!

It can be found on YouTube, Spotify, iTunes, and most of the other main music platforms.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on February 10, 2020:

Tom - I'm sorry about your mother. My grandmother has good days and not so good ones. She's almost 90 and can recall long ago memories but not memories of yesterday and has minimal self-insight. It's like someone has placed a blanket over her personality and only sometimes allows her to surface. What a terrible disease.

tom from Yuma, AZ on February 10, 2020:

My mom just passed away dec 20 2019 from dementia she suffered for 2 1/2 years we slowly watched our dear mother slip away one day at a time. I miss my mom more than words can ever say I feel empty inside however that emptiness started long before that dec morning. I can't thank you enough for your playlists I am going to make my own playlist about my mom and will be posting on my profile over the next few days

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 29, 2019:

Mike - Thanks for the song recommendation which I added.

Mike on June 29, 2019:

Deadly Dull ~ Movements

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 13, 2019:

Tara - I'm so sorry about your grandmother. Mine is in hospice now and just this week asked a relative what her brother's phone number was. She's been dialing that number for 55 years but now cannot remember it. He also has dementia, but his case is more advanced.

Your voice is absolutely lovely. This song honors your grandma.

Tara Powers on June 11, 2019:

My name is Tara Powers and My husband and I are a singer-songwriter duo and we love this playlist! Thank you so much for creating such a beautiful song list for so many people struggling through dementia.

We just released a song called this month called, "Sweet Norma Jean" about my Grandma who was diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2011. You can hear the song here: https://open.spotify.com/track/3UjRd1DfvO2hiMRJCWu...

Or you can listen here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSwUWOkL-S4

We wondered if you might add it to the playlist to encourage others going through the pain of dementia but offering hope through a little piece of art. Thanks so so much for your consideration. We hope you have an amazing day!!! ❤️

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 07, 2019:

Doris - I'm sorry about your friend. It's a cruel blessing to still be here in body but have your mind not work. I'm glad you enjoyed the songs. Sorry about your dad as well. My mother had a painful childhood with a father who was a hopeless alcoholic, and she is very scarred from her memories of trying in vain to establish a relationship with him.

Doris James MizBejabbers from Beautiful South on June 06, 2019:

Flourish, I’m back. I listened to the songs, of which all were very emotional. My favorite was When You Were Superman by Massive Dog. While my father didn’t have Alzheimer’s, he was alcoholic, which got worse as he got older, so I could relate to it from that. The songs by Elvis Costello and Kathy Mattea were very heartstring tugging, too. All of them were.

The connection between T3DM and Alzheimer’s was surprising. If that is so, then a number of injury-related dementias have been misdiagnosed as Alzheimer’s. I lost a good friend to an accident. As the songs go, her body is still here, but her mind is gone.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 06, 2019:

Doris, I'm sorry to hear about your uncle's wife and grandfather. My grandmother just turned 88 and is now in home hospice for other ailments, but her dementia adds to the whole situation. Some researchers in the last few years have contended that Alzheimer's is actually Type 3 diabetes, a type of diabetes in that particularly impacts the brain. I appreciate your reading and commenting.

Doris James MizBejabbers from Beautiful South on June 05, 2019:

Flourish, I didn't realize that there were so many songs about dementia. I'm reading your article late at night and commenting, but I'll come back and listen to every song. I promise.

Glen Campbell, an Arkansas boy, broke our hearts but he was so strong toward the end of his life. Robin Williams was a shock to all of us, I think. I read your chart, and I knew that only six of these people had Alzheimers or another form of dementia. It is heartbreaking.

My aunt (my uncle's wife) said that he had Alzheimers when he died. I had not realized that, but sometimes it takes living with a person and dealing with them to know it. Auntie also said my grandfather had Alzheimers, but I asked my mother once, and she said that he did not. Mom said he just had a little "senility", so apparently he never reached the severe stage if he had it at all.

As usual, you've written a great article with music that we can enjoy and think about.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2019:

John Rahilly - Thank you for this suggestion which I added.

John Rahilly on June 04, 2019:

The Dutchman by Michael Smith. See also the version by Steve Goodman.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on April 03, 2019:

Leah Reese - Thank you for sharing the creative impact that your grandfather had upon you. He lives on through your music.

Leah Reese on April 01, 2019:

I just released a song called “Don’t forget me” by Leah Reese that focuses on my Grandfather’s Dementia towards the end of his life. I really did not start writing songs until his passing and it just helped ease the loss. Now I write songs all the time about everything in my life. Thanks Grandpa for opening another door for me even as you closed your last one.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on February 01, 2019:

Peg - I'm so sorry about your mother. Thank you for sharing about her. Many people live with loved ones who have memory issues but don't talk about them. I'm sure your story registered as it did with me. Sending hugs to you.

Peg Cole from Northeast of Dallas, Texas on January 31, 2019:

Still wiping away the tears from listening to "I'm Not Going to Miss You." It really hits home when your loved ones start forgetting common things. In her late eighties, my mom told me stuff when she was still living in her home that began to make me worry. Like when she couldn't find a prescription medication that was in the same drawer where her meds were always kept. Or that her crock pot wasn't working anymore. (She had it on warm, not meant for cooking.) Toward the end, she forgot things like the year I was born and how old I was, even what year it was. She once remarked that she wished my husband had met her sister who was a real crackup. (Aunt Helen attended our wedding years earlier and was in our lives a lot.) It is heartbreaking not only to the children but to the person affected when they lose touch with memories.

You've really compiled quite a collection of songs that tell the story.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 28, 2019:

Hack Lennock - Thank you for the information. I wish you and your wife all the best.

Hack Lennock on January 28, 2019:

Great list. As a 24-7 Alzheimer's caregiver I love the Alzheimer's song "Halfway to Heaven" by Phil King. It is a song of hope. My wife is in stage 6 and still sings along every time it plays. It is on all of the digital sites. Search "Phil King Halfway to Heaven."

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 03, 2019:

David Hall - Thank you for the song suggestion which I have added at #36. Wishing you all the best, FlourishAnyway

David Hall on January 03, 2019:

Try the song "Hello" by Amy Black.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 03, 2019:

C - Thank you for drawing my attention to this song. I have added it. All the best, FlourishAnyway

C on January 02, 2019:

“My Mom” by Chocolat Genesis

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on August 15, 2018:

Connie - What a beautiful song. I've added it. Thanks so much.

Connie Brown on August 14, 2018:

Blank Stares by Jay Allen

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on March 01, 2018:

Susan, Aside from the songs on this playlist that are about dementia, you might look at these two playlists and select songs that appeal to you:

I'm Here for You Playlist: https://spinditty.com/playlists/Songs-About-Suppor...

and Songs About Survival and Perseverance in the Face of Challenge: https://hubpages.com/playlists/Survivors-Song-List... Good luck with your fundraising event.

Susan on March 01, 2018:

I work with dementia can u help with a song we have a event at work raise money

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 17, 2018:

Mister - Thanks for your comment. I think the song is about the autopilot/how did I get here moments that we have, but that's just my interpretation. I appreciate your suggestion!

Mister on January 16, 2018:

I’ve heard that Once In A Lifetime is about Alzheimer’s, though I’m not completely sure.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 16, 2018:

Frank - Thanks for such a kind compliment. This was a really meaningful playlist to put together.

Frank Atanacio on January 16, 2018:

I don't know how or why I missed this one.. wow amazing .. damn great list and the meaning of the list ..:) Frank

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on January 16, 2018:

Pamela Davis - Thank you for sharing your touching story. I have several relatives with dementia but that's a lot different from having it yourself. A big hug to you from across the internet. All the best to you and your family in your battle. - Flourish

Pamela Davis on January 16, 2018:

This is a beautiful collection of songs about Alzheimer’s Lisrening to the songs I reflected on the memories I have of my Mom, who has Alzheimer’s and smile and realize how lucky I was , or I should say is to have her in my life. I am sadden by the songs as well because I am going down the same path as her because I have significant cognitive decline. I feel for my children who are witnessing me go down this long road and pray it is not a long one for their sake.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on November 09, 2017:

Elisabeth - I'm sorry about your mother. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you the best in your healing.

Elisabeth on November 09, 2017:

Thank you so much. Many of these I hadn’t heard before. They are soooo beautiful. I wrote a song as well, a tribute to my mom. It was hard to write but was an important part of processing my emotions while caring for my parents and coming to terms with things. My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a loved one to this horrible disease

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on July 14, 2017:

Mona - It just may be my favorite playlist because it is so meaningful and the songs are so poignant, inspired by people who have traveled the difficult journey. Thank you for sharing on Facebook! Perhaps it can bring comfort to those who need it.

Mona Sabalones Gonzalez from Philippines on July 13, 2017:

Dear Flourish Anyway,

I listened to every single song on this list. In fact, I fell asleep with my computer on, and when I woke up I finished the rest of the songs. They are so beautiful. Never heard of them before, but my favorites are "Sometimes" and "Where've you been". They are really beautiful songs. Thank you so much for this list. I shared it on my Facebook page:)

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on July 01, 2017:

Devika - I appreciate that you stopped by.

DDE on June 30, 2017:

You shared an informative and most useful topic.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 12, 2017:

Jo - I'm so sorry about your mother. I'm sure you gave her all the love and support you could muster. What a terrible disease. Thank you for letting people know that they are not alone and that others experience this in their families. Big hugs to you.

Jo Miller from Tennessee on June 12, 2017:

I would never have guessed you could come up with a list for this disease. Maybe I shouldn't be surprised because it touches so many of us. I went through this agony with my mom, and still hoping we find a treatment.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 11, 2017:

Genna - Thanks so much for your kind compliment. The disease is so cruel; I agree. I appreciate your stopping by. Have a wonderful week.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 11, 2017:

Tamara - Very nice of you! I appreciate the sentiment. Thanks for following.

Genna East from Massachusetts, USA on June 10, 2017:

I only wish they would find a cure for this terrible disease - this thief -- that robs one of the soul in so many ways. Your music selection is just stunning.

Tamara Moore on June 10, 2017:

I love music, and I would like to keep up with your posts! Sometimes my device doesn't notify me of new articles by those whom I follow, so I just will try to be on the look-out.

Loving Hugs,

Tamara :-)

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 10, 2017:

Tamara Moore - Thank you for your kind endorsement! I enjoy most putting together songlists with a social or educational message. Some are just for fun, but others speak to specific populations. I'm glad you enjoyed this.

Tamara Moore on June 09, 2017:

Wow, your Hubs are very unique with the way you find the relationship between certain songs and conditions. How creative and different! I will enjoy exploring your articles!

Tamara

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 09, 2017:

Nadine - The fact that you can speak more than one language is a good thing. It's probably normal to substitute the wrong word or forget words when you're dealing with multiple languages. I'm not exactly a fluent speaker in Spanish and French but I did take them each in high school or college for two years, and even now I mix them up. I don't know how people who fluently speak multiple languages keep it all straight. Thanks for stopping by! Have a lovely weekend!

Nadine May from Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa on June 09, 2017:

Incredible about the list of songs..Interesting post...Some of the warning signs that you mention are true signs...I can truly say that two symptoms I have had all my life...

(1) Problems with language, such as forgetting simple words or substituting the wrong word....must be a Dutch / English thing for me... or (2) misplacing things.

I never knew about Margaret Thatcher ,Ronald Reagan, and Norman Rockwell..how sad.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 07, 2017:

Vellur - I agree. More research is needed so that a cure can be found. Thank you for stopping by.

Nithya Venkat from Dubai on June 07, 2017:

A great list, it is sad that no cure has been found for this disease so far. I hope science will come up with an answer soon.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 07, 2017:

Linda - I hope this sad disease doesn't strike you and that many years from now when your have lived fully, you drift peacefully in your sleep as a very old woman. Much love to you.

Linda Lum from Washington State, USA on June 06, 2017:

Oh Flourish, your comment to Larry just hit my heart to the very core. Since my mother died from Alzheimers (or at least some type of dementia), I find myself wondering if my "senior moments" are more than that.

I NEVER want my husband or children to have to feed me, bathe me, or change my diapers. If God answers my prayers, I will, like my maternal grandmother kiss my loved ones goodnight, go to bed, and die in my sleep.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 06, 2017:

Larry - if you start repeating yourself we will look for your keys in the freezer. Anyone who has a loved one with this terrible disease wonders if it will strike them as well. I know I do. Thanks for stopping by.

Larry Rankin from Oklahoma on June 06, 2017:

I had some songs I wanted you to add, but I forgot them;-)

Seriously, it's such a sad condition. I've had to deal with it with multiple family members. Sometimes you gotta laugh to stop the crying.

Wonderful list.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 06, 2017:

Rasma - It is sad, and none of us knows what our futures hold. Thank you for stopping by.

Gypsy Rose Lee from Daytona Beach, Florida on June 06, 2017:

Another great hub. Never realized there were so many songs about this. The only one I really knew was Veronica. I am so sorry such a talent like Glen Campbell has this disease and now my teen idol David Cassidy has been diagnosed with dementia. So sad.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

Linda - The topic is very sad. I appreciate you stopping by to leave a comment. Have a lovely week.

Linda Crampton from British Columbia, Canada on June 05, 2017:

This is an interesting and informative article, as always. It covers a very sad topic. Dementia in any form is a horrible condition. Thank you for publicizing it and for providing a place for people to share their experiences, Flourish.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

Kallini - Your analogy of dementia to being suspended between life and death is appropriate and sad. It's hard to watch the decline of people you love and admire who were once gifted, powerful, nurturers, brilliant thinkers, leaders, creators, and achievers become unable to even care for themselves or recognize where they are.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

MizBejabbers - I'm sorry that there are people you love who have Alzheimer's or currently show symptoms. It's terrifying, sad, and emotionally draining.

The more people share that their lives are impacted by this dreaded disease, the more we create a community of caring and support where people can find understanding. I send you you a big internet hug from across the miles.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

GalaxyRat - Thank you for sharing your family's memories. I'm sorry your great-grandfather endured this sad disease.

kallini2010 from Toronto, Canada on June 05, 2017:

Absolutely heart-breaking. Getting to grips with death is easier than gripping with the thought than I could become a burden on my family.

Nowadays, dementia takes the 1st place on the list of illnesses people are terrified of. Makes you think what is life and what is death. How far the person with Alzheimer's is willing to go with this extended release from presence to absence?

I am terrified. Of all night and (day-)mares, my worst one is imagining my brain shrinking to a size of a walnut. I've been told that "you don't have to worry, you have a large cognitive reserve". But how large is large? And what do they know anyways?

Terrifying. Unbearable. Heart-breaking.

GalaxyRat on June 05, 2017:

Beautiful. My great-grandfather had Alzheimer's. It was before I was born, and my mother had to watch him go through that. I bet one of her favorite memories was when there was a brief moment when he winked at her like he used to. He had it over 10 years before he died.

Love it.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

MsDora - Some songlists I have special people in mind, and with this one I thought of you and how you so deeply and loyally cared for your dear mother. Thank you for leaving your words of wisdom for those who are new to this journey. Bless you, sweet lady.

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on June 05, 2017:

Flourish, you can guess how much this touches me. I was caring for my mother when Glen Campbell sang his song, so I well remember. My advice to newcomers: Expect anything and pray for the capacity to love despite whatever comes.

Doris James MizBejabbers from Beautiful South on June 05, 2017:

What touching songs and a great write about a disturbing disease or condition. I'm familiar with some of them, but not most. Thanks for publishing the chart of famous people who have or have succumbed to dementia-like illnesses. In the last 10 years I've said goodbye to two dear friends, both of whom are still alive. One has Alzheimer's and the other developed dementia after a concussion and is now in a nursing home. Now I have a family member with disturbing signs of Alzheimer's. Right now he is in the midst of confusion and hurt because he realizes that he won't be lucid much longer. It really is a heartbreaking condition.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

Oh, dear Linda - I'm so sorry for your losses and impressed by your loving dedication. It is a cruel disease, one that robs the essence of a person's identity. While it may have seemed "easy" to promise never to put his wife in a care facility at the time, sadly it sounds like her needs and his would be better served if she were among health care professionals 24/7. Thank you for sharing your story. You, your neighbor and his dear wife will be in my thoughts lovingly.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

Bill - Glen Campbell's song is about as real as it gets on this topic. Thanks for stopping by.

FlourishAnyway (author) from USA on June 05, 2017:

Happymommy2520 - I'm so sorry that your dad has dementia. There are many families who are and have been in your situation, so reach out for comfort and understanding. I send you a big internet hug.

Linda Lum from Washington State, USA on June 05, 2017:

Oh Flourish, this one hits so very close to home--it was difficult to read. As you know it was Nancy Reagan who coined the phrase "the long goodbye" and dementia is certainly that.

My mother began to show signs of dementia in 1989, shortly after the death of my brother. I think his loss, even more than the death of my dad, broke a part of her that could never heal. At first it was mere forgetfulness, misplacing items and so on. When she started leaving the burners of the stove on high we removed the knobs. Doors were secured from the inside (my sister was living with her) with child safety latches so that she couldn't wander in the middle of the night. When my two little girls were playing at her house and she asked "who are those kids making all that noise" we knew she was gone. If was 9 more years until she finally faded away in a care facility specifically for those with Alzheimers.

My next door neighbor is in the end stage of the disease. Her dear, loving husband made a promise to her that he would never place her in a care facility, a promise that he has bravely kept. A year ago she could no longer walk, and has been confined to her bed, needing someone to feed, bathe, change and dress her. That used to be Donn and me working together, but we/he reached a point of recognition that we could no longer do it on our own--there is now a staff of nurses that come in several times a day to attend to her.

At times there were moments of lucidity, but now she sleeps all of the time, not eating, in a semi-comatose state. I know (and hope) that the end is soon.

What a dreadful, cruel disease.

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on June 05, 2017:

I drew a total blank on this one. I should have remembered the Campbell song since I heard it....so the list was interesting because I had no idea at all. I still love this series. Keep them coming.

Amy from East Coast on June 05, 2017:

Thanks for this article! My dad has dementia and is in a memory care facility. Thank you for bringing forth the fact that i'm not alone and it's very common.