17 Greatest Classic Rhythm and Blues Love Songs

Love songs have been around for thousands of years and who’s to say which ones are the best; but since I’m crazy about producing lists of all sorts, I’ll give it a try. The rhythm and blues genre—often abbreviated as R&B—has certainly provided numerous tunes designed to put one in the mood for all manner of romantic possibilities, so here is the rated list of those soulful classics:

Album: Spinners

Year Released: 1976

The Spinners, aka the Motown or Detroit Spinners, formed way back in 1961, but the group didn’t produce hit songs until the 1970s (perhaps the golden age of R&B). In 1973, the Spinners released “Could It Be I’m Falling in Love,” which reached number one on the R&B chart and number four on the Billboard Pop Singles chart.

The Spinners have produced other great hit singles, such as “One of a Kind Love Affair” and “I’ll Be Around,” their first top ten hit.

Album: Forever Your Girl

Year Released: 1988

One of four number one singles on Paula Abdul’s debut album Forever Your Girl, “Opposites Attract” is a song about a boy and girl who have little in common except they love each other. Have you been there? Anyway, Abdul’s video of the song features her dancing through a cityscape with a rotoscoped, animated wolf. This music video was a huge hit back in the day and won a Grammy Award for Best Short Form Music Video in 1990.

Other hits on Forever Your Girl, for which seven million records were sold, are the songs “Straight UP,” “Forever Your Girl” and “Cold Hearted.”

Album: Saturday Night Fever soundtrack

Year Released: 1977

Formed way back in 1958, the Bee Gees didn’t soar to popularity until the middle 1970s when the disco era hit the pop music world; and perhaps the greatest album of disco was the Saturday Night Fever soundtrack, which won five Grammy Awards. The song “How Deep Is Your Love” features the Bee Gees’ R&B falsetto, highlighting a pop ballad that certainly has an R&B feel. The song reached #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 late in December 1977.

This tune was ranked #375 on Rolling Stone’s list of the 500 Greatest Songs of All Time produced in 2004; and Barry Gibb, of the three brothers Gibb, said it was his favorite Bee Gees’ song.

Album: In Square Circle

Year released: 1985

Stevie Wonder started his professional career at 11, so he’s certainly had his share of time to write and perform hit R&B tunes. “Go Home” is a song about a man who wants his girlfriend to go home, yet she insists on staying with him. The song hit #2 on the Billboard Rhythm and Blues chart and #10 on the Billboard Pop Singles chart.

Stevie Wonder has won 25 Grammy Awards and produced countless songs over the decades. Some of his other hits are “My Cherie Amour,” “Superstition,” “You Are the Sunshine of My Life” and “That’s What Friends Are For.”

Album: Tower of Power

Year Released: 1976

“So Very Hard to Go” is a torchy ballad written by Emilio Castillo and Stephen Kupka, two horn players who can also write lyrics and are in fact the oldest current members of TOP as of 2020. Sang by Lenny Williams, perhaps their greatest lead singer ever, the single hit #17 on the Billboard Hot 100 and is the band’s biggest selling single to date in the US.

“So Very Hard to Go” is included on TOP’s eponymous third album, which many think is their best ever; be that as it may, their first three albums—East Bay Grease, Bump City and Tower of Power—are all R&B classics.

Album: That's the Way of the World

Year Released: 1975

Earth, Wind and Fire (EWF), a super group in the R&B genre (the author really can’t say enough good words about these illustrious guys), was formed in 1969 by Maurice White, one of the band’s lead singers. “Reasons,” was featured on the album That’s the Way of the World. While, unbelievably, the song never charted, it’s endured as a classic R&B love song.

Many other EWF songs could be included here, particularly “Can’t Hide Love,” “That’s the Way of the World,” and “After the Love Is Gone.”

Album: After 7

Year Released: 1989

It seems safe to say every song on this list is one you’ll never get tired of. “Ready or Not,” produced by After 7 (a group formed in 1988 by the Edmonds brothers) in 1990, and co-written by prolific artist Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds, will keep drifting softly through your mind until the end of time. By the way, “Ready or Not” was the first of two number one hit singles featured on the group’s self-titled debut album.

In the mid-'90s, After 7 broke up, but not before producing a cover of the Hall & Oates’ R&B classic, “Sarah Smile” (in 1997).

Album: Whitney Houston

Year Released: 1985

The late, great Whitney Houston sang many amazing tunes, and perhaps the best of the lot is “Saving All My Love for You,” her first number one hit on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. Released in 1985, the song is a cover of Marilyn McCoo and Billy Davis Jr.'s minor 1978 hit. However, when Whitney sang the ballad, it became an overnight sensation and helped launch her meteoric career.

For recording the song, Whitney won the Grammy Award (the first of six) for the Best Pop Vocal Performance in 1985.

Album: Thriller

Year Released: 1982

One of many hit songs on Jackson’s album, Thriller (the bestselling album of all time in the United States), “Lady in My Life” excels as a classic R&B love song. Although the song wasn’t a hit single (overshadowed by Thriller’s numerous iconic tunes), “Lady in My Life” has an unforgettable melody, and Michael’s singing on it rips at one’s heartstrings until the tears fall like rain—or something like that.

Album: Bump City

Year Released: 1972

“You’re Still a Young Man," the first hit by Tower of Power, a funk/soul/R&B band created in the late 1960s, was written by Emilio Castillo and Stephen Kupka. They were the band’s primary songwriters, as well as the most notable musicians in a horn section that has become iconic in the world of pop music.

This song is about a young man who has a crush on an older woman, who tells him, “you’re still a young man, baby...oh, don’t waste your time.”

Album: Toni Braxton

Year Released: 1993

Since around 1990, when she performed with her sisters as The Braxtons, Toni Braxton has been the quintessential R&B diva. Going solo in 1993, Braxton has produced numerous hit singles. In 1994, among a plethora of soulful tunes, Braxton produced “You Mean the World to Me.”

Along with “Un-Break My Heart,” another mega hit, “You Mean the World to Me” will forever remain in the hearts of fans of classic R&B.

Album: Breezin’

Year Released: 1976

An exceptional jazz guitarist at the time, George Benson hit his stride as a hit solo artist in the 1970s, perhaps his greatest decade in terms of popularity and commercial success. “This Masquerade,” written by Leon Russell, became a much covered single in the 1970s, but Benson’s version was the only one to hit the charts, reaching #10 on the Billboard Hot 100. In 1977, Benson’s version won a Grammy Award for Best Record of the Year.

Other hit tunes by George Benson are “Gonna Love You More,” “The Greatest Love of All” and “Give Me the Night.”

Album: Whatcha See Is Whatcha Get

Year Released: 1971

The Dramatics formed in 1962, but they didn’t hit the big time until 1971, when they released the hit single, “Whatcha See Is Whatcha Get." This album became a mega hit, reaching number nine on the Billboard Hot 100 and selling over a million copies (thereby achieving gold record status).

Other Dramatics’ smash hits include “In the Rain,” a number one R&B hit and “All Because of You,” the quintet’s first hit single, produced in 1967.

Album: Daryl Hall and John Oates

Year Released: 1975

Crooners of what has been called blue eyed soul, Hall and Oates may be the most well known duo in the history of American pop music. “Sara Smile” was the duo’s first top ten hit, reaching #4 on the Billboard Hot 100. Written and recorded by Hall and Oates, “Sara Smile” is about Daryl Hall’s girlfriend, Sara Allen, with whom he had a romantic relationship for 30 years.

Hall and Oates’ other number one hits are “Rich Girl,” “Private Eyes,” “Kiss on My List,” “Maneater” and “I Can’t Go for That (No Can Do).”

Album: Make It Last Forever

Year Released: 1987

As many R&B artists seemed to have done, Keith Sweat spawned a hit single with the release of his first album. “Make It Last Forever” made it to number two on the Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart.

In addition to performing on every song on the album, Sweat also wrote or co-wrote many of the songs and, along with Teddy Riley, produced the album as well.

Album: Rapture

Year Released: 1986

Spawned from Anita Baker’s second studio album, Rapture, produced in 1986, “Sweet Love” hit the charts like a tsunami, surging to number three on the Billboard R&B chart and number eight on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. The following year, the song, which Baker co-wrote with Louis Johnson and Gary Bias, won the Grammy Award for Best R&B Song.

The same year, Rapture won the Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal performance. Anita Baker's career definitely began with a huge splash.

Album: Gratitude

Year Released: 1976

Earth, Wind & Fire is often considered to be one of the greatest bands of all time and is certainly one of the best-selling bands of all time. The band won six Grammy Awards and they are an inductee in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. They covered "Can't Hide Love" (written by Creative Source in 1973) which reached #48 on the Billboard Hot Singles R&B chart and #39 on the Billboard Hot 100. Those are not exactly high ratings for this illustrious assemblage, but this song provides a haunting, emotional gravity you never get tired of hearing. In fact, in the world of R&B, it’s practically iconic!

In 2008, Prince gave a live performance of “Can’t Hide Love” in Manhattan, New York. And Earth, Wind & Fire’s version of the song was nominated for a Grammy Award.