10 Poignant Songs About the End of Life
Celebration of Life Music
These are songs that celebrate life. Songs about looking back on a life well-lived. Some are new, and some are old. Some are cheerful and some melancholy. I think each one of these songs is very special.
It was my husband who inspired me to create this list when he said of a particular song, "I want this played at my funeral."
It was not said in a sad or morbid way, it was just a song that he loved. What song would you want played at your funeral?
Songs I'd Want Played at My Funeral or Wake
Leon Russel - A Song for You
A Song for You was written and recorded by Leon Russell on his first solo album Leon Russell, which was released in 1970. It has been recorded by many other musicians, including Andy Williams and Ray Charles.
It's always been a beautiful song. Since his passing on November 13, 2016 it's part of a wonderful body of work that he left behind, and a fitting tribute to his life and his music.
It's a love song, but it's also a song about looking back at your life.
"And when my life is over,
Remember when we were together,
We were alone and
I was singing this song to you"
Warren Zevon - Keep Me in Your Heart
This song is especially poignant because Warren Zevon was diagnosed with mesothelioma In late August of 2002. Given only a few months to live, he spent his final days on one last album, The Wind.
He was very public with his diagnosis. On October 30, 2002, he appeared on Late Show with David Letterman as the only guest for the hour. Zevon had been a frequent guest and substitute bandleader on the show. The band played "I'll Sleep When I'm Dead" as his introduction. He performed several songs and talked openly about his illness.
Warren Zevon died on September 7, 2003, at the age of 56. He’d lived beyond what was expected, and was alive to see the release of that final album.
The Wind was certified gold by the RIAA in December 2003 and the album received five posthumous Grammy nominations. It went on to win in two categories. They were the only Grammys of Zevon's long career.
"When you get up in the mornin'
And you see that crazy sun,
Keep me in your heart for a while"
Jerry Jeff Walker - Wheel
This is probably one of the lesser-known songs on my list, but it’s one I fell in love with years ago. In fact, it is the song that inspired this list. A long time ago, my husband told me he wants this song played at his funeral.
Jerry Jeff Walker is an American "Outlaw" country music singer and songwriter. He earned his fame and fortune by writing the often covered song "Mr. Bojangles."
I love the imagery of “the wheel that kept spinnin’ round.”
The tractor pitched him into a ditch and
Left a dusty sound
Of the wheel that kept spinnin' round
Paul Thorn - Things Left Undone
If you haven't have heard of Paul Thorn, he is a Southern Rock, Country, Americana, and Blues singer-songwriter. Paul Thorn is a man who has a way with words. He grew up in Tupelo Mississippi, the same town as Elvis.
The song is about looking back at your life. When you face the end, what will you remember?
"Will you remember
The trophies you've won,
Or will you look back on
The things left undone?"
Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) - Green Day
This song is not really about dying. It was written about the end of a relationship. "Good Riddance," not many people would say that about life.
Billie Joe Armstrong wrote "Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)." It was released on Green Day's 5th album Nimrod in 1997. Green Day is a punk band. This mellow acoustic sound and these contemplative lyrics are not typical of their music.
The song is popular as graduation music, but to me it sounds like an end of life song. There was an episode of the TV medical drama ER, where it was sung at the funeral of a young boy.
It was a song that he had loved, and listened to often during his illness. The nurse who cared for him (Jeanie Boulet, played by Gloria Reuben) was scheduled to sing a more traditional funeral song, but spontaneously decided to sing his favorite song instead. It seemed very fitting.
"It's something unpredictable,
But in the end is right,
I hope you had the time of your life."
Jim Croce - Time in a Bottle
When Jim Croce wrote these lyrics in 1970, he had no way of knowing how true they were for him personally. Life must have seemed pretty good. His wife was pregnant with their first child, and in 1972 he released two albums, and Life and Times. He had a #1 hit song with "Bad, Bad Leroy Brown." You Don't Mess Around with Jim
When Croce died in a plane crash in 1973, the lyrics of his song, "Time in a Bottle," took on greater meaning. It got a lot of airplay on the radio, and was soon released as a single. It became his second, and last #1 hit song.
"There never seems to be enough time
To do the things you want to do
Once you find them."
Grateful Dead - Ripple
Robert Hunter wrote the lyrics to “Ripple,” Jerry Garcia wrote the music. It was on the Grateful Dead’s album American Beauty released on November 1, 1970.
The mysterious lyrics seem wise and serene, with a touch of sadness. The song pays homage to both Christianity and Buddhism. The lines about cups, empty and full, recall the 23rd Psalm. The haiku chorus stands out, because it departs from the rhyme pattern of the verses.
"Reach out your hand if your cup be empty
If your cup is full may it be again
Let it be known there is a fountain
That was not made by the hands of men"
Blood Sweat & Tears - And When I Die
I have always loved the song “And When I Die” by Blood, Sweat and Tears. Actually, I just found out that the song was written by a woman named Laura Nyro, who recorded it herself in 1967.
Peter, Paul and Mary recorded the song too, but I think most people who know the song are like me, and remember the Blood, Sweat and Tears version.
I love the positive take on dying in the song.
If you watch the video below, it is a live version with an awesome tuba solo (how often do you hear that?) The tuba section is kind of long though, but hang in there, the end is worth it.
"I swear their ain't no heaven and I pray their ain't no hell, but I'll never know by living, only my dying will tell."
Delbert McClinton - Real Good Time
Born in Lubbock in 1940, and raised in Fort Worth, Delbert McClinton is a master of Texas Blues. He is a singer, songwriter and harmonica player who is equally comfortable with country, blues and rock and roll.
This upbeat little song is off his Cost of Living album, released in December of 2008. It would be nice to be able to leave life with this kind of attitude.
Well, I love this life but it's doing me in
Just in case I don't ever see you again
I had a real good time
Steve Goodman - A Dying Cubs Fan's Last Request
Steve Goodman was an American folk-singer and songwriter from Chicago Illinois. His big break came when he stopped Arlo Guthrie outside of a nightclub and asked him to listen to one of his songs. The song was “City of New Orleans,” which Guthrie went on to record. It is Goodman's best-known song.
Goodman died from leukemia on September 20, 1984 at the age of 36. He was diagnosed with the disease while he was in college. Living on borrowed time, he packed a lifetime into those remaining years that he had, marrying, fathering children, touring, playing music and writing songs. I can't help but wonder what he might be doing today if he were still here. He was a man of short stature, but with a big heart and big talent.
Goodman was a huge fan of the Chicago Cubs. "A Dying Cub Fan's Last Request” is a humorous song he wrote for them. Another song of his, "Go, Cubs, Go," is played at Wrigley Field after Cubs wins. It was chosen over "A Dying Cub Fan's Last Request,” which was considered too depressing.
This song had a resurgence in attention after the Cubs won the World Series on November 2, 2016.
"Give me a doubleheader funeral
In Wrigley Field
On some sunny weekend day,
Have the organ play the National Anthem,
And then a little 'Na Na Na Na,
Hey Hey Hey, Goodbye'"