Neil Sedaka: His Serenade to Carole King and Her Reply
My favorite singer in the '50s and '60s was Neil Sedaka. This is a review of his career, what got him started with songwriting, songs that made him famous, and how he even changed his songs later in life for his children.
One thing that is little known: He dated Carole King, who was born on February 9, 1942. He wrote the song "Oh Carol" in 1958 for her. Even less known: Carole responded with a song of her own—about Neil. I have the lyrics to that in this article below.
How Neil Sedaka Got Started
Neil Sedaka was born on March 13, 1939, in Brighton Beach, Brooklyn, New York. His father was the son of a Turkish immigrant and his mother was of Polish-Russian descent.
He wrote songs together with Howard Greenfield, who was his next-door neighbor and childhood friend. When Howard's mother overheard Neil playing the piano, she introduced her son to him. He was 13 at the time. Howard, who was 16, became an aspiring poet and lyricist. The two of them continued to write lyrics together.
Neil used to scratch out the name of the singer on records and write in his own name to see what it looked like. I guess he was preparing for a future in the limelight.
His focus on being a singer/songwriter became a reality when he graduated from the Julliard School of Music. He became a great piano player and was a concert pianist at Julliard.
I consider him to be a very talented singer and a creative songwriter. I loved the lyrics of his songs. As a romantic, even at a young age, I especially liked his song "Oh Carol" and I memorized the lyrics and sang it over and over when I was young.
Neil Sedaka and Carole King Serenade Each Other
"Oh, Carol" was actually a serenade for Carole King, who was Neil's girlfriend in the late 1950s.
Carole King's response to "Oh, Carol" was with a song she wrote for Neil. She called it "Oh, Neil." — How fitting.
I included both songs in YouTube videos below for you to hear. You can also follow along with Carole's lyrics that are just below her video.
Neil Sedaka Sings "Oh Carol" (Dec 5th, 1959)
Carole King Sings "Oh Neil" (1959)
"Oh Neil" Lyrics by Carole King
Did you know Carole King wrote "Oh Neil" ?
Original Neil Sedaka Songs
"Breakin' Up Is Hard To Do"
I'm not sure if Neil wrote this song when he broke up with Carole King. But I know how strong feelings can make one become creative with the need to talk about it. Or sing about it as Neil had done.
See how young he was in this video? Time has surely flown by for all of us.
When you watch this, keep an eye on the girls in the back just for the fun of it. They may have been stand-ins hired for the photo shoot. They must have been happy to have had the opportunity to be on stage with Neil. They seem to be glad to be watching Neil from so close up.
This video of Calendar Girl was strangely made. At one time Neil is playing the piano as he sings. At another time he is standing with the girls. Then suddenly he is playing a completely different piano!
After watching this a few times I suddenly realized the color of the piano changed to represent the different days of the calendar. Notice how the days of the calendar behind him have different colors. And the piano changes between white to red. I guess they only had two pianos to do that video.
It was unusual for a video to be in color at that time. It was one of a few that used color technology already.
The sexy models really add a nice touch to the video. And their costumes are great. Looks like Neil is enjoying himself singing with all those girls.
"Happy Birthday Sweet Sixteen"
"Tonight's the night I've waited for. Because you're not a baby anymore."
Possible Translation: You're not jail bait anymore.
It was such an innocent time back in the '50s. With the way we think today, that song takes on a totally different meaning. Or maybe he did mean it the way we interpret it.
Solitaire was not very well known. He recorded this one in a music-special in 1982 when he was older.
Notice the different style of his singing. This video shows his experience as a concert pianist at the Julliard Scholl of Music.
Neil has always been a great piano player and here he plays and sings. There are so many times where I just saw him sing to the music without playing the piano.
"Should've Never Let You Go"
Neil's daughter, Dara Sedaka, acquired a lot of his talent by singing with him. It has been a rare opportunity to see Neil sing with his daughter.
"Heaven Must Have Sent You From Above"
If you want to hear one more from Dara Sedaka, Neil and his talented daughter sing this memorable Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell song.
Inspired by his kids, Neil changed the lyrics of some of his songs to appeal to children.
Sedaka's Songs for Children
Being inspired by his kids, Neil rewrote 11 of his songs with themes for children. He used a play-on-words to change the titles and modified the lyrics to turn them into children's songs. Then he combined them into an album. You can find it on Amazon: . Waking Up Is Hard To Do
Isn't it amazing what creative ideas come to us when we have children to focus on? I think this is priceless. Neil has three grandchildren. Twin girls and a grandson. And they all love his old songs.
These new songs are selling on Amazon and are fun gifts for your own kids. We grew up with Neil. Now your little ones can hear the same melodies with lyrics all for them. Such as "Lunch Will Keep Us Together," "Where The Toys Are," and "Waking Up Is Hard To Do."
Comparison of Sedaka's Songs and Their Children's Versions
Where The Boys Are
Where The Toys Are
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
Waking Up Is Hard To Do
Love Will Keep Us Together
Lunch Will Keep Us Together
Happy Birthday Sweet Sixteen
Happy Birthday Number Three
Neil talked about how his grandchildren inspired him to rewrite the lyrics to some of his songs when he was interviewed by Huckabee.
You can hear him sing his new version "Lunch Will Keep Us Together" in this recorded interview on YouTube:
I liked listening to Neil Sedaka sing because I could actually hear and understand his lyrics. Some other singers either let the music overpower their voice, or the voice track simply wasn't clear.
Maybe it's just me. I find that this problem still exists today with a lot of songs by other artists where I have trouble understanding some lyrics. I never had that problem with Neil Sedaka and I still enjoy listening to his music today.
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© 2011 Glenn Stok